Ngangishintsha Kanjani Iqembu Lami Lokusekela i-MBC

Mngani Othandekayo,

Uma utholakale unomdlavuza webele, noma wafunda ukuthi une-metastasized, mhlawumbe uyazibuza ukuthi yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo.

Into eyodwa ebalulekile ukuba nayo uhlelo oluhle lokusekela. Ngeshwa, kwesinye isikhathi umndeni nabangane kungenzeka bangahlinzeki ngosizo oludingayo. Yilapho ukwazi khona futhi kufanele ucabangele amaqembu osizo angaphandle.

Amaqembu okusekela angakwethula kubantu ongabazi nhlobo, kepha laba ngabantu abake baba lapho futhi abangabelana ngemininingwane ebalulekile ngalokho ongakulindela kuloluhambo olungalindelekile.

Ngenxa yobuchwepheshe, kunezinhlelo zokusebenza eziningi ezinikeza usizo. Awudingi nokushiya ukunethezeka kwekhaya lakho. Ungawafinyelela ngenkathi usohambeni, noma ngabe imizuzu embalwa lapha nalaphaya ngenkathi ulinde ehhovisi likadokotela noma phakathi kwama-aphoyintimenti.

Ngithole indawo yami ephephile kwi-Breast Cancer Healthline (BCH). Ngohlelo lokusebenza, ngihlangane nabantu abahlukahlukene abahlala emhlabeni wonke.

Sabelana ngamathiphu nsuku zonke mayelana nokuthi yini esizayo ngesikhathi sokwelashwa - {textend} kusuka kumikhiqizo oyisebenzisela ezikhundleni ozolala kuzo ngemuva kokuhlinzwa. Lonke lolu lwazi lusiza ukwenza lolu hambo lomdlavuza lubekezeleleke kancane.

Ukuxilongwa komdlavuza webele we-metastatic (MBC) kungaba kukhulu. Kuningi ukuqokwa kodokotela ongaya kukho, noma ngabe kwenzelwa umsebenzi wegazi noma ukuskena okusha.

Kungaba nzima ukukhumbula lonke ulwazi oluhlobene nomsebenzi ngamunye. Lokhu kungasifaka emgodini ongenamkhawulo esinomuzwa wokuthi ngeke siphume kuwo.

Umphakathi wami ongisekelayo ungisizile ukwenza izinqumo ngezingxoxo ezishukumisa ukucabanga. Ngiyakwazi ukufunda ukuqonda mayelana nezinketho zokwelashwa, imiphumela emibi, umphumela we-MBC ebudlelwaneni, inqubo yokwakhiwa kabusha kwamabele, ukukhathazeka ngokusinda, nokuningi.

Singabuza nemibuzo ngezihloko ezithile futhi sithole izimpendulo kuchwepheshe emkhakheni womdlavuza webele.

Lezi zingxoxo ezinempilo zingivumele ukuba ngikwazi ukuxhumana nabantu abanjengami. Futhi, ngifunde ukwenza olwami ucwaningo, ngibuze imibuzo, futhi ngisebenze ngokwengeziwe ekwelashweni kwami. Ngifunde ukuzikhulumela.

Ukukhuluma ngezinto ezingikhathazayo nokuqoqa imininingwane kusiza ukucubungula nokubuyisela ukulawula okuthile empilweni yami.

Endleleni, ngithole ugqozi nethemba, ngafunda ukubekezela, futhi ngaba nomqondo oqinile wokuzethemba. Wonke umuntu eqenjini lami lokusekela unomusa, uyamukela, futhi uyakhuthaza kumuntu ngamunye njengoba sizama ukuzulazula kulo mgwaqo.

Ngihlale ngenza iminikelo yokupha ezingeni lomphakathi. Ngibambe iqhaza emisebenzini eminingi yokuqongelela imali, kepha umphakathi wami ongisekelayo ungikhuthaze ukuthi ngihlanganyele ngokukhethekile ekumeleleni umdlavuza webele.

Ngithole injongo yami, futhi ngizinikele ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi akekho umuntu ozizwa eyedwa.

Ukuphokophela injongo ngaphandle kwakho kukhuthaza ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba ngowesifazane ophilayo ngokuphelele. Izingxoxo zeqembu lokusekelwa zingisiza ukuba ngithole ukuqonda okungcono kokuthi kusho ukuthini ukukwazi ukuqhubeka nokuphila, ngaphandle kokutholakala kwe-MBC.

Sakhe ubudlelwano emphakathini wethu we-BCH ngoba sonke sazi kahle ukuthi sibhekene nani. Kufana ne-jean elilingana kahle nathi sonke, noma ngabe sonke sihlukile ngobukhulu nobukhulu.

Sifunde ukujwayela futhi siphendule ngokufanele. Akuyona impi noma impi, kungukushintsha kwendlela yokuphila. Lawo mazwi wokulwa asikisela ukuthi kumele siwine, futhi uma singenzi kanjalo, ngandlela thile silahlekile. Kodwa ingabe kunjalo ngempela?

Lokho ukuxilongwa kwe-metastatic okwenzayo ukuthi kusiphoqa ukuba senze konke okusemandleni futhi sibe khona ngokugcwele nsuku zonke. Ngeqembu lokwesekwa langempela, uthola izwi lakho bese uthola izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokubhekana nazo, futhi lokho kulingana nokuwina.

Ngenkathi ungazizwa ukuthi konke kukhulu kakhulu, yazi ukuthi kuneqembu lamalungu omphakathi laphaya alungele futhi azimisele ukulalela nokuphendula imibuzo yakho.

Ozithobayo,

UVictoria

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UVictoria ungunkosikazi ohlala ekhaya nomama wezingane ezimbili ezihlala e-Indiana. Une-BA in Communication evela ePurdue University. Watholwa ene-MBC ngo-Okthoba 2018. Kusukela lapho, ubenothando olukhulu lokukhuthaza i-MBC. Ngesikhathi sakhe sokuphumula, uyazivolontiya ezinhlanganweni ezahlukahlukene. Uthanda ukuhamba, ukuthatha izithombe newayini.