Okufanele Ukwenze Lapho Abantu Bengeke Bakuveze, Noma i-Psoriasis Yakho
Ikhula, iningi lentsha lihlangabezana nedrama ebaluleke kakhulu eza nokuthomba futhi lifune ukwamukeleka "ezinganeni ezipholile."
Mina - {textend} Nganginakho lokho ukubhekana necala elihlanyayo le-psoriasis, elangishiya ngizizwa ngihlukaniswe ngokumangalisayo isikhathi esiningi sobuntwana bami. Ukuzithanda kwakungeyona into engangikwazi ngisho nayo ngalesi sikhathi sempilo yami.
Uma ubhekene ne-psoriasis noma esinye isimo sempilo esingapheli, kungenzeka ukuthi nawe ungahlobana nalowo muzwa wokuhlukaniswa.
Ukuzizwa nginesizungu kwakuyinto yami ejwayelekile. Lapho ngiba nethuba lokuxhumana nabangane nomndeni, ngangivame ukudlulisa imininingwane yezingqinamba enganginazo, kufaka phakathi ukukhungatheka kwami ngesikhumba sami, ukudabuka kwami ngokungafani nabanye abantu, nentukuthelo yami ngempilo. Engikufundile, nokho, ukuthi akuwona wonke umuntu ohlale ekuhlomele ngokuphelele ukwazi ukuthi angakucubungula kanjani konke okwenzeka empilweni yami.
Wake wakuphawula lokho ngaphambili? Ukuthi ekugcineni ungathola isibindi sokuveza umphefumulo wakho kothile, futhi ngasizathu simbe, ukusabela kwabo kukho kushoda ukuxhumana okujulile nozwela obukade ukulangazelela? Uma kunjalo, awuwedwa!
Imvamisa, noma ngabe ngangisanda kutshela othile okuthile okusondelene impela, ngangizizwa nginesizungu kakhulu futhi ngiveziwe kunangaphambili. Futhi kwangishiya ngingaqiniseki ukuthi ngingaqhubeka kanjani ngizama ukuhlakulela ubungane isikhashana. Engikufundile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuthi lokhu kuphendula bekungakimi. Kungenzeka ukuthi lowo muntu ubephendula ngendlela engcono kakhulu abazi ngayo, engazi ukuthi lokho kuzoba namthelela muni kimi kulowo mzuzu!
Enye yezindlela ezinkulu kakhulu zokuzinakekela kulezi zikhathi ezisengozini nezethenda nabanye ukuthi sibe nesibindi esanele sokucela esikudingayo. Ngeke uhlale wazi ukuthi izidingo zakho zikuphi umzuzu ngamunye, kepha uma ukwazi, zama ukwethula isabelo ngokutshela umuntu ukuthi ungalusebenzisa ngempela uthando olwengeziwe. Noma ukuthi udinga umuntu ozokuzwa njengamanje. Ungamangala ukuthi bakwazi kanjani ukukhombisa ukwehluka!
Izikhathi eziningi abantu bavela ngendlela ethile ngoba bacabanga ukuthi badinga ukukusindisa noma ukukulungisa. Lapho ubazisa ukuthi akunjalo, ibavumela ukuthi babe khona ngempela ngawe. Ukucela okudingayo futhi kuyindlela enamandla kakhulu yokwenza ukuthanda wena.
Ngakho-ke ngokuzayo lapho ufisa lokho kusekelwa okujulile futhi uzwakale ngempela empilweni yakho, khetha izethameli zakho ngokuhlakanipha. Ngifunde (ekugcineni) ukuthi yize abantu abaningi bebengazi ukuthi bazongibonisa kanjani, bekungumsebenzi wami ukufuna labo abangangibonisa. Futhi ngethembe, bakhona lapho! Silinde ukuvela kwakho futhi ulalele ngothando.
Ungazivumeli ukuba ukhishwe inyumbazane noma uguqulele izinkinga zakho ngaphakathi. Lokho ngeke kukusize. Ziphusheni nize nithole isizwe esingahlala nani, nonke. Kuyifanele kakhulu futhi kuzokudala ukukhululeka okukhulu empilweni yakho. Uzokwazi nokubona ukuthi likhula kanjani ikhono lakho lokuzithanda. Lapho uzizwa usekelwa kakhulu abanye, isikhathi esiningi ozosithatha sokutshala imali ekuzithandeni wena. Thembisa!
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