UTess Holliday Wabelana Ngokuthi Kungani Engasathumeli Ukusebenza Kwakhe Ku-Social Media

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UTess Holliday ungamandla okumele abhekwe uma kuziwa ekuphikiseni okulindelwe okungenangqondo kobuhle. Selokhu aqala umnyakazo othi #EffYourBeautyStandards ngo-2013, lo mlingisi uye wamemezela ngesibindi izigameko zokuhlanjalazwa umzimba (kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kusehhotela noma ku-Uber), ubelokhu ekhuluma ngokuthi kungani omama babo bonke osayizi befanele ukuzizwa be-sexy, futhi uzenzile. icala lokuthi kungani ukuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki kungaba umzimba omuhle. Manje, i-Holliday ingena ku-Instagram futhi, kulokhu ukwabelana ngemibono yakhe mayelana nesiko lokufaneleka kanye nenkundla yezokuxhumana.

Embhalweni wakhe wokuqala ku-Instagram ka-2021, uHolliday wabelane ngevidiyo yokuthi kungani engeke athumele ukusebenzisa kwakhe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana onyakeni omusha.

“Ngeke ngikutshele ukuthi ngiyajima noma nginyakazisa umzimba wami ukuze ngikhombise ukuthi ngiyasebenza,” usho kanje kuvidiyo ekhuluma nabalandeli bakhe. (Kuhlobene: Indlela uTess Holliday Akhulisa Ngayo Ukuzethemba Ngomzimba Wakhe Ngezinsuku Ezimbi)

"Njengomuntu okhuluphele kulo mzimba, ngiphelile ukuthi abantu basebenzisa umzimba wami, basebenzise imizimba yabantu abakhuluphele, njengezikhali zokulwa nabo ukuqhubekisela phambili ukulandisa kokuthi abantu abakhuluphele 'babi' nokuthi 'siyingozi' nokuthi singabantu 'usongo emphakathini,'" kuqhuba yena.

Esikhundleni sokuthumela ukujima kwakhe, uHolliday unqume ukuthi uzophinda agxilise amandla akhe ekuzilolongeni ngoba nje ekujabulela. "Ngifuna ukukwenza, futhi ngiyabelana ngakho ukuze ngininike ithuba lokubheka impilo yami, hhayi ngoba kunokuthile engingakufakazela," esho kule video. "Ngeke ngibe yisiphakamiso sabantu abazokwethusa abanye ukuze baphile impilo eyiqiniso kakhulu ngoba ayihambelani nalesi sikhunta esincanyana nesihlanyayo." (Okuhlobene: UTess Holliday Uzihlanganise Nemfashini Yokubonisa iqoqo le- # EffYourBeautyStandards)

Njengoba singena onyakeni omusha, uHolliday uthe ufuna ukuhola ngesibonelo ekusizeni abantu ukuthi babone ukuthi yonke imizimba ifanelwe ukwamukelwa nokwaziswa, kungakhathalekile ukuma noma usayizi. "Akekho umuntu okufanelekela ukuthandwa nokwamukelwa ngoba nje esebenza noma enomzimba othonisiwe," ebhala kumagama-ncazo wokuthunyelwe kwakhe. "Umsebenzi wami kulo mhlaba ukusiza abanye ukuba beze endaweni yokwamukela futhi ngethemba ukuthi bayayithanda imizimba yabo manje, yilokho kuphela."

Akukhona okokuqala uHolliday ecacisa ukuthi kungani ukuthumela izithombe zokujima ku-Instagram kungaba yinkinga. Eposini lango-2019, waphumela obala ngokuthi okuthunyelwe kokuqina kwesinye isikhathi kungangena kanjani kusiko lokuzikhandla emsebenzini noma isidingo sokubonakala “ematasa” futhi “ephithizela” ngaso sonke isikhathi.

"Ukuba 'matasa' kuhle, kepha isiko lethu lokusebenza ngokweqile linzima ngezindlela eziningi," wabhala ngaleso sikhathi. "Angikahlanganisi okwengeziwe ngohambo lwami lokufaneleka [ngoba] kunenhlamba kubantu abakhuluphele abasebenzayo. Nakuba kuzwakala kuwubuwula ukusho, uhambo lwangempela." (Okuhlobene: UTess Holliday Wabelana Ngokuthi Isimo Sakhe Somzimba Sashintsha Kanjani Ngesikhathi Sokuba Umama)

Ngezansi: IHolliday ifuna kwaziwe ukuthi okwenziwa ngabantu ngemizimba yabo yibhizinisi labo futhi akulona elomunye umuntu nokuthi ukuphela kokuqinisekisa okudingayo okuvela kuwe - hhayi abalandeli bakho be-Instagram (noma omunye umuntu, ngalokho). Njengoba uHolliday ahlanganyela kuvidiyo yakhe: "Zivocavoce uma ufuna [noma] ungaphumeleli. Akunandaba ngempela, inqobo nje uma ujabulile futhi inqobo nje uma inhliziyo yakho nezinhloso zakho kuhlanzekile, ingabe kunjalo? ."

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