Nakhu Ukuphila Nomdlavuza Webele Othuthukile Kubukeka Kanje

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• UTammy Carmona, 43
  Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2013
• USue Maughan, 49
  Isigaba 3, Sitholwe ngo-2016
• ULorraine Elmo, 45
  Isigaba 1, Sitholwe ngo-2015
• URenee Sendelbach, oneminyaka engama-39
  Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2008
• UMary Gooze, 66
  Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2014
• U-Ann Silberman, 59
  Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2009
• UShelley Warner, 47
  Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2015
• UNicole McLean, 48
  Isigaba 3, Sitholwe ngo-2008

UTammy Carmona, 43
Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2013

Iseluleko sami kothile osanda kutholakala ukuthi kungaba ukumemeza, ukukhala, nokudedela yonke imizwa oyizwayo iphume. Impilo yakho isanda kwenza i-180. Unelungelo lokudabuka, udinwe, futhi wesabe. Awudingi ukubeka ubuso obunesibindi. Yidedele. Lapho-ke, lapho ubamba iqiniso lakho elisha, zifundise futhi ube nolwazi. Ungummeli wakho omkhulu. Thola iqembu lokusekelana, ngoba kusiza ukukhuluma nabanye ababhekene nokuxilongwa okufanayo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, phila! Zisebenzise kahle izinsuku zakho zokuthi "uzizwe kamnandi". Phuma wenze izinkumbulo!

USue Maughan, 49
Isigaba 3, Sitholwe ngo-2016

Lapho ngitholwa, ngazitshela ukuthi ukuba nolunye lwezinhlobo zomdlavuza ezivame kakhulu kusho umbono omuhle kakhulu wokwelashwa nokusinda. Ukulinda imiphumela yokuskena kwakungenye yezingxenye ezinzima kakhulu, kepha lapho sengikwazi enginakho, ngakwazi ukugxila ekwelashweni. Ngabheka imininingwane nezeluleko ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngiqale ibhulogi ukugcina umndeni nabangane bavuselelwa ngenqubekela phambili yami. Ngempela yaba yi-cathartic futhi yangisiza ukuba ngigcine amahlaya ami. Uma ngibheka emuva manje, cishe unyaka ngemuva kokutholakala kwami, angikholwa ukuthi ngadlula kukho konke. Ngithole amandla angaphakathi ebengingazi ukuthi akhona. Iseluleko sami kunoma ngubani onesifo esisanda kutholakala ungethuki, thatha konke isinyathelo esisodwa ngesikhathi, futhi ube nethemba ngangokunokwenzeka. Lalela umzimba wakho futhi uzenzele umusa. Kungabonakala njengokuthusa kakhulu ekuqaleni, kepha ungakwazi futhi uzokwazi ukukuqeda.

ULorraine Elmo, 45
Isigaba 1, Sitholwe ngo-2015

Izeluleko ezibaluleke kakhulu enginazo kwabanye besifazane ukuthola ukwesekwa kwamanye amaqhawe abomvana. Yithi kuphela esingaduduzana futhi sizwisisane nokuthi yini esibhekene nayo. "Ikhasi lami elibomvana" kuFacebook (iLorraine's Big Pink Adventure) linayo leyo njongo. Cabanga ukuthatha isinyathelo emuva bese ufakaza ohambweni lwakho. Vuleleka ekwamukeleni uthando nokuphulukiswa kwabanye, futhi uvulele izimangaliso. Cabanga ngokuthi "ungayikhokha kanjani phambili" futhi usize abanye abadlula kule mpi. Yiba futhi wenze konke empilweni ofise ukuphupha ukuba khona nokwenzayo. Hlala ugxile okwamanje futhi ubale izibusiso zakho. Hlonipha ukwesaba kwakho, kodwa ungakuvumeli bakulawule noma bathole okuhle kuwe. Yenza izinqumo ezinempilo futhi uzinakekele kahle. Noma yini oyenzayo, ungacabangi ukuthi ulahlekelwe noma ukuthi ukucela usizo kuwubuthakathaka noma umthwalo. Ukucabanga okuhle, ukuhlala ukhona, nokukhokha phambili kungasindisa impilo yakho. Ngiphendukele ebusheni bami nasengqondweni yami ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu, futhi yangisindisa. Ingakusindisa nawe.

URenee Sendelbach, oneminyaka engama-39
Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2008

Kufanele ukhumbule ukuyithatha yonke usuku olulodwa ngesikhathi. Uma lokho kubonakala kunzima, thatha ihora noma imizuzu imizuzu ngesikhathi. Khumbula njalo ukuthi uphefumule umoya wakho ngomzuzu ngamunye. Lapho ngitholwa, ngabheka yonke inqubo eyayiphambi kwami, futhi lokho kwangikhulula ngokuphelele. Kepha lapho sengiyihlukanise ngezigaba, njengokuqeda i-chemo, ukuhlinzwa, nemisebe, ngazizwa ngilawula ngokwengeziwe. Ngisasebenzisa le ndlela namuhla ngiphila nomdlavuza wesigaba 4 nomdlavuza wesibili wama-myelodysplastic syndromes. Kwezinye izinsuku ngize ngize ngiyehlukanise ngokuqhubekayo, ngehora noma ngaphansi ngasikhathi, ukukhumbula ukuphefumula nokudlula esimweni.

UMary Gooze, 66
Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2014

Iseluleko sami kowesifazane osanda kutholakala ukuthi waziswe futhi ube ngummeli wakho. Zifundise ngohlobo lomdlavuza onawo nemithi yokwelashwa etholakalayo. Letha omunye umuntu ezikhundleni zakho ukuze babhale konke phansi. Buza imibuzo kudokotela wakho bese uthola iqembu lokusekela. Thola isifiso sokuphishekela, njengokuzivocavoca, ukubhala, noma ukwakha noma yini ukuze uzigcine ubandakanyekile futhi ungagxili kumdlavuza nsuku zonke. Phila impilo ngokugcwele!

U-Ann Silberman, 59
Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2009

Vumela ukudabuka futhi uzwe ukulahleka, okufana nekusasa lakho, impilo yakho, kanye nezimali zakho. Kubuhlungu kakhulu, kepha uzokwazi ukuvumelana nakho. Khumbula ukuthi abaningi bethu baphila isikhathi eside kakhulu manje. Umdlavuza webele we-Metastatic ususondele ekubeni yisifo esingelapheki, eselaphekayo. Kholwa njalo ukuthi ungaphila iminyaka eminingi ngaphezu kwalokho okushiwo izibalo zakudala. Sekuyiminyaka eyisithupha selokhu ngathola ukuxilongwa kanye neminyaka emibili selokhu ngaqala ukukhula. Ngenza kahle ngaphandle kwezinkomba zokuthi izinto zizoshintsha zibe zimbi kakhulu. Inhloso yami ngaleso sikhathi kwakuwukubona indodana yami encane iqeda isikole. Ngonyaka ozayo, uzophothula izifundo zakhe zasekolishi. Yiba namaqiniso, kodwa gcina ithemba liphila.

UShelley Warner, 47
Isigaba 4, Sitholwe ngo-2015

Ungavumeli umdlavuza ukukuchaze. Umdlavuza webele akusona isigwebo sentambo! Kuphathwa njengesifo esingalapheki futhi kungagcinwa iminyaka eminingi. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba nayo yisimo sengqondo esihle. Phila nsuku zonke ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngiyasebenza, ngiyahamba, futhi ngenza zonke izinto ebengizenzile ngaphambi kokuthi ngitholwe. Ungazidabukeli, futhi ngicela ungalaleli abantu abeza kuwe nemibono ekwelapheni umdlavuza. Phila impilo yakho. Ngangihlale ngidla kahle kakhulu, ngivocavoca umzimba, ngingabhemi, futhi ngangisithola lesi sifo. Phila impilo yakho futhi ujabulele!

UNicole McLean, 48
Isigaba 3, Sitholwe ngo-2008

Kwatholakala ukuthi nginomdlavuza webele ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwami ​​kweminyaka engama-40. Njengabantu abaningi, ngangicabanga ukuthi ngiyazi ngalesi sifo, kepha ngafunda ukuthi kuningi kakhulu okumele ngikuqonde.Ungavumela abakwa- “what-if” bakudicilele phansi, noma wamukele umqondo ohlukile. Asikabi nalo ikhambi, kepha ngenkathi usaphila, udinga ukuhlala esikhathini samanje. Umdlavuza webele wangivezela ukuthi bengingaphili futhi ngijabulela impilo yami. Bengichitha isikhathi esiningi ngifisa sengathi izinto zehlukile noma ngifisa ukuthi ngabe ngihlukile. Eqinisweni, ngangikahle. Angiwudalanga umdlavuza wami webele, futhi angikwazi ukunquma ukuthi ngizoba nokuphindeka yini esikhathini esizayo. Kodwa okwamanje, ngingenza lokho okufanele ngikwenze ukuze ngizinakekele futhi ngifunde ukujabulela impilo enginayo. Umdlavuza webele unzima, kepha ungaveza onamandla kunawe okwaziyo.