Ingabe Ukugqoka Amasokisi Kuyakusiza Ngempela I-Orgasm?

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• Lapho Kwaqala khona Amasokisi & I-Orgasm Tale
• Kulungile, Ngabe Injalo Theory Legit?
• Ingabe Kuyasebenza Ngempela?
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Ngesinye isikhathi, emhlabeni owandulela ubhubhane lomhlaba wonke, ngangithandana nomfana waseBrazil ngenkathi ngihlala e-Barcelona. (Lowo musho uwodwa ungenza ngilangazelele izinsuku zokuhamba namadoda aseBrazil, kodwa lokho kukodwa nje.) Lo mfana, u-Diego, wayengumshicileli ochwepheshile owayebukeka njengoDonald Glover, futhi naphezu kokungakwazi kwethu ukuxhumana I-Google Translate - ubekhuluma isiPutukezi futhi akekho kithi obekade eyiqonda kahle iSpanishi ukuze akwazi ukuxoxa kahle - ubemnandi kakhulu embhedeni. Kodwa kwakukhona into eyodwa eyayingicasula: Wayehlala egqoke isokisi ngesikhathi socansi. Njalo.

Lapho ngimbuza ukuthi kungani, i-Google Translate ingazise ukuthi lokho ayekusho ngesi-Portuguese, ukuthi "ucansi lwalungcono ngale ndlela." Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kungahle kuhlangane neqiniso lokuthi kugcina izinzwane zakhe zifudumele futhi zithokomele egumbini ebengilibeke ku-68 ° F ukuvimba ukushisa kwehlobo laseBarcelona.

Ngenkathi ngabelana ngokusondelana kwakhe ngokugqoka amasokisi embhedeni nomngane wami, wangitshela ukuthi, "okuthiwa," ukusebenzisa igama lakhe ngqo, amasokisi adlale indima enkulu ekukwazini i-orgasm. Ngikuthathe njengenganekwane yasemadolobheni. Bengivele ngitsheliwe ukuthi amadoda ayakwazi ukubopha isiqu sikacherry ngolimi anekhono elikhulu ekunikezeni ucansi lomlomo futhi, njengoba ekade esemncane. ukuthi inganekwane, wakwazi ukuyikhipha ngokushesha. (Ngiyacela, i-clit yami ingamasentimitha amabili ngasenyakatho.)

Kepha njengakuzo zonke izinganekwane zakudala zomfazi, inganekwane yasemadolobheni, namahemuhemu okutholakala kumdlalo wocingo lwamasiko, kuvame ukususelwa okuthile. Futhi kulokho okuthize, kukhona okungenani umshoshaphansi weqiniso.

Lapho Kwaqala khona Amasokisi & I-Orgasm Tale

Impande yanamuhla yamahemuhemu ibuyela ocwaningweni oluthile lwe-orgasm olwenziwe ngonyaka we-2005 yi-University of Groningen eNetherlands. Lolu cwaningo, obeluhlanganisa imibhangqwana engu-13 ehlonza abantu bobulili obuhlukile phakathi kweminyaka engu-19 no-49, beluluncane kakhulu futhi lusondelene. Endaweni elawulwayo, umbhangqwana ngamunye wawushintshana ngokukhuthazana, kuyilapho ubuchopho babo buhlolwa ukuze kubonakale ukuthi yiziphi izingxenye ezikhanyiswayo, njengoba kwabikwa yi-BBC.

Okunye okutholakele ocwaningweni kwaba ukuxhumana phakathi kokunethezeka nekhono le-orgasm. Abesifazane, ikakhulukazi, bangafinyelela kuvuthondaba kalula uma ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwabo kududuziwe. "Uma wesaba, kunzima kakhulu ukuya ocansini," uprofesa Gert Holstege, umcwaningi oholayo ocwaningweni, etshela i-BBC. "Kunzima kakhulu ukukukhulula." Ucwaningo luthole ukuthi amadoda, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngokuvamile athola induduzo ngokwazi ukuthi azokhuthazeka. Ngakho-ke lapho zivuselelwa, ukufinyelela kuvuthondaba (ezimweni eziningi) akunakugwenywa.

Konke lokhu kuhlobana kanjani namasokisi? Ucwaningo luphawule nokuthi izinyawo ezibandayo bezimi endleleni ye-orgasm: Amaphesenti ama-50 emibhangqwana ikwazile ukwenza i-orgasm ngaphandle kwamasokisi, kepha ngenkathi igqoke amasokisi, lelo phesenti leqa lafinyelela kuma-80%. Ngeshwa, ucwaningo luye lwaphula kuphela imiphumela ngemibhangqwana (hhayi ngobulili), ngakho-ke akucaci ukuthi ngubani, kahle-hle, othambekele kakhulu ngamasokisi. Kodwa-ke, njengoba i-Holstege ibike ukuthi abesifazane, ikakhulukazi, badinga ukuzizwa bevikelekile futhi beduduzekile ukuze baphumule ngokwanele ukuze bafinyelele umvuthwandaba, kunengqondo ukuthi le miphumela ingase ibonise kakhulu abesifazane. (Okuhlobene: Izinzuzo ze-7 Zezempilo Zama-Orgasms)

Kulungile, Ngabe Injalo Theory Legit?

Konke okushiwo, ucwaningo okunzima ukuluthola olwenziwa imibhangqwana engu-13 nje aluyona ingqikithi yobufakazi besayensi. Kodwa-ke, olunye ucwaningo, ochwepheshe bezocansi, kanye nezazi zezocansi bahle kakhulu ebhodini ngokusebenzisa amasokisi ukukhulisa amathuba okuba ne-orgasm.

Kokukodwa, uHolstege wayephezu kokuthile ngayo yonke into "yenduduzo". Ngokungeza ungqimba lokunethezeka - ngokoqobo, ngamasokisi - ungandisa imizwa yokuphepha nokukhathazeka okuphansi, kusho u-Alex Fine, i-CEO kanye nomsunguli we-Dame Products.

Ku-2016, iqembu labaphenyi eFinland lishicilele abakutholile ocwaningweni olunhlanu lukazwelonke locansi olwenziwe eminyakeni eminingana ukubona ukuthi yiziphi izinto ezihlotshaniswa nesimo esandayo sokugcotshwa kwabesifazane. Imiphumela ithole ukuthi, kwabaningi besifazane, ukufana kwabo ne-orgasm kwakucwile ekuphepheni ngokomzwelo; ama-orgasms ayenzeka kakhulu lapho abesifazane besesimweni nomuntu "ozizwa kahle" noma "osebenza kahle ngokomzwelo."

Impela, induduzo ingokomzimba njengoba ingokwengqondo - ngisho nangaphandle kokuhlangenwe nakho kocansi, abantu abaningi bangalazi iqiniso lokuthi imfudumalo iletha imizwa yokuphepha ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo, kusho umqeqeshi wezocansi nokusondelana u-Irene Fehr.

"Ezingeni lokuphila okuyisisekelo, ukubanda kubhekwa njengengozi emzimbeni, okudala ukuthi kube nokulwa noma ukuphendula ngendiza - futhi lokho kuphambene nempendulo yokuphumula edingeka kwi-orgasm," kusho uFehr. Lapho kunesimo sokuxwayisa ngengozi, i-amygdala, ingxenye yokucubungula ukwesaba, ikhahlela ngokuzenzakalela ukuskena imvelo futhi iqoqe imininingwane ukuthola ukuthi uphephile yini. Khona-ke, “njengakunoma yikuphi ukulwa noma ukusabela kwendiza, igazi ligijima lisuke ezithweni zangasese liye kwezinye izingxenye zomzimba ezibalulekile ezidingekayo ukuze usinde, limise ukuvuka kwenkanuko futhi liphazamise indlela eya ku-orgasm,” usho kanje.

Kodwa-ke, lapho umzimba ukhululekile ngokwemvelo - noma ngabe lokho kusuke kufudumele ngokwanele noma usesimweni esihle - uzizwa uphephile ngokwemvelo, kusho uFehr. "Imisipha iyakhululeka, ingqondo iyancipha, igazi ligelezela ezithweni zangasese - konke lokhu kudala ukuvusa inkanuko futhi kungeze nethuba lokuthi kube ne-orgasm."

UCarol Queen, Ph.d., umbhali, isazi sezenhlalo, kanye nesazi sezocansi sabasebenzi beGood Vibrations, siyavumelana nalo muzwa. "Izinyawo ezibandayo zingaphazamisa i-orgasm yabantu abathile ngokuba umyalezo oqhubekayo we-neural ophazamisa umjikelezo wokuphendula ucansi," usho kanje. "Ngokujwayelekile, izinzwa zomzimba zisebenza ndawonye lapho umuntu evuliwe futhi esondela ku-orgasm. Ukuvikelwa ekugodoleni ngokugqoka amasokisi kungathula lokhu kuphazamiseka."

Yiqiniso, izinyawo ezibandayo akuzona kuphela iziphazamiso noma iziphazamiso umuntu angahlangabezana nazo, kusho uQueen. Ukungqongqoza okungazelelwe emnyango, ngokwesibonelo, kungakhuthaza umthelela ofanayo wokulwa noma wendiza, ukubeka umuzwa wokuphepha engcupheni.

"Kubila ukunethezeka nokusakazwa kwegazi," kuvuma uGigi Engle, uchwepheshe we-SKYN wezocansi nokusondelana, umqeqeshi wezocansi oqinisekisiwe, isazi sezocansi nombhali Wonke Amaphutha E-F*cking: Umhlahlandlela Wezocansi, Uthando, Nempilo. "Uma ucabanga ngezinzwane zakho ezifriziwe, kukukhipha engqondweni yenjabulo ehlanganisiwe - lokhu kubalulekile kuma-orgasms ngoba i-orgasm ingubuchopho kanye nesipiliyoni somzimba. Ukukhululeka nokuzizwa uphephile ngesikhathi socansi kuyingxenye enkulu yokuthokozisa isipiliyoni. Futhi ukuba nezinyawo ezifudumele kuyisici salokho kududuza." (Okuhlobene: Indlela Ucansi Lwe-Kinky Olungenza Ngayo Ukhumbule Ngaphezulu)

Ingabe Kuyasebenza Ngempela?

Ngibuze abangani nozakwethu, okokuqala, ukuthi bake bezwa ngalokhu, futhi okwesibili, ukuthi bake bakuzwa yini. Yize iningi labantu lalizwile ngaleli qhinga, labo ababelizamile - amaphesenti angama-43, kepha lokhu kuvela kuvoti ye-Instagram yabantu abangu- ~ 80, nazi - bonke babesemkhakheni wezempilo yezocansi kanye nemfundo yezocansi.

"Bengihlala ngicabanga ukuthi ukuze uye ocansini kumele ube nqunu ngokuphelele," kusho uMelissa A. Vitale, obhekele izindaba zomphakathi futhi ongumsunguli weVice PR Agency, esebenza nezinkampani zamathoyizi ocansi kanye namaqembu ezocansi, kubandakanya iNSFW. "Ngake ngezwa indaba yamakhosikazi amadala mayelana namasokisi enza ucansi lube ngcono ngendlela efanayo naleyo yokuthi uma ugqoke amagilavu ​​awubandi kakhulu. Uma ama-appendages akho efudumele umzimba wakho wonke awubandi futhi lokhu kwakufanele. sikusize ube nesiphazamiso esisodwa ngesikhathi sokudlala. "

Isisho esidala sokuthi iziphetho ezifudumele zilingana nomzimba ofudumele azinembile ngokuphelele, okungenani ngokusho kocwaningo oluthile oluthole ukuthi izandla ezibandayo azinawo umthelela ekushiseni kwesisu. Kodwa-ke, iphepha elisebenza ngonyaka ka-2015 elenziwa yiNational Bureau of Economic Research liqaphele ukuthi ukushintsha kwesimo sezulu kunomthelela emazingeni okuzalwa, kubalula ukuthi "ukweqisa kwezinga lokushisa kungathinta imvamisa yama-coital." Okushoyo, imizimba kukhona ethintwa ukushisa uma kukhulunywa ngocansi.

Kodwa okuhlangenwe nakho kuka-Vitale kubuyela ocwaningweni olwaphuma eNyuvesi yaseGroningen: ukuzizwa unethezekile, uvikelekile, futhi uvikelekile kumqondo osulungele ukuba ne-orgasm. Impela, uthi konke lokho ndawonye kumenze waba ngumuntu oguqula amasokisi-ngesikhathi socansi. U-Engle uyavuma: “Angivamile ukuya ocansini ngingawafakile amasokisi ngoba lungisiza ukuba ngibe ne-orgasm kalula ngoba angicabangi ukuthi izinyawo zami zibanda kangakanani.

Ngabe lokhu kusho ukuthi wonke umuntu ofaka amasokisi ngamabili ngesikhathi esizayo lapho bezokwenza ucansi uqinisekisiwe njenge-orgasm? Vele akunjalo. Kodwa uma ungakayizami - noma uhlala ubanda - kufanele udutshulwe.

Ngemuva kwakho konke, awunalutho olulahlekelayo; ngena emasokisini osuvele unawo, noma utshale imali kumapheya ahehayo, afika emathangeni akwenza ujabule. Ungathola ukuthi obekulahlekile sonke lesi sikhathi ngamasokisi athokomele ukubeka ingqondo yakho ngokukhululeka, ukunciphisa lawo mazinga okukhathazeka, bese kukuvumela ukuthi uncibilike ungene ku-orgasmic ecstasy.

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