Kusho Ukuthini Ngempela Ukuba Nohlobo Lobuntu

-Delile

• Yiziphi ezinye izici zobuntu bohlobo A?
• Ihluke kanjani kubuntu bohlobo B?
• Yiziphi izinzuzo nezimbi zokuba nobuntu bohlobo A?
• Buhle
• Nebubi
• Amathiphu wokuphila kahle ngohlobo A lobuntu

Ubuntu bungahlukaniswa ngezindlela eziningi. Mhlawumbe uthathe isivivinyo ngokuya ngenye yalezi zindlela, njenge-Myers-Briggs Type Indicator noma i-Big Five yokusungula.

Ukwahlukanisa ubuntu kuhlobo A nohlobo B kuyindlela eyodwa yokuchaza ubuntu obuhlukile, noma ngabe lokhu kuhlukaniswa kungabonakala njengobubanzi obuningi, no-A no-B emaphethelweni ahlukile. Kuvamile ukuba nenhlanganisela yohlobo A nezici zohlobo B.

Ngokuvamile, abantu abanobuntu bohlobo A bavame ukubonakala njengalokhu:

• Kuqhutshwa
• ukusebenza kanzima
• ezimisele ukuphumelela

Imvamisa ziyashesha futhi zithathe isinqumo, ngokuthambekela ekusebenzeni okuningi. Bangase futhi babe nezinga eliphezulu lokucindezeleka. Lokhu kuholele abacwaningi ngawo-1950s and 1960s ukuthi basikisele ukuthi abantu abanohlobo lwe-A ubuntu babenesifo senhliziyo, yize lokhu kamuva kwasuswa.

Yiziphi ezinye izici zobuntu bohlobo A?

Ayikho incazelo eqinile yokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba nobuntu bohlobo A, futhi izici zingahluka kancane kumuntu nomuntu.

Ngokuvamile, uma unesimo sohlobo A, unga:

• unenkambiso yokwenza izinto eziningi
• ukuncintisana
• ube nezifiso eziningi
• zihleleke kakhulu
• ukungathandi ukuchitha isikhathi
• uzizwe uphelelwe yisineke noma ucasukile lapho wephuzile
• sebenzisa isikhathi sakho esiningi ugxile emsebenzini
• gxila kakhulu ezinhlosweni zakho
• ube sethubeni lokuthola ingcindezi lapho ubhekene nokulibaziseka noma ezinye izinselelo ezithinta impumelelo

Ukuba nobuntu bohlobo A ngokuvamile kusho ukuthi uthola isikhathi sakho sibaluleke kakhulu. Abantu bangakuchaza njengomuntu okhuthazekile, ongenasineke, noma bobabili. Imicabango yakho nezinqubo zangaphakathi kungenzeka zigxile emibonweni kakhonkolo nemisebenzi eseduze eseduze.

Umuzwa wokuphuthuma emsebenzini ungakuholela ekutheni uzame ukubamba izinto eziningi ngasikhathi sinye, imvamisa ngaphandle kwekhefu. Ungahle uthambekele ekuzigxekeni, ikakhulukazi uma bekufanele ushiye okuthile kungenziwanga noma uzizwe ungawenzanga umsebenzi omuhle.

Ihluke kanjani kubuntu bohlobo B?

Uhlobo lohlobo B lunguzakwabo kohlobo A lobuntu. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi lezi zinhlobo zibonisa okuningi kwe-spectrum. Iningi labantu liwela ndawo thile phakathi kwalezi zinto ezimbili ezeqisayo.

Abantu abanobuntu bohlobo B bavame ukubuyela emuva kakhulu. Abanye bangachaza abantu abanalo buntu njengabakhululekile noma abathanda izinto.

Uma unobuntu bohlobo B, unga:

• chitha isikhathi esiningi ekuphishekeleni izinto zobuciko noma emcabangweni wefilosofi
• uzizwe ungasheshi lapho uqeda izabelo noma imisebenzi yomsebenzi noma yesikole
• ungazizwa ucindezelekile lapho ungakwazi ukufinyelela kukho konke ohlwini lwakho lwezinto okufanele zenziwe

Ukuba nobuntu bohlobo B akusho ukuthi awukaze uzizwe ucindezelekile. Kepha ungahle uma ungahlangabezani nezinhloso zakho uma uqhathanisa nabantu abanobuntu bohlobo A. Ungase futhi ukuthole kulula ukulawula ukucindezeleka.

Yiziphi izinzuzo nezimbi zokuba nobuntu bohlobo A?

Ubuntu buyingxenye yalokho okwenza ube yilokho oyikho. Akunabuntu "obuhle" noma "obubi". Ukuba nobuntu bohlobo A kuza nesethi yaso yobuhle nobubi bayo.

Buhle

Thayipha izindlela zokuziphatha ezingasiza, ikakhulukazi emsebenzini. Uma uqondile futhi uthatha isinqumo ngesifiso esinamandla nekhono lokufeza izinhloso zakho, mhlawumbe uzokwenza kahle ezindimeni zobuholi.

Lapho ubhekene nenselelo, ungahle ukhethe ukuthatha isinyathelo esisheshayo esikhundleni sokubonisana amahora amaningi. Ungakuthola futhi kulula ukuqhubekela phambili lapho isimo siba nzima. Lezi zimfanelo zingabaluleka kakhulu kokubili emsebenzini nasekhaya.

Nebubi

Ukuziphatha kohlobo A kwesinye isikhathi kuhlotshaniswa nengcindezi. Kungazizwa kungokwemvelo ukwenza amaphrojekthi amaningi ngasikhathi, kepha lokhu kungaholela ekucindezelekeni, noma ngabe ukhetha ukwenza okuningi ngasikhathi sinye.

Ezinye izinhlobo zohlobo A, njengokuthambekela kokuqhubeka nokusebenza kuze kube kwenziwa konke, kungeza kulokhu kucindezeleka.

Ngenkathi ukucindezeleka kwesinye isikhathi kuwusizo ekukuqhubekiseleni esimweni esinzima, kungathinta impilo yakho engokomzimba nengokomzwelo uma uyekwa ungalawulwa.

Ungase uthambekele kakhulu ekubeni nentukuthelo emfushane. Uma othile noma into ikubambezela, ungahle usabele ngokubekezela, ukucasuka, noma inzondo. Lokhu kungaholela ezinkingeni ebudlelwaneni bakho bomuntu siqu nobuchwepheshe.

Amathiphu wokuphila kahle ngohlobo A lobuntu

Khumbula, ukuba nobuntu bohlobo A akuyona into enhle noma embi. Uma ucabanga ukuthi unobuntu bohlobo A, akudingeki ukhathazeke ngokuzama ukukushintsha.

Kodwa-ke, uma ubhekana nezinga eliphezulu lokucindezeleka, kungasiza ukwakha izindlela ezithile zokulawula ukucindezeleka, ikakhulukazi uma uvame ukusabela ezimweni ezicindezelayo ngentukuthelo, ukucasuka noma ubutha.

Ukubhekana nengcindezi, cabanga ukuzama amanye amathiphu alandelayo:

• Thola izingcipho zakho. Wonke umuntu unezimbangela ezahlukahlukene zokucindezeleka. Ukuvele ubakhombe ngaphambi kokuthi babe yinkinga kungakusiza ukuthi uthole izindlela zokuzungeza noma unciphise ukuvezwa kwakho kubo.
• Thatha ikhefu. Noma kungenzeki ukugwema ngokuphelele isimo esicindezelayo, ungazinikeza okungenani imizuzu engu-15 ukuphefumula, ukukhuluma nomngani, noma ukujabulela inkomishi yetiye noma ikhofi. Ukuzinika isikhathi sokuziqoqa kungakusiza ukuthi ubhekane nenselelo ngokuzethemba okukhulu.
• Yenza isikhathi sokuzivocavoca umzimba. Ukuthatha imizuzu engu-15 noma engama-20 nsuku zonke ngokwenza umsebenzi okhuphula izinga lokushaya kwenhliziyo yakho kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka futhi kuthuthukise imizwa yakho. Ukuhamba ngezinyawo noma ukuhamba ngebhayisikili uya emsebenzini esikhundleni sokushayela kungakusiza ugweme ukuhamba kwehora futhi uqale usuku lwakho ngamandla akhuphukile.
• Zijwayeze ukuzinakekela. Kubalulekile ukuzinakekela, ikakhulukazi uma ucindezelekile. Ukuzinakekela kungabandakanya ukudla ukudla okunomsoco, ukukhuthala, nokulala ngokwanele, kanye nokuthatha isikhathi sokujabulela izinto ozithandayo, ukuba wedwa nokuphumula.
• Funda izindlela ezintsha zokuphumula. Ukuzindla, ukuphefumula, i-yoga, neminye imisebenzi efanayo kungehlisa izinga lokushaya kwenhliziyo nomfutho wegazi, kunciphise ama-hormone okuxineka futhi kukusize uzizwe uzolile.
• Khuluma nomelaphi. Uma kunzima ukubhekana nengcindezi uwedwa, uchwepheshe oqeqeshiwe wezempilo yengqondo angakusiza ukuthi ubone imithombo yengcindezi futhi akusekele ekufundeni ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nayo.