Ukuba ngumzali ongenazandla: Ngabe Ingane Yakho Izobamba Nini Ibhodlela Layo?

-Delile

• Isilinganiso seminyaka yokufinyelela le ngqophamlando
• Izimpawu ingane ikulungele ukuzibamba ibhodlela
• Ungayikhuthaza kanjani ingane yakho ukuthi iziphathele ibhodlela layo
• Izinyathelo okufanele uzikhumbule lapho uyeka ukulawula ibhodlela
• Ingabe ingane kufanele ibambe ibhodlela layo?
• Ukuthatha

Uma sicabanga ngezinyathelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zezingane, sivame ukucabanga ngezinkulu wonke umuntu abuza ngazo - ukukhasa, ukulala ubusuku bonke (haleluya), ukuhamba, ukushaya izandla, ukusho igama lokuqala.

Kodwa kwesinye isikhathi kuba yizinto ezincane.

Icala ngephuzu: Isikhathi sokuqala lapho ingane yakho iphethe ibhodlela layo (noma enye into - njengothisha - obudinga ukuyibambela yona), uyabona ukuthi ulahlekelwe kangakanani ukuba nesandla esengeziwe sokwenza izinto .

Kungaba ushintsho lomdlalo, empeleni. Kodwa futhi akuyona ingqophamlando yonke ingane ezofinyelela kuyo endleleni eya kwamanye amabanga (njengokuphatha inkomishi njengosana), futhi kulungile, futhi.

Isilinganiso seminyaka yokufinyelela le ngqophamlando

Ezinye izingane zingazibambela amabhodlela azo ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ubudala.Lokho akusho ukuthi ngeke kwenzeke ngokushesha noma kamuva - kukhona ububanzi obujwayelekile obujwayelekile.

Isilinganiso singasondela ezinyangeni eziyi-8 noma eziyi-9, lapho izingane zinamandla namakhono amahle emoto okuphatha izinto (ngisho eyodwa esandleni ngasinye!) Futhi zibaqondise lapho bafuna ukuya khona (njengasemilonyeni yabo).

Ngakho-ke uhla lwezinyanga eziyisithupha kuya kweziyishumi lujwayelekile ngokuphelele.

Izingane ezisanda kushintshela ebhodleleni kungenzeka zingakabi nayo intshisekelo yokuyibamba, noma ngabe amandla nokuhlangana kwayo kungakuvumela lokho.

Ngokunjalo, izingane ezinentshisekelo eyengeziwe ekudleni - nakho okujwayelekile ngokuphelele, ngendlela - zingabamba ibhodlela phambilini. Lapho kukhona khona intando kukhona indlela, njengoba kusho isisho.

Kepha khumbula ukuthi le ngqophamlando nayo ayidingekile - noma izuzisa ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Cishe uneminyaka engu-1, uzobe ufuna ukulumula ingane yakho kuvaliwe ibhodlela. Ngakho-ke ungahle ungafuni ukuthi ingane yakho incike kakhulu emcabangweni wokuthi ibhodlela elabo, kuphela lapho uzama ukukususa ezinyangeni ezimbalwa kamuva.

Iphuzu eliyinhloko: Usazofuna ukuphatha ukuphatha ukuncelisa ibhodlela, noma ngabe sebengakubamba.

Izimpawu ingane ikulungele ukuzibamba ibhodlela

Uma ingane yakho ingekho okwamanje, ungakhathazeki - kungenzeka ukuthi akukho lutho olungahambi kahle ngokuxhumana kwayo. Yonke ingane yehlukile. Kepha uma ubona lezi zimpawu, lungela ukushaya izandla zakho mahhala nge-glee, ngoba ukubamba ibhodlela okuzimele (noma ukuphuza enkomishini, ongafuna ukuqala ukukhuthaza esikhundleni) kusendleleni.

• omncane wakho angahlala yedwa
• ngenkathi uhleli, ingane yakho encane ingahlala ibhalansile ngenkathi idlala nethoyizi ngesandla
• ingane yakho ifinyelela izinto bese izithatha ihleli
• ingane yakho ifinyelela ukudla (okufanele iminyaka yobudala) oyinika yona futhi ikulethe emlonyeni wayo
• omncane wakho ubeka isandla noma zombili izandla ebhodleleni noma enkomishini lapho uzondla

Ungayikhuthaza kanjani ingane yakho ukuthi iziphathele ibhodlela layo

Njengoba iningi labazali lazi, ingane yenza lokho ingane ekufunayo ukuthi ingane ifuna kuphi futhi kuphi.

Kepha uma ubheka ukukhuthaza ngobumnene umntanakho ukuthi anikeze umama isandla (ngokoqobo), ungazama:

• ukukhombisa ukunyakaza ngesandla ukuya emlonyeni ngokuthatha izinto eziphephile ezinganeni (njengama-teether) nokuziletha zisuka ezingeni eliphansi ziye emlonyeni wengane
• ukuthenga amabhodlela okuqonda kalula noma izinkomishi ezinesibambo ezinezibambo (ingane izodinga ukusebenzisa izandla ezimbili ukubamba ibhodlela, okungenani ekuqaleni)
• ukubeka izandla zabo ebhodleleni bese bebeka ezakho phezulu - bese beqondisa ibhodlela emlonyeni wabo
• ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi sakha amandla engane, njengesikhathi sesisu

Ingane yakho kufanele ukuthi ihlale yodwa ngaphambi kokuzondla, njengoba kuyinto okufanele yenziwe isesimweni esiqonde kakhulu. Isikhathi sesimumu sizobasiza futhi ukuba bathole amandla ayisisekelo aleli khono, futhi ungabakhuthaza futhi ukuthi bafike lapho ngokuhlala nabo emathangeni akho.

Kepha futhi, cabanga ngokucophelela ukuthi ngabe ufuna ingane iphethe ibhodlela labo, ngezizathu esesishilo.

Ukugxila kakhulu ekuvumeleni ingane yakho izondle yona futhi uyifundise ukuthi ingabamba futhi iphuze kanjani enkomishini yayo (ecekethekileyo noma ejwayelekile) esihlalweni esiphakeme, ngenkathi iqhubeka nokuba yiyo enikeza ibhodlela, kungenye indlela yokukhuthaza ukuzimela nokuyifundisa amakhono .

Izinyathelo okufanele uzikhumbule lapho uyeka ukulawula ibhodlela

Akungabazeki ukuthi umzuzu okhazimulayo lapho ingane yakho ingazondla khona. Kepha abakakhuli ngokwanele futhi bahlakaniphe ngokwanele ukuthi bahlale bekhetha okuhle kakhulu, ngakho-ke akufanele ubashiyele kumadivayisi abo.

Izinyathelo ezintathu okufanele uzikhumbule:

Khumbula ukuthi ibhodlela elenzelwe ukondla, hhayi ukunethezeka noma ukulala. Ukunikeza ingane yakho ibhodlela lobisi (noma ngisho nobisi enkomishini e-sippy) ukuthi ilibambe bese liqhubeka nokwenza ezinye izinto kungahle kungabi umkhuba onempilo.

Gwema ukushiya omncane wakho embhedeni wabo nebhodlela. Ngenkathi bengakuthokozela kakhulu ukuziphuzela ukulala, ukuya ezweni lamaphupho nebhodlela emlonyeni akuwona umqondo omuhle. Ubisi lungaqoqa luzungeze amazinyo abo futhi lukhuthaze ukubola kwamazinyo esikhathini eside futhi luklinye esikhathini esifushane.

Esikhundleni salokho, yondla ingane yakho ngaphambi nje kokuyilalisa (noma uyivumele ikwenze ngeso lakho elibukayo) bese usula ngobumnene izinsini namazinyo ayo angenalo ubisi. Uma umzabalazo wokubenza balale ngaphandle kwengono emlonyeni wabo ungokoqobo, pop in a pacifier.

Uma ingane yakho ingakakwazi ukubamba ibhodlela layo, melana nesilingo sokusebenzisa noma yini ukuphakamisa ibhodlela emlonyeni wabo. Siyazi ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuba nezandla ezimbili, kodwa akukaze kube ngumqondo omuhle ukwenza lokhu futhi ushiye ingane ingagadiwe. Ngaphezu kokuminyaniswa, kubabeka engcupheni enkulu yokudla ngokweqile.

Ukushiya ingane yakho embhedeni wayo ngebhodlela nokufaka ibhodlela nakho kungandisa ingozi yokutheleleka ngezindlebe, ikakhulukazi uma ingane yakho ilele phansi.

Ingabe ingane kufanele ibambe ibhodlela layo?

Lapho ingane yakho iphethe ibhodlela layo, ikhombisa amakhono abalulekile - kufaka phakathi “ukweqa umugqa ophakathi,” noma ukufinyelela kolunye uhlangothi lomzimba uye kolunye ngesandla noma unyawo.

Kodwa ezinye izingane - ikakhulukazi izingane ezincela ibele - azikwenzi lokhu ngokubamba amabhodlela, futhi kulungile. Kunezinye izindlela zokuthuthukisa nokusebenzisa leli khono.

Ingane encela ibele, ngokwesibonelo, ingahle igxume iqonde ukusuka ekunceliseni ibele iye ekuphuzeni enkomishini iyodwa, esebenzisa ikhono elifanayo, ineminyaka yobudala engu-1.

Lokhu akusho ukuthi bebengenalo leli khono phambilini. Eminye imisebenzi ifaka ukuwela umugqa ophakathi nendawo, njengokusebenzisa isandla esivelele ukucosha into ohlangothini olungabonakali lomzimba noma ukuletha ithoyizi liye emlonyeni.

Ukuthatha

Phakamisa izandla zombili emoyeni njengawe nje awunandaba - omncane wakho uba ngumuntu ozidlayo ozimele! Vele, kungenzeka ukuthi usafuna ukondla ingane yakho isikhathi esiningi - ukuze uboshwe, ugcinwe, futhi uphephe.

Futhi ukudla ngokuzimela kuyikhono ngokwalo okubaluleke kakhulu kunokugcina ibhodlela ngokukhethekile - ikakhulukazi njengoba izinsuku zebhodlela zibaliwe uma ingane yakho isondela onyakeni owodwa.

Kepha uma ingane yakho ikhombisa leli khono - esikhathini esithile esiphakathi kwezinyanga eziyisithupha kuya kweziyishumi ubudala - zizwe ukhululekile ukubanikeza ibhodlela labo njalo ngesikhashana.

Futhi uma ingane yakho ingakhombisi izimpawu zekhono lokuwela-maphakathi nonyaka owodwa, khuluma nodokotela wezingane wakho. Bazokwazi ukuphendula imibuzo yakho futhi babhekane nokukhathazeka kwakho.