Kungani Lo Mama Ofanelekayo Kungafanele Athi Umzimba Wakhe Wangemva Komntwana Ku-Binder Yakhe Yangemva Kokubeletha
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Umqeqeshi odumile wase-Australia wokuzivocavoca umzimba uTammy Hembrow wazala ingane yakhe yesibili ngo-Agasti, futhi ubukeka njengamathoni futhi eqoshwe njengangaphambili. Abalandeli bakhe be-Instagram abayizigidi ezingama-4.8 banxuse umama omncane ukuthi aveze izimfihlo zakhe futhi adalule ukuthi ukwazile kanjani ukuthola umzimba wakhe omangalisayo ngemuva kwengane.
"Okwangisiza ukuthi ngibuyele endleleni engangidla futhi ngaziqeqesha ngayo njengoba ngangikhulelwe," kusho lo mfana, 22, kuvidiyo esiteshini sakhe se-YouTube. "Ngidle ngihlanze kakhulu, benginemifino eminingi, amaprotheni amaningi, futhi bengizama ukunciphisa ukuphathwa kwami kuphela ngezimpelasonto, ngakho-ke phakathi nezinsuku bengidla kuhlanzekile ngaso sonke isikhathi."
Kanye nokudla kahle, ukuzivocavoca umzimba njalo kudlala indima enkulu ekwehliseni isisindo sakhe. UHembrow uthe ushaya ijimu amahlandla amane ngesonto kanti futhi ubematasa nokujaha ingane yakhe yokuqala. “Bengiqinisekisa ukuthi ngiyakwenza,” usho kanje.
Yize ayenezinsuku lapho ayekhathele khona kakhulu noma engazimisele ngokwanele ukuhambisana nomuthi wakhe oqinile, uHembrow wahlala egxile ezinhlosweni zakhe ngokucabanga ngomzimba awufunayo ngemuva kokubeletha.
“Okwangenza ukuthi ngiqhubeke nokuthi ngangifuna ukunakekela ingane kanjani,” usho kanje. "Ngangazi ukuthi ngifuna ukuphinda ngilunge futhi ngemuva kwengane futhi ngibe sesimweni esihle kakhulu engingaba yiso, ngakho ngangifuna ukuzenzela lula ngokuhlala ngikhuthele ngenkathi ngikhulelwe."
Ngemva kokubeletha, u-Hembrow waqhubeka nokugxila ekudleni kwakhe futhi wafaka nokubopha okhalo ukumsiza ukuba azacile.
“Isikhathi esingangesonto noma ngaphezulu, ngangigqoka umshini ohlanganisa i-postpartum binder - banginika owodwa esibhedlela,” usho kanje. "Angizange nje ngivele ngibuyele emzimbeni wami wangaphambi kwengane uma sengiphuma esibhedlela, usabukeka ukhulelwe uma uphuma esibhedlela."
"Bengingajahile noma yini, kodwa ngithe ngifika ekhaya ngangidla ehlanzekile, ngangigqoke ibinder postpartum, bese ngiqala ukuzivocavoca cishe amasonto ayisithupha ngemuva kokubeletha."
Yize lungekho ucwaningo olukhombisa ukuthi ama-corsets noma abaqeqeshi okhalweni bayasebenza empeleni, omama abasha abasha bazamile ukuqeda izisu zabo ezisanda kubelethwa ngosizo lalawa madivayisi. Yiqiniso, njengoba kwenza izitayela eziningi zemfashini ezithembisa imiphumela esheshayo, zingase zibonakale zithembisa ekuqaleni ... kodwa akekho uchwepheshe ongancoma ukusebenzisa eyodwa ekunciphiseni isisindo.
"I-corset isivimbela ngokomzimba isisu sakho, futhi lokho kungenza ukuthi kungabi lula ukudla ngokweqile," kusho isazi sokudla eNew York City uBrittany Kohn, R.D utshele uShape lapho ebuzwa ukuthi ngabe ama-corset ayimfihlo yokwehlisa isisindo. "Ukunamathisela okhalweni kwakho kusabalalisa futhi amafutha kusuka maphakathi nendawo, ngakho-ke ubukeka unciphile. Kodwa uma i-corset isiqhamuka, umzimba wakho uzobuyela ngokushesha kusisindo nokuma kwawo okujwayelekile."
Ngakho-ke nakuba umzimba kaHembrow wangemva komntwana umangalisa ngempela, maningi amathuba okuthi ukudla okuhlanzekile nokusebenza ngaphandle ngokuvamile kwakuhlobene nempumelelo yakhe, futhi hhayi isibopho sesisu.