Kungani Ngeke Ngiphinde Ngithathe Iphilisi

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Ngathola incwadi yami yokuqala yokulawula inzalo ngineminyaka engu-22. Iminyaka eyisikhombisa ngisebenzisa Iphilisi, ngangikuthanda. Kwenza isikhumba sami esinezinduna sacaca, ukuya esikhathini njalo, kwangenza ngaba ne-PMS, futhi ngangingeqa isikhathi noma nini lapho siqondana neholide noma umcimbi okhethekile. Futhi-ke, kwakuvimbela ukukhulelwa.

Kodwa-ke, lapho ngineminyaka engu-29, mina nomyeni wami sanquma ukuqala umkhaya. Njengombhali ochwepheshe bezempilo yabesifazane, ngicabange ukuthi nginale nto phansi: Shiya Iphilisi, matasa ngaphambi nangesikhathi sokuvuthwa kweqanda, futhi kuzokwenzeka ngokushesha. Ngaphandle kokuthi ayizange. Ngaphuza Iphilisi lami lokugcina ngo-Okthoba 2013. Ngabe sengilinda. Kwakungekho zimpawu ze-ovulation-akukho cwilisa lokushisa noma i-spike, akukho ubuso be-ovulation predictor kit smiley, akukho mucus omhlophe womlomo wesibeletho, akukho mittelschmerz (cramping ohlangothini lapho i-ovary ikhipha iqanda). Noma kunjalo, sinikeze ishothi yethu engcono kakhulu.

Emini 28-ubude bomjikelezo ojwayelekile wokuya esikhathini - lapho isikhathi sami singakhombisi, ngacabanga ngokuqinisekile ukuthi singabo bantu abanenhlanhla abakhulelwa ekuzameni kwabo kokuqala. Ukuhlolwa okukodwa kokukhulelwa okungalungile ngemva kokunye, nokho, kwaqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu bekungenjalo. Ekugcineni, ezinsukwini ezingama-41 ngemva komjikelezo wami wokugcina owenziwa ngamaphilisi, ngathola isikhathi sami. Ngajabula (besingazama futhi kule nyanga!) futhi ngikhungathekile (ngangingakhulelwe; futhi umjikelezo wami wawumude).

Lolu chungechunge lwemicimbi luphindaphindwa kaningi nemijikelezo yobude bezinsuku obungama-40 nangaphezulu. Ekupheleni kukaJanuwari, ngavakashela udokotela wami wezifo zabesifazane. Kungaleso sikhathi lapho alahla khona leli bhomu enhliziyweni yami ephethwe umkhuhlane wengane: Imijikelezo yami emide yayisho ukuthi mhlawumbe angizange ngikhiphe iqanda futhi noma ngabe nganginjalo, ikhwalithi yeqanda cishe yayinganele ngokwanele ukuthi ingavundiswa ngesikhathi liphuma esibelethweni sami. Ngamafuphi, mhlawumbe besingeke sikwazi ukukhulelwa ngaphandle kokwelashwa. Ngishiye ihhovisi lakhe ngiphethe incwadi kadokotela ye-progesterone yokwenza umjikelezo, incwadi kadokotela yeComomid yokwenza i-ovulation, nephupho eliqhekekile. Kungakapheli nezinyanga ezine sizama, besivele silashelwa ukungazali.

Ezinyangeni ezintathu ezalandela, njalo lapho ngigwinya elinye lalawo maphilisi, lo mcabango wangidla: "Ukube angikaze ngiphuze iphilisi noma ngabe ngiyeke ukulithatha isikhathi eside ngaphambi kokuzama ukukhulelwa, bengizothola eminye imininingwane mayelana nemijikelezo yami. Ngangizokwazi ukuthi yini ejwayelekile kimi. " Esikhundleni salokho, inyanga ngayinye kwakuwumdlalo wokuqagela. Okungaziwa bekungaziwa kuphela ngoba ngithathe iPilisi. Iminyaka eyisikhombisa, Iphilisi laduna amahomoni ami futhi lavala ukuphuma kweqanda ngakho ngangaxhunywa ngokuphelele nendlela umzimba wami owawusebenza ngayo ngempela.

Njengombhali wezempilo, angikwazanga ukuzibamba kodwa ngithintane noDkt. Google, ngokuvamile ngiqoshama phezu kwe-iPhone yami ebusuku kakhulu lapho ngingalali. Bengifuna ukwazi ukuthi ingabe imijikelezo yami emide "yayijwayelekile" yini noma ingumphumela wokukhipha Iphilisi. Nakuba ucwaningo lubonakala luqinisekisa ukuthi ngisho nokusetshenziswa kokuvimbela inzalo ngomlomo isikhathi eside akulimazi ukuzala, ucwaningo olumbalwa lubonisa ukuthi esikhathini esifushane, kungase kube nzima kakhulu ukukhulelwa. Olunye ucwaningo luthole ukuthi ezinyangeni eziyi-12 ngemuva kokumisa indlela yokuvimbela (njengamakhondomu) amaphesenti angama-54 abesifazane abelethi uma kuqhathaniswa namaphesenti angama-32 kuphela abesifazane abebeyekile ukuthatha iPilisi. Futhi, abesifazane ababesebenzisa izindlela zokuvimbela inzalo zomlomo iminyaka emibili noma ngaphezulu ngaphambi kokuzama ukukhulelwa bathatha cishe izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye ukukhulelwa uma kuqhathaniswa nezinyanga ezintathu, ngokwesilinganiso, kwabesifazane ababesebenzise amakhondomu, abacwaningi base-UK bathola.

Ngenhlanhla, indaba yethu inesiphetho esihle. Noma, njengoba ngithanda ukusho, isiqalo esijabulisayo. Nginamasonto ayi-18 ngikhulelwe futhi kufanele ngithole ngoMashi. Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezintathu ezingaphumelelanga zeClomid ngokuya ocansini ngasikhathi sinye kanye nenyanga eyodwa yokujova kweFollistim ne-Ovidrel esiswini sami kanye ne-IUI (emuva kokuhlwanyelwa okungekho emhlane) emuva, sithathe intwasahlobo nehlobo ekwelashweni. NgoJuni, endaweni ethile phakathi kweGeneva neMilan ngenkathi ngiseholidini, ngakhulelwa. Kwakungesinye isikhathi somjikelezo omkhulu kakhulu. Kepha, ngokuyisimangaliso, ngavundisa futhi kwenziwa ingane yethu encane.

Yize engekho lapha okwamanje, sengiyazi ukuthi sizohluka kanjani ngenqubo yokwenza izingane ngokuzayo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, ngeke ngiphinde ngiliphuze Iphilisi-noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuvimbela inzalo ngamahomoni. Angazi namanje ukuthi kungani imijikelezo yami yinde kangaka (odokotela bakhipha imibandela efana ne-PCOS), kepha noma ngabe kungenxa yePilisi noma cha, ngifuna ukwazi ukuthi umzimba wami usebenza wedwa kanjani ukuze ngilungele kangcono. Futhi lezo zinyanga zokwelapha? Ngenkathi bekuwukunambitheka nje uma kuqhathaniswa nalokho abantu abaningi abanenkinga yokungabatholi abantwana abakutholayo, babedonsa ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo futhi babiza kabi. Okubi kakhulu, nginesiqiniseko sokuthi bebengenasidingo.

Iminyaka eyisikhombisa ngaliphuza Iphilisi, ngangilithanda ukuthi lalinginika ukulawula umzimba wami. Manje sengiyabona ukuthi yiminyaka eyisikhombisa, ngavumela amakhemikhali akuPilisi ukulawula umzimba wami. Ezinyangeni ezinhlanu kusukela manje lapho ngiphethe isimangaliso sethu esincane ezandleni zami, impilo yethu izoshintsha-kufaka phakathi nohambo olungenakubalwa oluya ku-Target esizoyithatha. Lapho, ngizobeka amanabukeni, okosula, izindwangu ezibhobokileyo, futhi, kusukela manje kuqhubeke, namakhondomu.

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