Kungani Ukwabelana Ngemibhalo Yakhe Kungathumela Ubudlelwano Bakho

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Ngenkathi isayithi lokukusiza ukuthi uzulazule emhlabeni wokuphola wedijithali lizwakala lilihle, sisazibuza, kungabe kunqamula kuphi ukucwaninga ngokweqile? Ochwepheshe bayavuma ukuthi akukho lutho olungalungile ngokufuna umbono wesibili ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze unqume usuku lwakho lwe-du jour, kodwa baxwayisa ngokuthi ukuthembela kakhulu emathonyeni angaphandle kungalimaza ubuhlobo bakho.

"Wonke umuntu oveza imibono yakhe ngobudlelwano bakho uza ngombono wakhe futhi uza nezakhe izimpahla," kusho uJordan Harbinger, ongungoti kwezobudlelwano nomnikazi weThe Art of Charm. Ngomuntu uthatha umbono womngane wakho omkhulu onengilazi ongenalutho nenhlamvu kasawoti ngoba uyazi ukuthi uzokwehla kabi. Kepha ngoba awunalo ulwazi lokuthi abaphawuli abangaziwa bavelaphi, unganikeza imibono yabo isisindo esikhulu kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngezeluleko zabo ngempilo yakho yokuphola. [Thwebula leli qiniso!]

Futhi noma ngabe wonke ophawulayo athi umbhalo owufakile uzwakala umuhle, kusengaba impendulo eyinkinga, kusho uHarbinger. Lapho ukhuluma kakhulu futhi uhlaziya le ndoda oyibonayo, kulapho uzocabanga kancane ngaye njengomuntu ngamunye. Uma uchitha intambama emcabangisisa ngokubonga kubo bonke "ungumyeni wakho wesikhathi esizayo!’ ukuphawula owatholile, khona-ke ungase udumale lapho umthola ezenza...indoda evamile ekhohliwe ukuthi ungumuntu ongadli imifino (yize umtshele lokho ngosuku lwakho lokugcina) futhi ikubuze ukuthi uyafuna yini ukuhlukanisa ipuleti lamaphiko enkukhu.

Ekugcineni, sonke leso sikhathi usichithe ubheka imibhalo yakhe isika esikhathini sangempela sokuxhumana naye. Kungakho ochwepheshe bevuma ukuthi kungcono uye ngqo emthonjeni uma udidekile. "Ukugxumela eziphethweni kuvela njengokudingayo, ukuphindisela noma ukuhlanya," kusho uJay Cataldo, umqeqeshi wezokuthandana nowobudlelwano eNew York City. "Kodwa uma ungenasiqiniseko, mbuze ukuthi kwenzekani."

Isibonelo, ngithi uvame ukuthumela imiyalezo njalo emahoreni ambalwa kepha ngokuzumayo usuke e-radar usuku lonke. Esikhundleni sokukhathazeka, yisho okuthile okufana nokuthi, "Ngesikhathi ungaphendulanga imibhalo yami izolo, kungenze ngaba nomuzwa wokuthi ngiyakuhlupha. Ingabe leyo yindlela ozizwa ngayo, noma usanda kushaywa?"

Kungenzeka ukuthi ubengazi ukuthi bekuyinkinga, kusho uCataldo. "Lokhu kuninika ithuba lokwabelana ngalokho enikulindele futhi nazane kangcono." [Thwitha leli thiphu!]

Kepha kwesinye isikhathi umbhalo uyamangalisa, ucela umbono wangaphandle. Esimeni esinjalo, sebenzisa umlayezo wakhe wokuklwebha ikhanda njengokushova ukuze umthumele inothi ecela isikhathi esithile sobuso nobuso maduze nje.

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