Yebo, Kujwayelekile Ukubukeka Ukhulelwe Ngemva Kokubeletha

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Ngaphambi kokuba abelethe ingane yakhe yokuqala, u-Elise Raquel wayenomuzwa wokuthi umzimba wakhe uzobuyela emuva ngemva nje kokubeletha. Ngeshwa, wafunda kabuhlungu ukuthi lokhu bekungeke kwenzeke. Wazithola esabheka izinsuku zokukhulelwa ngemuva kokubeletha, into eyenzeka ngazo zontathu izisu zakhe.

Ngesikhathi eba nengane yakhe yesithathu ngoJulayi, umama ozinze e-U.K. waba nomuzwa wokuthi kubalulekile ukwabelana nabanye ngezithombe zomzimba wakhe wangemva kokubeletha ukuze abanye besifazane bangayizwa ingcindezi yokubuyela ebuntwini babo bangaphambi kokukhulelwa ngokushesha (noma. njalo, ngalolo daba). (Okuhlobene: Lo Mama We-IVF Triplets Wabelana Ngokuthi kungani Ethanda Umzimba Wakhe Wokubeletha)

Ngemva kwamahora ambalwa ebelethile, umthwebuli wezithombe wathwebula isithombe sakhe esesimweni esibi kakhulu nesisengozini enkulu wasithumela ku-Instagram. "Kungumuzwa omangazayo ukubheka phansi bese ubona isigaxa, yize ubambe ingane yakho ezandleni zakho, noma ngabe ukwenze kathathu," kuchaza lo mbhalo. "Akulula ukugoduka nengane bese kusadingeka ngigqoke izingubo zokubeletha. Ngokuqala kwami, bengima kwelokuthi ngizovele ngibuyele emuva ... Kodwa uyazi ukuthi yini, angizange, angikaze ngibe nayo . "

U-Elise uqhubeke ngokutshela abalandeli bakhe ukuthi "bagubhe imizimba yangemva kokubeletha ngayo yonke inkazimulo yabo." Kodwa kulezi zinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlule, abantu bazizwe benesidingo sokuxosha umama ngokuthumela izithombe zakhe "zomuntu siqu" esidlangalaleni kangaka. Ngakho-ke, ukulandela, nokuvala inzondo unomphela, u-Elise wabelane ngesinye isithombe sokukhulelwa kuleli sonto ukuze aqhubeke nokunaba ngokuthi kungani ukubona lezi zinhlobo zezithombe kunjalo ngakho kubalulekile.

Wachaza ukuthi ngesikhathi ekhulelwe okokuqala, akekho owamtshela ukuthi umzimba wakhe wawungeke ubuyele esimeni sawo sokuqala. “Bengingazi ukuthi usengabukeka ukhulelwe kangaka noma usubelethile,” usho kanje. "Ngakho-ke ngenkathi ngibuya ekhaya ngemuva kwezinsuku ezine ngibelethile, ngisabukeka nginezinyanga eziyisithupha ngikhulelwe, ngacabanga ukuthi kumele ngabe kukhona engikwenzile okungalungile." (Kuhlobene: Umama we-CrossFit Revie Jane Schulz Ufuna Uthande Umzimba Wakho Wangemva Kokubeletha Njengoba Unjalo)

"Ngithumele leso sithombe ngoba ngifisa sengathi ngabe kukhona umuntu ofake isithombe esifana nesami ngesikhathi ngikhulelwe," eqhubeka. "Ngifisa sengathi ngabe kukhona umuntu obengitshele ukuthi empeleni kungenzeka yini emzimbeni wami nasemqondweni wami. I-trimester yesine yisihloko esingathandeki. Ngifuna nabanye omama abahamba ngezicathulo zami bazi ukuthi ababodwa."

Ukuziphatha kwendaba? Wonke umama kufanele azi ukuthi umzimba wakhe nakanjani uzohluka ngemuva kokuba esethole umntwana. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukubekezela okuncane kuncane kakhulu ongazinika kona ngemuva kokubekezelela okuhlangenwe nakho okunzima kakhulu futhi okuhle njengokubeletha. Njengoba u-Elise ekubeka: "Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhambo [lwakho] lwangemva kokubeletha lungaba yini, kulungile, kuvamile."

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