Amantombazane Asemancane Acabanga Abafana Bahlakaniphe Kakhudlwana, kusho i-Super-Depressing Study

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Uma kuziwa ekulweni nemibono engokwesiko yobulili, ukumane uthi "amantombazane ayafana nje nabafana" futhi ukuthengiswa kwezemidlalo #girlpower akwanele.

Njengamanje, siphakathi kokulwela amalungelo alinganayo (ngoba, cha, izinto azikalingani) futhi sigcwalisa igebe lomholo (okuyinto echema ngendlela eyinqaba ngesisindo, i-BTW). Kuzwakala ngathi senza inqubekela phambili-size sithole ukuhlolwa kwangempela ukuthi sisenayo indlela ye-looong okufanele sihambe ngayo. (Ubuwazi ukuthi ubulili buba nomthelela ekuzivocavoca kwakho?)

Namuhla, lokho kuhlolwa kweqiniso kuza ngeqembu lamantombazane aneminyaka engu-6 ubudala. Ngokusobala, ngaleyo minyaka, amantombazane asevele enemibono yobulili kwezobunhloli: amantombazane aneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala mancane amathuba okuthi abafana bakholelwe ukuthi amalungu obulili bawo "ahlakaniphe ngempela," futhi aze aqale nokugwema imisebenzi okuthiwa yenzelwe izingane "ezihlakaniphe ngempela," ngokusho kocwaningo olusha olushicilelwe kujenali Isayensi.

U-Lin Bian, umcwaningi e-University of Illinois, ukhulume nezingane ezineminyaka engu-5, 6, no-7 ezifundweni ezine ezihlukene ukuze abone ukuthi imibono ehlukene ngobulili iyavela nini. Lapho eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, abafana namantombazane bahlobanisa ubuhlakani kanye nokuba "impela, abahlakaniphe ngempela" nobulili babo. Kodwa eminyakeni engu-6 noma engu-7 ubudala, abafana kuphela ababenalowo mbono ofanayo. Ocwaningweni lwakamuva, u-Bian wathola ukuthi izithakazelo zamantombazane aneminyaka engu-6 no-7 ubudala zase zilolongwa yilo mbono wabafana-uhlakaniphe kakhudlwana; lapho unikezwa ukukhetha phakathi komdlalo "wezingane ezihlakaniphe ngempela, ohlakaniphe ngempela" nomunye "wezingane ezizama ngempela, kanzima impela," amantombazane ayengenantshisekelo enkulu kunabafana abasemdlalweni wezingane ezihlakaniphile. Kodwa-ke, bobabili ubulili babenentshisekelo ngokulinganayo kugeyimu yezingane ezisebenza kanzima, okubonisa ukuthi ukuchema kobulili kuqondiswe ngokukhethekile ekuhlakanipheni, hhayi ukuziphatha komsebenzi. Futhi lokhu akuyona indaba yesizotha-iBian yayinezinga lezingane okunye ubuhlakani babantu (kusuka esithombeni noma endabeni eqanjiwe).

"Imiphumela yamanje ikhombisa isiphetho esisangulukisayo: Izingane eziningi zifaka umqondo wokuthi ukukhalipha kuyimfanelo yabesilisa besebancane," kusho uBian ocwaningweni.

Ayikho enye indlela yokukusho: lokhu okutholakele kuqonde ngqo ukuncela. Ukucwasana kugxilile ezingqondweni zentsha ngokushesha okukhulu kunalokho ongasho ukuthi "amandla amantombazane," futhi kuthinta yonke into kusuka ekutheni intombazane ibamba iqhaza kangakanani esikoleni kuye ezithakazelweni ezikhulayo (hey, science).

Ngakho yini owesifazane oqinile, ozimele okumelwe ayenze? Qhubeka ulwe ukulwa okuhle. Futhi uma kwenzeka unendodakazi encane, mtshele zonke izinsuku ezimbi ukuthi uhlakaniphile njengesihogo.

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