Ukuthola ukwesekwa lapho ingane yakho inomdlavuza

Ukuba nengane enomdlavuza kungenye yezinto ezinzima kunazo zonke ongake ubhekane nazo njengomzali. Awugcini nje ngokugcwala ukukhathazeka nokukhathazeka, futhi kufanele ugcine ithrekhi yokwelashwa kwengane yakho, ukuvakashelwa kwezokwelapha, umshuwalense, njalonjalo.

Wena nomlingani wakho nijwayele ukuphatha impilo yomndeni wakho wedwa, kepha umdlavuza ungeza umthwalo owengeziwe. Funda ukuthi ungaluthola kanjani usizo nokusekelwa ukuze ukwazi ukubhekana kalula. Ngaleyo ndlela uzoba nesikhathi esithe xaxa namandla okuba khona lapho uzoba nengane yakho.

Umdlavuza wezingane unzima emndenini, kepha futhi unzima ezihlotsheni nakubangani bomndeni. Bazise ukuthi ingane yakho yelashelwa umdlavuza. Cela amalungu omndeni athenjiwe nabangane abaseduze bakusize ngemisebenzi yasendlini noma ukunakekela izingane zakini. Ukuba nengane enomdlavuza kuyinkinga emndenini wakho, futhi abanye abantu bangafuna futhi bazofuna ukusiza.

Ungase futhi uthande ukutshela abantu emphakathini wakho, emsebenzini, esikoleni, nasemphakathini wezenkolo. Kuyasiza lapho labo abaseduze kwakho beqonda ukuthi ubhekene nani. Futhi, abantu bangakusiza ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene. Bangaba nendaba efanayo futhi banganikeza ukusekelwa, noma bangakwazi ukukusiza ukuthi usebenze noma uhlanganise ishift yomsebenzi.

Kungaba nzima ukugcina wonke umuntu evuselelwa ngokwenzekayo. Ukuphindaphinda izindaba kungakhathaza. Ama-imeyili aku-inthanethi noma amanethiwekhi wokuxhumana nabantu ayindlela enhle yokuvuselela abantu abasempilweni yakho. Ungathola futhi amagama anomusa wokusekela ngale ndlela. Ungahle uthande ukucela elinye ilungu lomndeni ukuthi libe umuntu oyiphuzu lokuvuselela abantu futhi ubazise ukuthi bangenzani ukusiza. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi uthole ukwesekwa ngaphandle kokuthi ukuphathe.

Uma usazise abantu, ungesabi ukubeka imingcele. Ungazizwa ubonga ngokuthi abantu bafuna ukusiza. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi lolo sizo nosizo lungaba lukhulu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe nasemndenini wakho ukugxila ekunakekeleni ingane yakho nakunakekelana. Lapho ukhuluma nabanye:

• Vuleka futhi uthembeke
• Khombisa futhi utshele abanye ukuthi wena nengane yakho nifuna ukuphathwa kanjani
• Yazisa abantu ukuthi bakunaka kakhulu noma banakekela ingane yakho kakhulu yini

Abahlinzeki abaningi bezokunakekelwa kwempilo namaqembu ayatholakala ukukusiza ukubhekana nokuba nengane enomdlavuza. Ungafinyelela ku:

• Ithimba lakho lokunakekelwa kwezempilo
• Abeluleki bezempilo yengqondo
• Amaqembu okusekela ku-inthanethi nakwezokuxhumana
• Amaqembu omphakathi
• Amakilasi nezibhedlela zendawo
• Ibandla lezenkolo
• Izincwadi zokuzisiza

Khuluma nosonhlalakahle wasesibhedlela noma isisekelo sendawo ukuthola usizo ngezinsizakalo noma izindleko. Izinkampani ezizimele nezinhlangano zomphakathi nazo zingasiza ekufayeleni umshwalense nokuthola imali yokukhokhela izindleko.

Ngokuzinakekela, uzobonisa ingane yakho ukuthi ingakuthokozela kanjani ukuphila.

• Vivinya umzimba njalo udle ukudla okunempilo. Ukunakekela umzimba wakho kungakunika amandla okusebenza nengane yakho kanye nabahlinzeki. Ingane yakho izohlomula ngokuba nabazali abaphilile.
• Thatha isikhathi esikhethekile wedwa nomngane wakho womshado nezinye izingane nabangane. Khuluma ngezinto ngaphandle komdlavuza wengane yakho.
• Zinike isikhathi sakho sokwenza izinto owawuthanda ukuzenza ngaphambi kokuba ingane yakho igule. Ukwenza izinto ozijabulelayo kuzokusiza ukuthi uhlale ulinganisela futhi wehlise ingcindezi. Uma uzizwa uzolile, uzokwazi kangcono ukubhekana nalokho okuza kuwe.
• Kungase kudingeke uchithe isikhathi esiningi emakamelweni okulinda. Cabanga ngento ethule oyithandayo, njengokufunda izincwadi noma omagazini, ukunitha, ubuciko, noma ukwenza iphazili. Letha lezi zinto uzokujabulela ngenkathi ulindile. Ungahle wenze izivivinyo zokuphefumula noma i-yoga ukusiza ukunciphisa ukucindezeleka.

Ungazizwa unecala ngokujabulela impilo. Kuphilile enganeni yakho ukukubona umomotheka futhi ikuzwa uhleka. Lokho kwenza KULUNGILE nengane yakho ukuthi nayo izizwe inethemba.

Lawa mawebhusayithi anamaqembu okusekela akwi-inthanethi, izincwadi, izeluleko, nolwazi mayelana nokubhekana nomdlavuza wezingane.

• I-American Cancer Society - www.cancer.org
• I-Oncology Group Yezingane - www.childrensoncologygroup.org
• Inhlangano Yomdlavuza Yezingane ZaseMelika - www.acco.org
• ICureSearch for Cancer Yezingane - curesearch.org
• Isikhungo Somdlavuza Kazwelonke - www.cancer.gov

Iwebhusayithi yeAmerican Cancer Society. Ukuthola usizo nokusekelwa lapho ingane yakho inomdlavuza. www.cancer.org/content/cancer/en/treatment/zingane-nomdlavuza/nxa-your-child-has-cancer/during-treatment/help-and-support.html. Kubuyekezwe ngo-Septhemba 18, 2017. Kufinyelelwe ngo-Okthoba 7, 2020.

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Iwebhusayithi yeNational Cancer Institute. Izingane ezinomdlavuza: Umhlahlandlela wabazali. www.cancer.gov/publications/patient-education/abantwana-nomdlavuza.pdf. Kubuyekezwe uSepthemba 2015. Kufinyelelwe ngo-Okthoba 7, 2020.

• Umdlavuza Ezinganeni