Lapho ukwelashwa komdlavuza wengane yakho kuyeka ukusebenza

Kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nokwelashwa okuhle kakhulu akwenele ukumisa umdlavuza. Umdlavuza wengane yakho kungenzeka ukuthi umelana nemithi elwa nomdlavuza. Kungenzeka ibuye noma iqhubeke nokukhula ngaphandle kokwelashwa. Lesi kungaba yisikhathi esinzima kuwe nomndeni wakho njengoba nithatha izinqumo mayelana nokwelashwa okuqhubekayo nokuthi yini elandelayo.

Akucaci ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi imisiwe nini imishanguzo ebhekiswe kulo mdlavuza.Uma ukwelashwa kokuqala kungasebenzi, odokotela bavame ukuzama izindlela ezahlukahlukene ezahlukahlukene. Imvamisa, ithuba lokuphumelela liyehla ngomugqa ngamunye wezokwelapha. Abahlinzeki bakho bezokunakekelwa kwempilo yomndeni wakho nengane yakho bangadinga ukunquma ukuthi ukwelashwa okuqhubekayo okuqondiswe kumdlavuza kuyifanele yini imiphumela emibi ebangelwa ingane yakho, kufaka phakathi ubuhlungu nokungaphatheki kahle. Ukwelashwa kwemiphumela emibi nezinhlungu ezihambisana nomdlavuza kanye nezinkinga zawo akupheli.

Uma ukwelashwa kungasasebenzi noma uthathe isinqumo sokuyeka ukwelashwa, ukunakekelwa kuzogxila ekwelapheni umdlavuza kuya ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi ingane yakho ikhululekile.

Noma lingekho ithemba lokuthi umdlavuza uzophela, ezinye izindlela zokwelapha zingenza ukuthi izimila zingakhuli futhi zinciphise ubuhlungu. Ithimba lezokunakekelwa kwempilo yengane yakho lingakhuluma nawe ngezindlela zokwelapha ukuvimbela ubuhlungu obungadingekile.

Uma ungakakwenzi lokho, kuzodingeka wenze izinqumo ezithile mayelana nokuphela kwempilo yengane yakho. Kunzima ngokumangalisayo ukucabanga ngakho, kepha ukunakekela lezi zinkinga kungakusiza ukuthi ugxile ekwenzeni okungcono kakhulu impilo yakho yonke yengane. Izinto okufanele uzicabangele zifaka:

• Yiziphi izinhlobo zokwelashwa ongazisebenzisa ukusiza ingane yakho ukuthi ihlale ikhululekile.
• Ukuthi unayo noma cha unayo akuvuseleli i-oda.
• Lapho ufuna ingane yakho ichithe khona izinsuku zayo zokugcina. Eminye imindeni inethezeke kakhulu esibhedlela lapho udokotela ekhona khona ekhoneni. Eminye imindeni izizwa ingcono ngokunethezeka ekhaya. Umndeni ngamunye kufanele uthathe isinqumo esifanele wona.
• Kungakanani ukufaka ingane yakho ezinqumweni.

Kungaba yinto enzima kunazo zonke okufanele ukwenze, kepha ukushintsha ukugxila kwakho ekwelapheni umdlavuza ekuvikeleni ingane yakho ekwelashweni okungeke kukusize kungaba yinto engcono kakhulu enganeni yakho. Ungase ukwazi kangcono ukuqonda lokho ingane yakho ebhekene nakho, nokuthi ingane yakho ikudingani kuwe, uma ubhekana namaqiniso ngokwenzekayo.

Awudingi ukukuthola lokhu ngokwakho. Izibhedlela nezinhlangano eziningi zinemisebenzi yokusiza izingane nabazali ukuba babhekane nezinkinga zokuphela kokuphila.

Izingane zivame ukwazi okungaphezu kwalokho abazali bazo abakucabangayo. Babuka indlela yokuziphatha kwabantu abadala futhi balalele abakushoyo. Uma ugwema izifundo ezinzima, unganikeza ingane yakho umyalezo wokuthi izihloko azivunyelwe. Ingane yakho ingahle ifune ukukhuluma, kepha ingafuni ukukucasula.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kubalulekile ukuthi ungamphusheli ingane yakho ukuthi ikhulume uma ingakulungele.

Ukuziphatha kwengane yakho kungakunika izinkomba ezithile. Uma ingane yakho ibuza imibuzo ngokufa, kungaba uphawu lokuthi ifuna ukukhuluma. Uma ingane yakho ishintsha isihloko noma ifuna ukudlala, ingane yakho kungenzeka ukuthi ibisenele okwamanje.

• Uma ingane yakho isencane, cabanga ukusebenzisa amathoyizi noma ubuciko ukukhuluma ngokufa. Ungakhuluma ngokwenzeka uma unodoli egula, noma ukhulume ngencwadi ekhuluma ngesilwane esifayo.
• Buza imibuzo evulekile enikeza ingane yakho ithuba lokukhuluma. "Ucabanga ukuthi kwenzekeni kuGogo ngesikhathi eshona?"
• Sebenzisa ulimi oluqondile ingane yakho ezoliqonda. Imishwana efana nokuthi "dlula" noma "ulale" ingavele idide ingane yakho.
• Yazisa ingane yakho ukuthi ngeke ibe yodwa lapho ifa.
• Tshela ingane yakho ukuthi ubuhlungu buyophela lapho ifa.

Izinga lamandla engane yakho lizodlala indima ebalulekile ekusebenziseni amasonto noma izinyanga ezizayo. Uma kungenzeka, gcina ingane yakho ibandakanyeka ezintweni ezijwayelekile.

• Namathela emisebenzini efana nokudla komndeni, imisebenzi yasekhaya, nezindaba zokulala.
• Vumela ingane yakho ibe ingane. Lokhu kungasho ukubuka i-TV, ukudlala imidlalo, noma ukuthumela imibhalo.
• Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuthi ihlale esikoleni uma kungenzeka.
• Sekela isikhathi sengane yakho nabangane. Kungaba mathupha, ocingweni, noma ku-inthanethi, ingane yakho ingahle ifune ukuhlala ixhuma kwabanye.
• Siza ingane yakho ukuzibekela imigomo. Ingane yakho ingahle ifune ukuthatha uhambo noma ifunde okuthile okusha. Izinhloso zengane yakho zizoya ngezintshisekelo zazo.

Ngendlela okubuhlungu ngayo, kunezindlela ongasiza ngazo ingane yakho ilungele ukufa. Yazisa ingane yakho ukuthi yiziphi izinguquko ezingase zenzeke emzimbeni. Udokotela wengane yakho angakusiza ngalokhu. Ngenkathi kungcono ukuthi ungafaki imininingwane ethusayo, ukwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela kungasiza ingane yakho ukuthi ikhathazeke kancane.

• Dala izinkumbulo zomndeni. Ungahle udlule ezithombeni bese wenza iwebhusayithi noma incwadi yezithombe ndawonye.
• Siza ingane yakho ukuthi ivalelise kubantu abakhethekile mathupha noma ngezincwadi.
• Yazisa ingane yakho ukuthi izoshiya muphi umthelela ohlala njalo. Noma ngabe bekuyindodana nomfowenu omuhle, noma ukusiza abanye abantu, tshela ingane yakho ukuthi bawenze kanjani umhlaba waba indawo engcono.
• Thembisa ukuthi uzobe ulungile lapho ingane yakho ifa futhi uzonakekela abantu nezilwane ingane yakho ezithandayo.

Ukuphela kokunakekelwa kwempilo - izingane; Ukunakekelwa kwe-palliative - izingane; Ukuhlelwa kokunakekelwa kwangaphambili - izingane

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