Izeluleko Ezi-15 Ezisebenzayo Ezenza Ukuphuma Endlini Zizizwe Zincane Njengomdlalo We-Olimpiki

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• 1. Stock imoto
• 2. Kabili
• 3. Yinciphise
• 4. Khetha ukugoqa okulungile
• 5. Yondla ngaphambi kokuba uhambe
• 6. Gcina isimiso
• 7. Indawo yakho konke
• 8. Shayela phambili
• 9. Yiba umzali 'wokunamathiselwe'
• 10. Phinda upake lapho ufika ekhaya
• 11. Yigcine imfishane
• 12. Hlanganisa isikhathi sakho
• 13. Yenza usuku
• 14. Ungakhathazeki, phefumula
• 15. Vele uhambe, noma ngabe akuphelelanga

Lapho wenza umsebenzi olula nengane esanda kuzalwa uzizwa upakisha iholide lamaviki amabili, khumbula lesi seluleko esivela kubazali abakade bekhona.

Kuzo zonke izingcezu zeseluleko esinezinhloso ezinhle osithole ngenkathi ubulindele (Lala lapho ingane ilele! Khetha udokotela wezingane omkhulu! Ungakhohlwa isikhathi sesisu!), Cishe awukaze uzwe ngesici esisodwa esibalulekile sokuba ngumzali omusha: phuma endlini nosana olusanda kuzalwa.

Ngazo zonke izingane zegiya ezidinga - ingasaphathwa eyokuphuma kwesikhathi ozungeze uhlelo lwazo - kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala sengathi uchitha isikhathi eside ulungela ukuhamba kunalokho ungaphandle kwendlu.

Uma ingane-izinto-ukuphikisana kuzwakala njengomdlalo wama-Olimpiki - ungakhathazeki. Lapho kukhona izindlela zokuhambisa inqubo.

Sikhulume nabazali abasha (futhi abanolwazi) ukuthola izeluleko zabo ezinhle zokwenza ukuphuma endlini nosana olungaphansi komncintiswano. Nasi iseluleko sabo esiphezulu:

1. Stock imoto

Uma kubhekwa sonke isikhathi abantu abaningi baseMelika abasichitha emotweni, cishe kuyikhaya lesibili. Kungani ungayifaki njengenguqulo ehamba ngezinyawo yendawo yokuhlala elungele usana?

"Ngigcina i-Baby Bjorn yami, isikhwama se-diaper, ne-stroller emotweni," kusho umama wezingane ezine, uSarah Doerneman.

Umama ongumakadebona, uLauren Woertz, uyavuma. Uthi: “Ngaso sonke isikhathi gcina izimpahla zokugqoka emotweni. "Ngihlale njalo nginamanabukeni, ngisula, amathawula wephepha, kanye nezinye izicathulo emotweni."

Imoto elungiselelwe kahle isho isikhathi esincane osichitha uqoqa izinto isikhathi ngasinye lapho uthatha uhambo.

Vele, kubalulekile ukuthi uqiniseke ukuthi uyikhiyile imoto uma ugcina igiya lapho, futhi ungazibeki engcupheni yokushiya noma yini emotweni yakho engenakushintshwa.

2. Kabili

Cishe unesethi yokhiye eseceleni yalezi zikhathi ongeke ukwazi ukuthola eyangempela. Isimiso esifanayo siyasebenza ekuhlinzekweni kwabantwana.

Kabili kokudingekayo njengokusula, amanabukeni, umata oguqukayo, nokhilimu we-diaper ukuze ukwazi ukubamba kalula uhambe. (Mhlawumbe uze uwagcine nasemotweni.) Le yindlela enhle yokusebenzisa amasampula wamahhala ongawathola esitolo noma kumaphromoshini omkhiqizo.

Noma thatha ukulungela ukucwilisa ngokutshala esikhwameni se-diaper sesibili, uma kungenzeka. (Ngenye indlela, ungasebenzisa i-hand-me-down noma nje isikhwama sokuthenga esisebenzisekayo njengesengezo sakho.)

Ukuba nenye indlela kungakongela ukucindezela kokuzulazula ngomzuzu wokugcina.

3. Yinciphise

Uma ukuphindaphinda kabili kumagesi wezingane kuzwakala kukhungathekisa noma kungaphandle kwesabelomali sakho, zama enye indlela.

Ukuze uthole indlela encane kakhulu, chitha isikhathi ucubungula lokho empeleni isidingo ekuphumeni okunikeziwe. Vele uphuma nje ngokuhambahamba noma esitolo sokudla? Ibhodlela elifudumele namanye ama-bhibs angeziwe angahlala ekhaya.

Iningi labazali abanolwazi lithole lokhu kukhululeka kwesitayela okungasho okuningi. "Ngomntwana wami wokugcina, empeleni angizange ngiphathe isikhwama se-diaper," kusho uHolly Scudero. “Ngivele ngenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ngiyamshintsha ngokushesha ngaphambi kokuhamba. Uma kudingeka, ngifaka inabukeni nendwangu yokuwasha kanye nesikhwama seZiploc esikhwameni sami. ”

4. Khetha ukugoqa okulungile

Imakethe yamagiya ezingane igcwele inqwaba yezinto ezithwalayo nezisongwayo, ngayinye inobuhle nobubi bayo.

Izindaba ezimnandi ukuthi lawa madivayisi angenza impilo ibe lula ohambeni, ekhulula izandla zakho futhi agcine ingane icwile esikhunjeni sakho.

Izindaba ezimbi? Abanye babo bathatha isikhala sethani.

Ukuze wenze umthwalo wakho ube lula, beka phambili ekutholakaleni okukusebenzelayo futhi okungadingi inkampani ethwala usayizi we-carseat. “Ngikuthola kuwusizo ngempela ukusebenzisa indwayimane endandeni,” kusho umama wezingane ezingu-7, u-Erin Charles. "Kulula ukufaka ingane ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwayo - hhayi imichilo eminingi nezinto eziyinkimbinkimbi."

Abanye batusa ukusongwa okuhlangene njengeK’tan noma iBityBean, ezisonga ngokuqinile ukuze zigcinwe kalula esikhwameni se-diaper.

5. Yondla ngaphambi kokuba uhambe

Noma ngabe uncelisa ibele noma ibhodlela, ukondla ingane ohambeni akunakucindezela kuphela, kepha kungakudicilela phansi ngemishini efana namabhodlela, ifomula nezembozo zabahlengikazi.

Susa isidingo sokuhlukanisa lezi zimvume zokondla ingane ngaphambi nje kokuphuma endlini, lapho kungenzeka khona. Izokugcina futhi ingane ijabule ngokwengeziwe ngenkathi iphuma futhi ihamba.

6. Gcina isimiso

Njengoba noma yimuphi umzali omusha azi, amashejuli angashintsha usuku nosuku nosana olusanda kuzalwa. Kepha inqubo ingahamba ibanga elide ekusizeni ukuthi unqume isikhathi esihle sokuphuma.

"Uma ingane yakho ikhule ngokwanele, yenze ngesikhathi sokulala," kusho umama, uCheryl Ramirez. "Kulula kakhulu ngoba uyazi ukuthi ungaphuma nini endlini nokuthi unesikhathi esingakanani ngaphambi kokuba balahlekelwe yingqondo." (Noma ngaphambili wena yenza.)

7. Indawo yakho konke

Kuyisimiso esiyisisekelo esisebenza kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuhlela, ikakhulukazi ukuhlela igiya lezingane: Khetha indawo yayo yonke into. Umgudli uhamba njalo ekhabethe lehholo, ngokwesibonelo, noma ama-wipe angeziwe awedrowa ethile.

"Nginendlela yokubeka izinto ezindaweni ezithile," kusho umama ongumntwana, uBree Shirvell. "Ngigcina izinja ziqinile futhi nokhiye wami ku-stroller."

Noma ngabe usebenzisa i-autopilot kusuka ekulaleni okuncane kakhulu, uzokwazi ukuthi ungazifinyelela kuphi izidingo.

8. Shayela phambili

Kunezinto eziningi ezingaziwa ekuphumeni kwengane yakho. Ingabe uzoba nengxabano ngokungalindelekile? Ngabe uzoba nokushaywa futhi adinge izingubo zokushintsha? Ngenhlanhla, kukhona izingcezu ezithile zolwazi wena can thola kusengaphambili.

Lapho uvakashela indawo ongayijwayele, bashayele ucingo ngokushesha ukubona ukuthi kunesikhala ongasinisa buthule, noma ukuthola imininingwane esiteshini esishintshayo. Kuzokusiza ukunquma ukuthi wenzani futhi awudingi ukuletha ini, futhi kukuvumela ukuthi uzilungiselele ngokwengqondo noma iziphi izimo ezingaphansi kokufanele.

9. Yiba umzali 'wokunamathiselwe'

Izingqinamba neziphetho ezincane zinokuthambekela kokuya ku-MIA lapho uzidinga kakhulu. Yenza okusebenzayo ngokubhinca izinto ezincane okumele uzithole kusitiloli sakho noma esikhwameni se-diaper ngezintambo ze-bungee noma iziqeshana ze-carabiner.

"Nginamathisela konke," kusho umama, uCiarra Luster Johnson. "Inkomishi nethoyizi elinamahloni kokubili kusetherini ngaso sonke isikhathi esihlalweni semoto, esihlalweni esiphakeme noma esihlalweni sokuhamba."

10. Phinda upake lapho ufika ekhaya

Kungaba inkinga, kepha ukugcwalisa noma yikuphi okubalulekile okuphelile ngemuva kokubuya ekuphumeni kusindisa ikhanda elikhulu ngokuzayo lapho udinga i-jet.

"Ngihlala ngiphinda ngipakisha isikhwama sami senabukeni lapho ngifika ekhaya ukuze ngingagcini ngingenawo amanabukeni, ukusula, izingubo, njll." kusho uKim Douglas. Ngemuva kwakho konke, i-ounce yokuvimbela ibiza ikhilogremu lekhambi - noma kukhulunywa ngezikhwama zenabukeni.

11. Yigcine imfishane

Kukhona ucezu lwakudala lwezeluleko zezingane ezizwakala liyiqiniso: Zama ukungagijimeli imishini engaphezu kweyodwa ngesikhathi nengane yakho.

Akudingi wena nengane okudingayo ingcindezi yokungena nokuphuma emotweni (noma ukuthuthwa komphakathi) amahlandla amaningi, noma ukuhamba isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokulala noma ukondla. Ukugcina ukuphuma kwakho kufushane kusho ukuthi ungagcina igiya lezingane lincane, futhi.

12. Hlanganisa isikhathi sakho

Lapho uqala nje, kunendlela yokufunda engathi sína kuzo zonke izinto ezihlobene nosana. Ukuphuma endlini akunjalo.

Ungazishayi uma ungabonakali ubonakala ugxuma uhambe njengakuqala. Mane wakhe ngokuhlala isikhathi esengeziwe uma kungenzeka.

“Zinike eminye imizuzu engama-20 yokushiya kunale oyidingayo,” kweluleka umama, uCindy Marie Jenkins.

13. Yenza usuku

Ukuba nokuziphendulela okuncane kunganikeza ugqozi oludingayo lokuthola isikhathi esidingeka kakhulu ngaphandle kwendlu, noma ngabe usenganeni. "Setha izikhathi zokuhlangana nabangane ngakho-ke kunzima ukubheyili," kusho uJenkins.

Umama esikanye naye uRisa McDonnell uyakhumbula, “Ngaba nenhlanhla yokuba nabangane abambalwa abanezingane ezineminyaka efanayo endaweni. Angikaze ngihleleke kahle, kodwa ngenze isiqiniseko sokuthi ngihlela izinsuku zokuhamba ukuze ngikwazi ukuziphendulela ngokuphuma emnyango. ”

14. Ungakhathazeki, phefumula

Njengomzali omusha, kungenzeka ukuthi imizwa yakho iya phezulu njengoba ubhekene nokulungiswa ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo ekubeni ngumzali. Ngakho konke ukucindezelwa osekuvele kusendlebeni yakho, zama ukungavumeli ukuthi ukuzilungiselela ukuvakasha kukuncobe.

Lapho umsebenzi ubonakala unzima, thatha umoya.

Shayela umngani inkulumo ezokhuluma ngokushesha noma zama imizuzu embalwa yokuphefumula okujulile. Iningi labantu lizoqonda uma ubonakala sekwedlule isikhathi nosana.

15. Vele uhambe, noma ngabe akuphelelanga

Qiniseka, uzothola ukulengiswa kwalokhu njengoba isikhathi sihamba. Okwamanje, ungesabi ukushaya umgwaqo, noma ngabe uzizwa ungakulungele ngokuphelele.

"Vuma ukuthi mhlawumbe kukhona okukhohliwe," kukhuthaza umama, uShana Westlake. “Siletha izinto eziningi esingazisebenzisi uma siphuma. Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele uhambe! ”

USarah Garone, NDTR, ungumbhali wezokudla, umbhali wezempilo ozimele, kanye ne-blogger yokudla. Uhlala nomyeni wakhe nezingane ezintathu eMesa, e-Arizona. Mthole wabelana ngolwazi lwezempilo nokudla okunomsoco futhi (ikakhulukazi) izindlela zokupheka ezinempilo ku- Incwadi Yothando Yokudla.