Umehluko wobulili kuzimpawu ze-ADHD

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• I-ADHD nobulili
• Ukuqaphela i-ADHD kumantombazane
• Ukuqaphela i-ADHD kubafana
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Ukunakwa kokushoda kokungasebenzi kahle (ADHD) ngesinye sezimo ezivame kakhulu ezitholakala ezinganeni. Kuyisifo se-neurodevelopmental esibangela izindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuziphatha eziphazamisayo neziphazamisayo. Izimpawu ze-ADHD zivame ukufaka ubunzima bokugxila, ukuhlala unganyakazi, nokuhlala uhlelekile. Izingane eziningi zikhombisa izimpawu zalesi sifo ngaphambi kweminyaka yobudala engu-7, kodwa ezinye zihlala zingatholakali kuze kube yilapho sezikhulile. Kunokwehluka okuphawulekayo kokuthi isimo sibonakala kanjani kubafana namantombazane. Lokhu kungathinta ukuthi i-ADHD yaziwa kanjani futhi ixilongwe kanjani.

Njengomzali, kubalulekile ukubheka zonke izimpawu ze-ADHD futhi ungasekeli izinqumo zokwelashwa kubulili bodwa. Ungalokothi ucabange ukuthi izimpawu ze-ADHD zizofana enganeni ngayinye. Izelamani ezimbili zingaba ne-ADHD kepha zibonise izimpawu ezihlukile futhi ziphendule kangcono ekwelashweni okuhlukile.

I-ADHD nobulili

Ngokwabafana, abafana banamathuba aphindwe kathathu okuthola ukuxilongwa kwe-ADHD kunamantombazane. Lokhu kwehlukana akubangelwa ukuthi amantombazane awathinteki kakhulu kulesi sifo. Kunalokho, kungenzeka ngoba izimpawu ze-ADHD zivela ngokuhlukile emantombazaneni. Izimpawu zihlala zicashile futhi, ngenxa yalokho, kunzima ukuzibona.

kukhombisile ukuthi abafana abane-ADHD bavamise ukukhombisa izimpawu zangaphandle, njengokugijima nokungafisi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, amantombazane ane-ADHD akhombisa izimpawu zangaphakathi. Lezi zimpawu zifaka ukunganaki nokuzenyeza. Abafana nabo bavame ukuba nolaka ngokwasemzimbeni, kuyilapho amantombazane ethanda ukuba nolaka ngamazwi.

Njengoba amantombazane ane-ADHD evame ukubonisa izinkinga ezimbalwa zokuziphatha nezimpawu ezingabonakali kangako, ubunzima babo buye bunganakwa. Ngenxa yalokho, abathunyelwa ukuyohlolwa noma ukwelashwa. Lokhu kungaholela ezinkingeni ezengeziwe ngokuzayo.

Ucwaningo luphakamisa nokuthi i-ADHD engatholakali ingaba nomthelela omubi ekuzethembeni kwamantombazane. Kungathinta nempilo yabo yengqondo. Abafana abane-ADHD bavamise ukukhungatheka kwabo. Kodwa amantombazane ane-ADHD ngokuvamile aphendulela ubuhlungu bawo nentukuthelo yawo ngaphakathi. Lokhu kubeka amantombazane engcupheni eyengeziwe yokudangala, ukukhathazeka, nokuphazamiseka kokudla. Amantombazane ane-ADHD engatholakali nawo kungenzeka ukuthi abe nezinkinga esikoleni, ezindaweni zomphakathi, kanye nobudlelwano bomuntu siqu kunamanye amantombazane.

Ukuqaphela i-ADHD kumantombazane

Amantombazane ane-ADHD avame ukukhombisa ukunganaki kwalesi sifo, kanti abafana bavame ukukhombisa izici ezingasebenzi kahle. Ukuziphatha okungaxakile kulula ukukubona ekhaya nasekilasini ngoba ingane ayikwazi ukuhlala ithule futhi iziphathe ngendlela yokuxhamazela noma eyingozi. Ukuziphatha kokunganaki kuvame ukucashile. Ingane cishe ngeke iphazamise ekilasini, kodwa izophuthelwa izabelo, ikhohlwe, noma ivele ibonakale "inesikhala." Lokhu kungaphutha ngobuvila noma ukukhubazeka kokufunda.

Njengoba amantombazane ane-ADHD ngokuvamile engakhombisi indlela “ejwayelekile” ye-ADHD, izimpawu zingase zingabonakali njengoba kunjalo kubafana. Izimpawu zifaka:

• ukuhoxiswa
• ukuzenyeza
• ukukhathazeka
• ukukhubazeka kwengqondo
• ubunzima ngokuphumelela ezifundweni
• ukunganaki noma ukuthambekela “ekuphupheni”
• inkinga yokugxila
• ebonakala engalaleli
• ukuhlukumeza ngamazwi, njengokuhlekisa, ukugcona, noma ukubiza ngamagama

Ukuqaphela i-ADHD kubafana

Yize i-ADHD ivame ukutholakala ngaphansi kwamantombazane, ingaphuthelwa nakubafana. Ngokwesiko, abafana babonakala benamandla. Ngakho-ke uma begijima bezungeza bese belingisa, kungahle kuthiwe “abafana bengabafana.” khombisa ukuthi abafana abane-ADHD babika ukungabi namandla okukhulu nokungafisi okwedlula amantombazane. Kodwa kuyiphutha ukucabanga ukuthi bonke abafana abane-ADHD bayasebenza ngokweqile noma banamawala. Abanye abafana babonisa ukunganaki kwalesi sifo. Kungenzeka bangatholakali ngoba abaphazamisi ngokomzimba.

Abafana abane-ADHD bavame ukubonisa izimpawu abantu abaningi abazicabanga lapho becabanga ngokuziphatha kwe-ADHD. Kubandakanya:

• umuzwa noma "ulingisa"
• ukungasebenzi kahle, njengokugijima nokushaya
• ukungabheki, kufaka phakathi ukunganaki
• ukungakwazi ukuhlala phansi
• ulaka lomzimba
• ukukhuluma ngokweqile
• ukuphazamisa kaningi izingxoxo nemisebenzi yabanye abantu

Ngenkathi izimpawu ze-ADHD zingavela ngokuhlukile kubafana nasemantombazaneni, kubalulekile ukuthi belashwe. Izimpawu ze-ADHD zivame ukwehla ngokukhula, kepha zisengathinta izindawo eziningi zempilo. Abantu abane-ADHD bavame ukubhekana nobunzima esikoleni, emsebenzini, kanye nobudlelwano. Banamathuba amaningi okuthi bahlakulele ezinye izimo, kufaka phakathi ukukhathazeka, ukudangala, kanye nokukhubazeka kokufunda. Uma usola ukuthi ingane yakho ine-ADHD, bayise kudokotela ukuze bayohlolwa ngokushesha okukhulu. Ukuthola ukuxilongwa nokwelashwa ngokushesha kungathuthukisa izimpawu. Kungasiza futhi ukuvimbela ezinye izinkinga ukuthi zingakhuli ngokuzayo.

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Ingabe kukhona izindlela zokwelashwa ezihlukile zabafana namantombazane abane-ADHD?

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Izinketho zokwelashwa kwe-ADHD kubafana namantombazane ziyafana. Esikhundleni sokubheka umehluko wobulili, odokotela babheka umehluko ngamunye ngoba wonke umuntu uphendula emithini ngendlela ehlukile. Sekukonke inhlanganisela yemithi nokwelashwa kusebenza kahle kakhulu. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi akuzona zonke izimpawu ze-ADHD ezingalawulwa ngemithi kuphela.