Ukubaluleka Komphakathi Womdlavuza Webele

Ngenkathi kutholakala ukuthi nginomdlavuza webele wesigaba 2A HER2 ngo-2009, ngaya kwikhompyutha yami ngazifundisa ngalesi simo.

Ngemuva kokuthi ngifunde ukuthi lesi sifo siyelapheka kakhulu, imibuzo yami yokucinga yashintsha ekucabangeni ukuthi ngizophila yini, nokuthi ngizoselapha kanjani lesi sifo.

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Ama-blogs nezithangami eziku-inthanethi yiwona asize kakhulu ekuphenduleni le mibuzo. Ibhulogi yokuqala engiyitholile kwenzeka ukuthi yabhalwa ngowesifazane onesifo sami esifanayo. Ngiwafundile amazwi akhe kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekugcineni. Ngamthola ethandeka kakhulu. Ngithuke kwaphela nasozwaneni lapho ngithola ukuthi umdlavuza wakhe ubususebenzise imastastasized futhi ubedlulile emhlabeni. Umyeni wakhe wabhala okuthunyelwe kubhulogi yakhe ngamazwi akhe okugcina.

Ngenkathi ngiqala ukwelashwa, ngaqala eyami ibhulogi - {textend} Kodwa Dokotela, Ngiyayizonda iPinki!

Bengifuna ukuthi ibhulogi yami isebenze njengesibani sethemba kwabesifazane ngokuxilongwa kwami. Bengifuna ukuthi kube mayelana nokusinda. Ngiqale ukubhala konke engidlule kukho - {textend} ngisebenzisa imininingwane eminingi namahlaya ngangokunokwenzeka. Bengifuna abanye besifazane bazi ukuthi uma ngikwazi ukuyiphatha, nabo bebekwazi.

Ngandlela thile, igama lasakazeka ngokushesha ngebhulogi yami. Ukwesekwa engikuthole ngokwabelana ngendaba yami online bekubaluleke kakhulu kimi. Kuze kube yilolu suku, ngibabamba labo bantu basondele enhliziyweni yami.

Ngiphinde ngathola ukwesekwa kwabanye besifazane ku-belecancer.org. Abesifazane abaningi kulowo mphakathi nabo bayingxenye yeqembu lami le-Facebook manje.

Baningi abesifazane abanomdlavuza webele abakwazile ukuphila impilo ende, enempilo.

Thola abanye abadlula kulokho ohlangabezana nakho. Lesi sifo singaba namandla emizweni yakho. Ukuxhumana nabanye besifazane abaye babelana ngamava kungakusiza ukuthi ushiye imizwa yokwesaba nesizungu ngemuva bese uqhubeka nempilo yakho.

Ngo-2011, ezinyangeni ezinhlanu nje kuphela emva kokuba ukwelashwa kwami ​​komdlavuza kuphelile, ngathola ukuthi umdlavuza wami wawusufinyelele isibindi sami. Futhi kamuva, amaphaphu ami.

Ngokungazelelwe, ibhulogi yami yasuka ekubeni yindaba ngokusinda komdlavuza wesigaba 2, yaba ngokufunda ukuhlala nokuxilongwa okungapheli. Manje, bengiyingxenye yomphakathi ohlukile - {textend} umphakathi we-metastatic.

Ukwesekwa okuku-inthanethi engikuthole kulo mphakathi omusha kwakusho umhlaba kimi. Laba besifazane kwakungebona nje abangane bami, kodwa babengifundisa. Bangisizile ukuthi ngihambe ezweni elisha engangiphonswe kulo. Umhlaba ogcwele i-chemo nokungaqiniseki. Izwe lokungazi ukuthi umdlavuza wami uzongithatha yini.

Abangane bami ababili, uSandy noVickie, bangifundisa ukuthi ngiphile kuze kube yilapho ngingasakwazi ukuphila. Sebephumelele bobabili manje.

USandy waphila iminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye nomdlavuza wakhe. Wayeyiqhawe lami. Sasizokhuluma ku-inthanethi usuku lonke sibhekene nesifo sethu nokuthi kwakudabukisa kanjani ukushiya abantu esibathandayo. Sasikhuluma ngezingane zethu futhi - {textend} izingane zakhe zilingana nami.

UVicki wayebuye abe ngumama, yize izingane zakhe zincane kunami. Waphila iminyaka emine kuphela ngesifo sakhe, kepha waba nomthelela emphakathini wethu. Umoya wakhe namandla akhe anganqobeki ahlala njalo. Akasoze akhohlakala.

Umphakathi wabesifazane abaphila nomdlavuza webele we-metastatic mkhulu futhi uyasebenza. Abesifazane abaningi bangabamele lesi sifo, njengami.

Ngebhulogi yami, ngiyakwazi ukukhombisa abanye besifazane ukuthi ungaphila impilo egculisayo noma ngabe unomdlavuza webele. Ngibe ne-metastatic iminyaka eyisikhombisa. Sengilele ukwelashwa i-IV iminyaka eyisishiyagalolunye. Sengisesimeni sokuthethelelwa iminyaka emibili manje, futhi ukuskena kwami ​​kokugcina akubonisanga zimpawu zesifo.

Kunezikhathi lapho ngikhathele khona ukwelashwa, futhi angizizwa kahle, kepha ngithumela ekhasini lami le-Facebook noma kubhulogi. Lokhu ngikwenza ngoba ngifuna ukuthi abesifazane babone ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi isikhathi eside. Ukuthi unalesi sifo, akusho ukuthi ukufa sekusondele.

Ngifuna nabesifazane bazi ukuthi ukuba nomdlavuza webele we-metastatic kusho ukuthi uzokwelashwa impilo yakho yonke. Ngibukeka ngiwumqemane futhi nginazo zonke izinwele zami emuva, kepha ngisadinga ukuthola ama-infusions njalo ukusiza ukuvimbela umdlavuza ukuthi ungabuyi.

Ngenkathi imiphakathi eku-inthanethi iyindlela enhle kakhulu yokuxhumana nabanye, kuhlale kungumqondo omuhle ukuhlangana mathupha futhi. Ukukhuluma noSusan kwaba yisibusiso. Sibe nesibopho ngokushesha. Sobabili siphila ngokwazi ukuthi impilo ibaluleke kangakanani nokuthi izinto ezincane zibaluleke kangakanani. Ngenkathi ngaphezulu singabukeka sihlukile, ekujuleni kokufana kwethu kuyamangalisa. Ngizohlala ngikwazisa ukuxhumana kwethu, nobudlelwano enginabo nabo bonke abanye abesifazane abamangalisayo engibazile nalesi sifo.

Ungakuthathi kalula lokho onakho manje. Futhi, ungacabangi ukuthi kuzodingeka uhambe lolu hambo wedwa. Awudingi. Noma uhlala edolobheni noma edolobheni elincane, kunezindawo ongathola kuzo ukwesekwa.

Ngelinye ilanga ungaba nethuba lokuqondisa umuntu osanda kutholakala - {textend} futhi uzomsiza ngaphandle kombuzo. Ngempela, singudade weqiniso.