U-Bob Harper Uvula Ngokuzabalaza Nokucindezeleka Kwangemva Kokuhlaselwa Kwenhliziyo

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Isifo senhliziyo sika-Bob Harper esicishe sabulala ngoFebhuwari kwaba ukushaqeka okukhulu nesikhumbuzo esinzima sokuthi ukuhlaselwa yinhliziyo kungenzeka kunoma ubani. Isikhulu sokuzivocavoca besifile imizuzu eyisishiyagalolunye ngaphambi kokuba sivuselelwe odokotela abebekhona ejimini lapho kwenzeke khona lesi sigameko. Kusukela lapho, kuye kwadingeka aqale esikweleni esisodwa, eshintsha ngokuphelele ifilosofi yakhe yokufaneleka.

Ngaphezulu kwezinselelo zomzimba, uHarper usanda kuvula isifuba sakhe ngokuthi ukuhlukumezeka okwenzeke kulesi sehlakalo kumthinte kanjani emoyeni.

“Ngalwa nokucindezeleka, okwanqoba impi ezinsukwini eziningi,” ebhala endabeni yakhe Abantu. "Inhliziyo yami yangidela. Ngokwengqondo, ngangazi ukuthi lokhu kwakuwukusangana, kodwa angikwazanga ukukuvimba."

Wachaza ukuthi inhliziyo yakhe yayimenzele okungakanani kule minyaka edlule, nokuthi kwakunzima kanjani ukwazi ukuthi kwavele kwaphela ngaye.

“Inhliziyo yami ibilokhu igxumagxuma esifubeni sami ngaphandle kwenkinga iminyaka,” ebhala. "Kwangigcina ngigijima ngiseyingane kuze kube sekukhuleni kwami ​​​​konke. Kwakushaya kahle kakhulu njengoba ngisebenza epulazini wonke lawo mahlobo amade, ashisayo obusha bami. Ngangichitha ubusuku obungapheli ngidansa emakhonsathini nasezindaweni zokudansa ngaphandle kwezinkinga. inhliziyo yagcwala ubuhlungu njengoba ngiqala ukuthandana, futhi ngasinda ekuhlukaneni okunonya phakathi neminyaka yami engu-51. Kwangisiza ngisho nasekuvivinyweni okubuhlungu okungenakubalwa. Kodwa ngo-February 12, 2017, kwavele kwema."

Kube ngumgwaqo onzima kuHarper kusukela lapho, kepha uthuthuka kancane kancane. "Ngikhale kakhulu ngenhliziyo yami ephukile kusukela ngalolo suku lwangoFebhuwari. Manje selitholakele, sengizama ukuphinda ngiyithembe," wabhala.

Njengoba elulama, usebenzela ukunikeza inhliziyo yakhe lokho ekudingayo kokubili ekubukeni ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. "Lokho kusho ukudla okunomsoco nsuku zonke. Futhi phumula. Nokuzivocavoca okuhlakaniphile nokusebenzayo nokulawulwa kwengcindezi. I-Yoga ingisiza kakhulu ngalokho," esho. "Lapho [ngiqala] ngixoxa ngendaba yami, [ngasho] ukuthi ngangingeke ngisagcizelela ezintweni ezincane noma ezinkulu. Ngathi ngizogxila ezintweni ezibaluleke ngempela ekuphileni. Abangane. Umndeni. Umndeni wami. Wami. inja. Uthando. Injabulo. Inhloso yami manje ukwenza engikushumayelayo, kulokhu ngikhona. "

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