UBob Harper Ushonile Imizuzu Eyi-9 Yonke Ngemuva Kokuhlushwa Inhliziyo
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Ukulahlekelwa Okukhulu Kakhulu Umqeqeshi uBob Harper ubelokhu ebuyela esimweni esikahle sezempilo selokhu ahlaselwa yisifo senhliziyo esishaqisayo ngoFebhuwari. Lesi sehlakalo esingesihle sasiyisikhumbuzo esibuhlungu sokuthi ukuhlaselwa yinhliziyo kungenzeka kunoma ngubani-ikakhulukazi lapho ufuzo luqala ukusebenza. Yize ebengumfana wekhava wezempilo enhle, umkhulu wokuqina akazange akwazi ukubalekela isimo sakhe ezinkingeni zenhliziyo ezihlasela umndeni wakhe.
Engxoxweni yakamuva no Namuhla, lona oneminyaka engu-52 ubudala waphinde wakhuluma ngesigameko sakhe esibuhlungu, edalula ukuhlangana kwakhe nokufa. "Ngafela phansi imizuzu eyisishiyagalolunye," etshela uMegyn Kelly. "Bengizilolonga ejimini lapha eNew York futhi bekuyiSonto ekuseni futhi okulandelayo bengikwazi, ngavuka esibhedlela ngemuva kwezinsuku ezimbili ngiseduze kwabangani nomndeni futhi ngangidideke kakhulu."
Akakholwanga odokotela bemtshela ngokwenzekile. Kepha lesi sigameko sashintsha ngokuphelele ifilosofi yakhe yokufaneleka. Wabona ukuthi kungaba yingozi kanjani ukungazinaki izimpawu zokuxwayisa nokuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuzinika ikhefu ngezikhathi ezithile. “Into eyodwa angizange ngiyenze futhi engangizotshela wonke umuntu kuleli gumbi ukuthi ayenze ukulalela umzimba wakho,” kusho yena. "Emasontweni ayisithupha ngaphambili, ngangiqulekile ejimini futhi nganginenkinga yokuba nesiyezi. Futhi ngangilokhu ngibeka izaba."
Ekhuluma nabalaleli, ukugcizelele ukubaluleka kokuthi ungagxili ezibalweni esikalini kodwa ugxile empilweni yakho iyonke. "Konke kumayelana nokwenzeka ngaphakathi," esho. "Yazi umzimba wakho, ngoba akusho njalo ukuthi ubukeka kahle kanjani ngaphandle."
Imizamo kaHarper yokubuyisa impilo yakhe iye yahamba kancane kodwa ngokuqinisekile yaqala ukukhokha. Ubelokhu esebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana ukubhala intuthuko yakhe, noma ngabe lokho kuhamba nje ehamba nenja yakhe noma enza izinguquko ezinkulu zokuphila, njengokufaka i-yoga ohlelweni lwakhe lokuzivocavoca nokushintshela ekudleni kwaseMedithera.