Eduze noJenny McCarthy
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- Elinye lamathiphu kaJenny wokulahlekelwa isisindo: yenza imithetho yakho yokudla ye-detox
- Izeluleko zikaJenny zokugcina ezothando zingokoqobo
- Ifilosofi kaJenny yokuphila: Hamba ngesisu sakho
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Buza noma yiziphi izintombi zakho ukuthi imuphi usaziwayo abangambona bengabangane naye futhi ungase umangale ukuzwa igama elithi Jenny McCarthy. Yize lo mdlali oneminyaka engu-36 ubudala eqhamuke endaweni yesehlakalo njengo-Playboy's 1994 Playmate of the Year futhi wabonakala njengomethuli okhuluma ngodoti wohlelo lokuphola lweMTV Sikhethiwe, UJenny ungowesifazane ongandile, okuthe nakuba eqale ngabalandeli abaningi besilisa, ukwazile ukuthandwa nabesifazane. Kungani ecabanga ukuthi wamukelwe yiqembu lamantombazane, njengoba elibiza kanjalo? "Ngo-2002, lapho indodana yami, u-Evan, izalwa, ngayiphendula yonke leyo nto yekati yocansi. Kwathi uma ngiphumela obala nge-autism yakhe, ngathola ukwethembeka njengomama onothando."
Ngaphezu kokulungisa isimo sakhe esisesidlangalaleni, uJenny wenza ezinye izinguquko ezinkulu, zonke ezimsizile ukuthi ahlale eqinile naphezu kokuphila kwakhe okumatasa. Umlingisikazi, isishoshovu se-autism, nombhali (usezoshicilela incwadi yakhe yesithupha, Ukwelapha Nokuvimbela I-Autism) muva nje ngihlale phansi Umumo ukuxoxa ukuthi ukwenza kanjani konke lokho.
Isihluthulelo: Ukuphila nje kuphela ngangokunokwenzeka, uthi. Kumagazini kaMeyi we Isimo, hlola i-detox diet dos kaJenny kanye ne-15 Minute Yoga yakhe yokuzivocavoca umzimba futhi nawe, ungathola ukuzwana. UJenny ufunga ngaleli qhinga lamandla nokwelula.
Elinye lamathiphu kaJenny wokulahlekelwa isisindo: yenza imithetho yakho yokudla ye-detox
Yize ungeke ukwazi ukuthi uzombheka manje, uJenny, onobude obungamamitha ama-5 ngamasentimitha ama-6, unciphise isikali ngamaphawundi angama-211 ngenkathi ebeletha. "Bengicabanga ukuthi ngingaba neminyaka engu-170 ngesikhathi ngiphuma esibhedlela, kodwa cha, bengineminyaka engama-200!" Uveza ukuthi ukuncipha kwakhe kwangemuva kokubeletha ku-Weight Watchers. Uthi: "Bangifundise ukulawula izingxenye ezithile nokuthi ngikwazi engikufaka emlonyeni wami."
Ngemuva kokuthi u-Evan atholakale ene-autism eneminyaka emithathu ubudala, waphinde wakhipha ukudla kwakhe ukuze afane nokusika kwakhe i-gluten nobisi okwamsiza ukuthi anciphise isisindo esithe xaxa (futhi kuthuthukise kakhulu izimpawu zika-Evan, kusho uJenny).
Manje usuku olujwayelekile lufaka i-omelet emhlophe yeqanda ngesidlo sasekuseni, izithelo ezintsha nemifino (uyazihlambulula ukuze azenzele isobho) ngenhlanzi ngesidlo sasemini nasebusuku, nangokudla okulula, lawomaphakethe amancane amantongomane avela ku-Starbucks.
Izeluleko zikaJenny zokugcina ezothando zingokoqobo
Eminyakeni emine edlule, uJenny waqala ukuthandana nomlingisi uJim Carrey, athi (oshaqisayo!) umenza ahleke. Uthi: “Ukuba seduze kukaJim kufana nokuba nesihlalo esingaphambili lapho kudlalwa khona okungcono kakhulu ongakucabanga nsuku zonke,” kusho yena. Intandokazi yakhe emidlalweni yakhe? “Wayejwayele ukufunda u-Evan Indlela i-Grinch ewugcina ngayo uKhisimusi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kwakumnandi!"
Futhi yize bobathathu bezinze enkambisweni ejwayelekile, ukholelwa ekushintsheni izinto ngokubamba ubusuku be-poker endlini yabo ukugwema ubudlelwane. "Ngisanda kumfundisa iTexas Holdem. Ngicabanga ukuthi ngadala isilo," usho njalo. "Unobuso be-poker obubi kakhulu; uyagxuma phezulu noma phansi lapho enesandla esihle!" Uzama nokuguqula uJim abe ngumlandeli we-yoga ukuze bakwazi ukuzivocavoca ndawonye. "Ngimbonile ebheka izingalo zami ezinamathoni," usho njalo. "Ngiyinikeza ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ngaphambi kokuthi ngiyithole isontekile yaba ipretzel!" (Zama le nselele yezinsuku ezingu-30 ukuze uqophe izingalo zakho ezishisa kakhulu kunawo wonke.)
Ifilosofi kaJenny yokuphila: Hamba ngesisu sakho
Ngokuvuma kwakhe, uJenny wayeyintombazane elungile futhi elandela imithetho. Kodwa ngemuva kokubona u-Evan ehlushwa futhi wavele waboshwa inhliziyo (lapho etholakala okokuqala ene-autism), okuthile kuye kwavele kwaqubuka. "Umehluko phakathi kuka-Evan noJett Travolta [umndeni wakhe ophikile ukuthi une-autism] ukuthi sikwazi ukuvuselela u-Evan," kusho uJenny. “Lapho udokotela ethi alikho ithemba, nganquma ukuzilalela mina, kunokuba umuntu onegunya, kube kanye,” usho kanje. "Bengazi ukuthi sizokwazi ukulwa nale nto." Futhi ubelokhu ekholelwa kuye kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, ethuthukisa le filosofi yokuphila: "Ngifuna ukuqhubeka nokuxoxa indaba yami futhi ngifundise abazali. Noma ubani ofuna ukulalela, mkhulu, nanoma ubani ongathandi, kulungile. Yileyo ndlela engingayenza ngayo. Shona phambili."