Yini i-Electra Complex nokuthi ubhekana kanjani nayo

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• Ungayibona kanjani inkimbinkimbi ye-Electra
• Ingabe i-Electra complex ifana ne-Oedipus complex?
• Lapho kungaba yinkinga
• Ungabhekana kanjani nesakhiwo se-Electra

Isakhiwo se-Electra yisigaba esijwayelekile sokukhula kobungqingili emantombazaneni amaningi lapho kukhona uthando olukhulu ngoyise kanye nomuzwa wokuthukuthela noma wokuzonda ngomama, futhi kungahle kwenzeke ukuthi intombazane izame ukuncintisana nomama ukuzama ukuthola ukunakwa kukababa.

Ngokuvamile, lesi sigaba sivela phakathi kweminyaka eyi-3 nengu-6, futhi simnene, kepha singahluka ngokuya ngentombazane nezinga lokukhula kwayo. Ezimweni eziningi, lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi kwenzeka ngoba ubaba uyintombazane eqala ukuthintana nabobulili obuhlukile.

Kodwa-ke, kungahle kube namantombazane lapho lesi sakhiwo singaveli khona, ikakhulukazi lapho bexhumana nezinye izingane besebancane, kuqala ngokuhlangana nabanye abafana abaheha abobulili obuhlukile.

Ungayibona kanjani inkimbinkimbi ye-Electra

Ezinye izimpawu ezingakhombisa ukuthi intombazane ingena esigabeni sezakhiwo ze-Electra zifaka:

• Udinga ukuzibeka njalo phakathi kukababa nomama ukuze abagcine behlukene;
• Ukukhala okungalawuleki lapho ubaba edinga ukuphuma endlini;
• Imizwa yothando olukhulu ngakubaba, engaholela entombazaneni ukuthi isho ngesifiso sokushada nobaba ngelinye ilanga;
• Imizwa engemihle ngomama, ikakhulukazi lapho ubaba ekhona.

Lezi zimpawu zivamile futhi zingezesikhashana, ngakho-ke akufanele zibe yinkinga kubazali. Kodwa-ke, uma beqhubeka ngemuva kweminyaka yobudala eyi-7 noma uma beba bheda ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kungabalulekile ukubona udokotela wezifo zengqondo aqinisekise ukuxilongwa bese eqala ukwelashwa, uma kunesidingo.

Ingabe i-Electra complex ifana ne-Oedipus complex?

Ngesisekelo sayo, i-Electra ne-Oedipus complex ziyafana. Ngenkathi i-Electra complex yenzeka entombazaneni maqondana nemizwa yothando ngoyise, i-Oedipus complex yenzeka kumfana maqondana nonina.

Kodwa-ke, izakhiwo zachazwa odokotela abehlukene, kanti i-Oedipus complex yachazwa ekuqaleni nguFreud, kwathi eyakwa-Electra yaphinde yachazwa nguCarl Jung. Bona okuningi nge-Oedipus complex nokuthi ibonakala kanjani kubafana.

Lapho kungaba yinkinga

Inkimbinkimbi ye-Electra ivame ukuzixazulula, futhi ngaphandle kwezinkinga ezinkulu, njengoba intombazane ikhula futhi ibheka indlela umama wayo enza ngayo maqondana nabobulili obuhlukile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umama ubuye asize ukubeka imingcele ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwamalungu omndeni, ikakhulukazi phakathi kukababa-mama nendodakazi-kababa.

Kodwa-ke, lapho umama engekho kakhulu noma ejezisa indodakazi ngezenzo zayo ngalesi sikhathi sempilo yayo, kungahle kuphazamise ukulungiswa kwemvelo kwenkimbinkimbi, okwenza intombazane igcine imizwa yayo enamandla yothando ngoyise, okuyinto ingagcina iba yimizwa yothando, okuholele enkingeni ye-Electra engaxazululeki kahle.

Ungabhekana kanjani nesakhiwo se-Electra

Ayikho indlela elungile yokubhekana nenkinga ye-Electra, kepha-ke, ukunaka imizwa yothando ekhulunywe ngakubaba nokugwema ukujezisa intombazane ngalezi zenzo kubonakala kusiza ukudlula kulesi sigaba ngokushesha futhi kungangeni enkingeni. ye-Electra ingaxazululwa kahle.

Esinye isinyathelo esibalulekile ukukhombisa indima kababa, okuthi noma ingeyothando, isebenze ukumvikela kuphela nokuthi umlingani wakhe wangempela ngumama.

Ngemuva kwalesi sigaba, amantombazane ajwayele ukuyeka ukukhombisa inzondo kumama bese eqala ukuqonda iqhaza labazali bobabili, aqale ukubona umama njengesethenjwa nobaba njengesibonelo sohlobo lwabantu abafuna usuku nabo. .