UDanielle Brooks Credits Lizzo Ngokumsiza Azizwe Eqiniseka Kakhulu Emzimbeni Wakhe Wokubeletha

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Ungase uzwe ukuthi uLizzo usanda kususa ingxabano ngemuva kokuxoxa ngokuthi uhlanze izinsuku ezingu-10 ze-smoothie ukuze "asethe kabusha" isisu sakhe ngemuva kohambo oluya eMexico.Yize ethi uzizwe "emangalisa" ngemuva kokuhlanzwa, lo mculi uthole ukuhlukunyezwa ngabantu ababenomuzwa wokuthi okuthunyelwe kwakhe kuthuthukisa imiyalezo engenampilo ngesimo somzimba.

Kamuva, lo mculi uphendule kulokhu kugxekwa ngokuchaza ukuthi usezinhlelweni zokuthola ibhalansi enempilo futhi usebenza kanzima ukulungisa ubuhlobo bakhe nokudla nomzimba. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, uLizzo uthe ufuna abalandeli bakhe bazi ukuthi ungumuntu futhi unelungelo lohambo lwakhe.

Ngenkathi abanye besaqhubeka nocingo mayelana nokuhlanzwa kwe-smoothie kaLizzo, umlingisi uDanielle Brooks weza ekuvikeleni umculi. Kokuthunyelwe okusuka enhliziyweni ku-Instagram, uBrooks uthe ukuba sengozini kukaLizzo kumnike isibindi sokukhuluma ngendlela alwa ngayo nesimo somzimba selokhu aba ngumama. (Okuhlobene: UDanielle Brooks Uba Isibonelo Sokulingisa SaseCeleb Ayefisa Njalo Ukuba Naye)

"Njengomuntu owaqamba ibinzana elithi #voiceofthecurves ngithulise izwi lami ezinyangeni ezimbalwa manje ngenxa yehlazo," kusho uBrooks, owazala indodakazi yakhe uFreeya ngoNovemba 2019, wabhala eceleni kwesithombe sakhe senyama emnyama nesimhlophe. "Ngazizwa nginamahloni okuthola isisindo. Yize ngilethe wonke umuntu emhlabeni, ngangizizwa nginamahloni ngoba bengingakwazi ukugcina isisindo sami somzimba esijwayelekile ngemuva kokukhulelwa."

UBrooks uthe ekuqaleni wayehlale "ethule" ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ngethemba lokuthi uzofinyelela ezingeni lapho "engathumela khona isithombe esifana nesenziwa osaziwayo abaningi" ngemuva kokuthola ingane. "Kodwa akuyona indaba yami leyo," uqhubeke ngokuthunyelwe kwakhe. "(Okuhlobene: Konke Okufanele Ukwazi Ngokulahleka Kwesisindo Sokubeletha)

Iqiniso ukuthi, inala yabantu abanaso "isimangaliso snap-back" isithombe abazosifaka ku-Instagram ngemuva kokubeletha. Eqinisweni, kunabantu abangenakubalwa abasebenzisa imithombo yezokuxhumana ngokukhethekile ukukhumbuza abanye ukuthi ukwehlisa isisindo somntwana kuthatha isikhathi nokuthi kubalulekile ukwamukela izimpawu zokwehla, isikhumba esixegayo, nolunye ushintsho lwemvelo nolwejwayelekile olwenzeka ngemuva kokubeletha. (Okuhlobene: U-Tia Mowry Unomlayezo Onika Amandla Womama Abasha Abazizwa Becindezelwe Ukuthi "Babuyele Emuva")

Kodwa futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi kuningi lokuqhakaza nokudumisa kulabo abakwenzayo yenza "snap back" ngemva kokukhulelwa, ikakhulukazi osaziwayo. (Bheka: UBeyoncé, uKate Middleton, uChrissy Teigen, noCiara, ukubala abambalwa.) Lapho lezi zinguquko zisaba sematheni futhi zikhazinyuliswa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, kungadala abanye abantu, ikakhulukazi labo okungenzeka sebevele bezizwa bengavikelekile ngokwabo umzimba wengane ngemuva. (Okuhlobene: Lo Mgqugquzeli Ukugcina Kuyiqiniso Ngokungena Egunjini Elifanelekile Ngemva Kokuba Nomntwana)

Ngokuqondene neBrooks, uvumile kokuthunyelwe kwakhe ukuthi uzame "zonke izinhlobo zokudla [futhi] wazihlanza" ohambweni lwakhe lwangemva kokubeletha - hhayi ngoba engazithandi, wabhala, kodwa ngoba kwenza uyazithanda, umzimba wakhe, nengqondo yakhe, futhi uzama ukuzinakekela.

"NjengoLizzo, namanye amantombazane 'akhuluphele' kufanele sivunyelwe ukuthi senze izinqumo ezinempilo esidlangalaleni ngaphandle kokwenziwa sizizwe njengabakhwabanisi ngokuzama ukuba nempilo," kuqhuba u-Brooks eposini lakhe. "Nginomuzwa wokuthi kubalulekile ukwabelana ngohambo, njengesikhumbuzo sokuthi asisodwa, asihlali sikuhlanganisa ndawonye, ​​nokuthi SONKE siyimisebenzi eqhubekayo." (Okuhlobene: Ungayakha Kanjani Indawo Ehlanganisayo Esikhaleni Sokuphila kahle)

Okubaluleke kakhulu, uBrooks ufuna abantu bazi ukuthi ukwehla kwesisindo, ngemuva kwengane noma cha, akulayini nokuthi uvunyelwe ukwenza amaphutha endleleni. "Kulungile ukukhombisa ukukhula okuphakathi," wabhala, ephetha ukubhala kwakhe. "Akudingeki uhlale unayo yonke indlela ndawonye."

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