UDemi Lovato Uthe Ukuphela Kokuzibandakanya Kwabo Kwakuyinto 'Engcono Kakhulu Eyenzekile' Kubo

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Kubantu abaningi, ukumisa isivumelwano kungabulala kakhulu. Ku-Demi Lovato, nokho, ukwehlukana nomlingani ongase ube naye impilo yakhe yonke kubonakala kuyiphutha, intuthuko.

Ngesikhathi Umhlaka 19 Umele iNgqungquthela eyi-2021 Virtual ngoLwesine, lo mculi oneminyaka engu-28 ubudala uphumele obala ngokuhlukana kwabo nomlingisi uMax Ehrich futhi wachaza "ukuncibilika" kobudlelwano babo "njengento enhle kakhulu eyenzekile kubo." (Okuhlobene: UDemi Lovato Ubungaza 'Ukuzethemba Komzimba' Ngenkathi Eqopha Isimo Sabo Socansi Sokuqala)

"Ngikwazile ukuzimela ngodwa ngaphandle kokudinga omunye umuntu ozongiqinisekisa noma angenze ngizizwe ngamukelekile. Ngesikhathi ngivalelisa lobo budlelwano, ngabuye ngavalelisa kukho konke okwakungibambezela ekubeni ngumuntu wami oyiqiniso , "kuchaza lo mculi oqokwe nguGrammy.

U-Lovato uthe baqala ukukhomba njengabangenzeli ngo-Mashi 2020, ngesikhathi esifanayo lapho "bahlangana nomuntu" (u-Ehrich) base beqala ubudlelwano bobulili obuhlukile. "Lokho kwaholela ekutheni ngiziba zonke izingxenye zami ebengingacabangi ukuthi zingagayeleka kumlingani wami ngaleso sikhathi," babelana. Ngesikhathi lo mbhangqwana uthi awuyeke ngoSepthemba 2020 (ngemuva kwezinyanga ezingaba yisikhombisa bethandana nokuzibandakanya nomphakathi), uLovato wazizwa ekhululekile ukuqala "ukukhomba njengomuntu [abenza] namuhla."

Ngesikhathi sokuxoxwa, inkanyezi yangaphambili yeDisney nayo yabelana ngokuthi baqala ukubuza ukuthi bangobani ubulili lapho "sebangeni lesine noma lesihlanu."

"Esikhathini sami sokuphumula, ngangikuthola kukhululeke kakhudlwana ukuba phakathi kwabafana, noma ngicabanga ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi, ukwenza amahlaya ama-fart, noma ngabe yini eyenziwa abafundi bebanga lesihlanu. Ngabona ukuthi angiyona leyo ntombazane," bayakhumbula. "Kuze kwaba yilapho ngiya esikoleni samabanga aphakathi lapho ngashintsha khona ngokuphelele isithombe sami nokufaka uphawu lwami ukuze ngizenze ngigayeke kangcono kubantu abasesikoleni samabanga aphakathi ngoba nganginomqondo nje wokuthi babengeke babe nobungane njengabo Amabanga aphansi. Futhi impela, benginembile! "

Ukusheshisa phambili ngoMeyi 2021 noLovato baphuma njengabantu abangavezwa kanambambili kwi-podcast yabo, I-4D noDemi Lovato. Futhi lapho ebuzwa ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba nonbinary kubo phakathi nenhlolokhono yangoLwesine, u-Lovato waphendula, "Ukuthi ngingaphezulu kakhulu kunambambili yendoda nowesifazane." (Okuhlobene: U-Demi Lovato Uvula Ngokungaphathwa Ngobulili Selokhu Bashintsha Izabizwana Zabo)

Baqhubeka, "Kuyinselele nje yonke into engiyaziyo, yonke into engikhule ngikholelwa ukuthi kufanele ngibuke futhi ngiyenze futhi ngenze ngendlela ethile, futhi ikhipha konke lokho ngefasitela futhi nginjengokuthi, 'nangu , yithathe noma uyiyeke. Angidingi ukuthi uyithathe kodwa ngizwa kahle noma ngabe awuyithathi. '"

Kodwa lokho kumanje nje. U-Lovato uqhubeke wachaza ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi uhambo lwabo lobulili luzohlala "unomphela," futhi "kungahle kube nesikhathi lapho [be] khomba njenge-trans." "Noma mhlawumbe kunesikhathi lapho ngiba mdala khona engizikhomba njengowesifazane, angazi ukuthi kubukeka kanjani, kepha kimi, kulo mzuzu njengamanje, le yindlela engibona ngayo," kusho bona. (Okuhlobene: I-LGBTQ+ Glossary of Gender and Sexuality Definitions Allies Okufanele Bazi)

Futhi ekugcineni kosuku, okubaluleke ngempela ukuthi u-Lovato uzizwa ezethemba futhi ekhululekile esikhumbeni sakhe - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ilebula lakhe.

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