Ukuziphatha Kwakho Okuyinselele Kweminyaka Emine ubudala: Ingabe Lokhu Kuvamile?

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• Yini ebhekwa njengokujwayelekile kokuziphatha kwengane eneminyaka engu-4?
• Yikuphi ukuziphatha okuvamile kocansi kumntwana oneminyaka engu-4?
• Ingabe kufanele uhlanganyele nodokotela wezingane wakho?
• Ungayala kanjani ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4
• Isikhathi sokuvala
• Ukukhuza ngamazwi
• Amathiphu okuphatha indlela yokuziphatha kwengane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala
• Izinyathelo ezilandelayo

Ngilungiselela ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa lwendodana yami olungu-4 kuleli hlobo. Futhi ngivame ukuzibuza, do konke abazali banenkinga enzima kangaka nezingane zabo ezineminyaka engu-4?

Uma usesikebheni esifanayo, ungazizwa uqinisekile ukuthi izigaba "ezimbili ezesabekayo" noma "izithiyo" zimbozwe yizine ezinolaka.

Kepha izindaba ezinhle ukuthi, njengoba ingane yakho yenza inguquko isuka kwengane isiya enkulisa iye cishe kumfundi wasenkulisa, ungamangala ukuthi ingane yakho ingakhula kanjani.

Nakhu ongakulindela ekuziphatheni kwengane yakho eneminyaka emine ubudala.

Yini ebhekwa njengokujwayelekile kokuziphatha kwengane eneminyaka engu-4?

Kungabonakala sengathi ingane yakho ihlala ikuphonsela inselelo. Kepha kungenzeka ukuthi basebenza ngokufanele ibanga leminyaka yobudala le-4.

Njengoba ingane yakho isondela enkulisa, kungenzeka ukuthi yazi futhi ivumelane nemithetho.

Ngokusho kwe-American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), ukuziphatha okujwayelekile kumuntu oneminyaka engu-4 kungafaka:

• ngifuna ukujabulisa futhi sibe njengabangane
• kukhombisa ukuzimela okwandisiwe
• ukwazi ukuhlukanisa iphupho kusuka kweqiniso
• ukufuna ngenkani ngezikhathi ezithile, ukubambisana ngezinye izikhathi

Yikuphi ukuziphatha okuvamile kocansi kumntwana oneminyaka engu-4?

Kungenzeka kungabi yinto othanda ukuyicabanga njengomzali, kepha ezocansi ziyingxenye yempilo, noma ngabe umdala kangakanani.

I-AAP ineshadi eliwusizo lokwehlukanisa ngqo ukuthi yikuphi ukuziphatha okuvamile kwezocansi ezinganeni.

Ngokwe-AAP, uma ingane yakho ikhombisa intshisekelo ezithweni zabo zangasese, isitho sangasese sengane yakini, noma ngisho nokushaya indlwabu ngasese, akukho okumele ukhathazeke ngakho. Kodwa ukuziphatha kocansi okuphikelelayo nontanga noma izingane ezineminyaka ehlukile ezingahambisani nokuphazamiseka kwabazali noma ezibangela ukucindezeleka kwezinye izingane akuyona into ejwayelekile. Lokhu kuziphatha kungaqinisekisa ingxoxo nodokotela wengane yakho.

Ingabe kufanele uhlanganyele nodokotela wezingane wakho?

Kungcono ukhulume nodokotela wezingane noma uchwepheshe wakho uma ingane yakho ibonisa ukungaziphathi ngendlela engafanele okubeka bona noma ezinye izingane engozini noma okwenza izimo zomphakathi zingenzeki.

Ingane yakho ingadinga ukuhlolwa kobungcweti noma ibe nezidingo ezikhethekile ezidinga ukuzulazula. Iningi labazali nezingane liphendula kahle ekwelashweni kokuziphatha, noma kungenazo izidingo ezikhethekile, ukusiza ukufunda indlela efanele yokuziphatha nokuphendula esimweni esishubile.

Ungayala kanjani ingane yakho eneminyaka engu-4

Ukubhekana nengane eneminyaka engu-4 eyinselele kungakhungathekisa. Kungakwenza uzibuze ukuthi ngabe yiziphi izenzo zakho empeleni ezenza umehluko enganeni yakho. Kepha kubalulekile ukuthi wazi ukuthi izindlela zakho zokuqondisa izigwegwe zingasiza kanjani noma zilimaze ingane yakho.

Isikhathi sokuvala

Ezinganeni zasenkulisa, isikhathi sokuvala sikhonjisiwe ukuthi sishintsha indlela yokuziphatha kuze kufike kumaphesenti angama-80 esikhathi. Izikhathi zokuphela kwesikhathi zisebenza kahle kakhulu ekushintsheni isimilo esisodwa esikhathini esizayo.

Ukhiye wokuphela kwesikhathi ukuthi kumele afake phakathi ukuqiniseka ukuthi njengomzali, uyazisusa enganeni yakho. Akusikho isikhathi sokuphela esiningi esenza lo msebenzi, kodwa iqiniso lokuthi ingane yakho isusiwe ekunakekelweni kwakho okwenza isikhathi sokuvala sisebenze kahle.

Kufanele futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ukhuluma ngokuziphatha ngemuva kokuphuma kwesikhathi ngendlela emnene neyothando. Qonda ukuthi lapho uqala ukuzama ukuphela kwesikhathi, indlela yokuziphatha kwengane yakho ingase ibe yimbi ekuqaleni njengoba ivivinya umngcele omusha.

Ukukhuza ngamazwi

Kuyadingeka ukusebenzisa ukusola ngomlomo lapho usebenzelana nezingane zasenkulisa ezihlala zibheke ukungena enkingeni. Kepha isihluthulelo sokusebenzisa ukusolwa ngomlomo sikugcina kuyimbalwa futhi kukude kakhulu. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ungaziphindi izikhathi eziyinkulungwane. Uma wenza lokho, ingane yakho ngeke ikuthathe ngokungathí sina.

Kufanele futhi njalo uqiniseke ukubekelela ukukhuza ekuziphatheni kwengane, hhayi ingane. Isibonelo, ungathi, "Johnny, angithandi ukuthi ungibalekele endaweni yokupaka izimoto," esikhundleni sokuthi, "Johnny, umubi ngokungibaleka endaweni yokupaka izimoto."

Amathiphu okuphatha indlela yokuziphatha kwengane yakho eneminyaka engu-4 ubudala

Njengoba ufunda ukusiza ngokuphumelelayo ukuziphatha okuyinselele kwengane yakho eneminyaka emine ubudala, zama ukugcina lawa macebiso engqondweni:

• gcina ithoni enhle yomzwelo
• gcina umjikelezo wokuziphatha okuhle (ukuncoma isimilo ofuna ingane yakho ikubonise okuningi futhi ingazinaki ngokungafanele ngezenzo ezingathandeki)
• gcina uhlelo olujwayelekile lokuvuka, imisebenzi, nesikhathi sokulala
• ukusungula amasu afanayo okuziphatha phakathi kwabanakekeli
• nikeza ingane yakho ukukhetha lapho kufanele khona

Izinyathelo ezilandelayo

Akungabazeki ngakho, izingane ezineminyaka engu-4 zingaba yinselele kwesinye isikhathi. Kepha njengezingxenye eziningi zobuzali, nalokhu kuzodlula.

Kungasiza ukucabanga ngokuziphatha kwengane yakho eneminyaka emine njengokukhula okujwayelekile okuzobasiza kuphela ukuba bakhule babe ingane enempilo, esebenza kahle. Khuluma nodokotela wezingane uma wena nengane yakho nilwa nokuziphatha okuthile noma nidinga ukuqondiswa.