Ingabe i-Dry Humping (Frottage) ingaholela e-HIV noma kwezinye izifo zocansi?

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• Ithini impendulo emfushane?
• Usho ukuthini ngempela uma uthi 'humping owomile'?
• Akufanele ngabe iphephe ngaphezu kocansi lokungena?
• Ingakanani i-HIV kulesi simo?
• Kuthiwani ngezinye izifo zocansi?
• Kuthiwani ngama-STD?
• Ngabe kukhona ongakwenza ukunciphisa ubungozi bokuncipha?
• Ngabe kukhona ongakwenza ukuvimbela ukudluliselwa kumlingani wakho?
• Yini okufanele uyenze uma ucabanga ukuthi uveziwe?
• Kwenzekani ngokulandelayo?
• Umphumela omubi
• Umphumela omuhle
• Uyini umugqa waphansi?

Ithini impendulo emfushane?

Yebo, ungathola i-HIV nezinye izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi (STIs) kusuka ekucineni okomile.

Kepha ungafungi ngalesi senzo sobulili obusha obushisayo futhi hhayi nje besilisa njengamanje.

Kukhona okungaphezulu kokuthola ukugaya kwakho futhi - BAM - i-STI.

Usho ukuthini ngempela uma uthi 'humping owomile'?

Ukuqhuma okomile. Ucansi olomile. Ifulethi. Ukushayisa. Kuvutha ibhulukwe.

Lawa wonke amagama okuzihlikihla / ukugaya / ukuphosela izitho zakho zangasese kothile - noma okuthile - egameni lokuzijabulisa ngokocansi.

Kubuye kubhekwe njengendlela yokuzivocavoca umzimba.

Noma ngubani angakwenza. Kukhona zonke izinhlobo zokuhluka okujabulisayo, kuqala ngezingubo noma ukungabikho kwezingubo.

Kukhona izinketho ezingapheli zokuthola i-frott yakho, engafaka phakathi ukuhamba okujabulisayo njenge:

• ukuhlangana ngokobulili, okuyizinkulumo ezimnandi zokufaka umthondo wakho phakathi kwamathanga kazakwenu
• ukugcobisa izitho zakho zangasese kwezabo, kungaba ipipi ku-vulva, i-penis ne-penis, noma i-vulva kuya ku-vulva (tribbing) ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene, njenge-missionary noma i-scississing
• ukushisa okushisayo, lapho umuntu oyedwa ehambisa khona ukuthomba kwabo phakathi kwamabhanisi kazakwethu
• ukubhayela, okubandakanya ukufaka ipipi ekhwapheni
• tit f * cking, okubandakanya ukuhambisa isichitho phakathi kwamabele amabili abushelelezi

Akufanele ngabe iphephe ngaphezu kocansi lokungena?

Sidinga ukukuqondisa lokhu.

Ngenkathi i-humping eyomile ngokuvamile ingumsebenzi wobungozi obuncane kunobulili obungena ngaphakathi, AKUYONA ingozi ngokuphelele.

Uma ukukhulelwa kungukuphela kokukhathazeka kwakho, khona-ke hump owomile, mngani. Izifo ezithathelana ngokobulili ziyizindaba eziphelele.

Ukungena akudingi ukuthi kwenzeke ukudlulisa i-STI. Ama-STI angadluliselwa ngokuxhumana kwesikhumba nesikhumba noma ukushintshana ketshezi.

Ukomisa okomile ngenkathi wembethe ngokuphelele kuphephile, kepha noma yisiphi isimo sokukhumula sikhulisa ubungozi bakho, ngoba uketshezi lomzimba lungangena ngendwangu.

Uma uluma ukoma i-hump futhi ufuna ukuthi kungabi nengozi ngamaphesenti ayi-100, cabanga nge-solo smash sesh, bese uhlikihla futhi ugaye izingcezwana zakho ezingamukeleki kunoma iyiphi into engaphili ezwa kamnandi.

Cabanga ngomcamelo, ingalo yombhede wakho, lelo pholi elihlazekile eliwine embukisweni, njll.

Uma nje engekho ama-zipper, izinkinobho, noma imiphetho ebukhali, noma yini ezwa okuhle iphephile futhi ilungile umdlalo.

Empeleni, kunengozi yokusha kwendwangu ngokudonsa ngomdlandla, kepha leyo yinani elincane lokukhokhela injabulo enjalo, cha?

Ingakanani i-HIV kulesi simo?

Uma ungenawo ama-slip-ups - noma ama-slip-ins, kulokhu - kunengozi encane yokudluliswa kwe-HIV kusuka ku-humping eyomile, ikakhulukazi ngezingubo zakho.

Ukudlulisa i-HIV ngesikhathi sokuqhuma, uketshezi lomzimba lomlingani one-HIV kuzodingeka luthinte ulwelwesi lwamafinyila noma izicubu ezilimele zomlingani ongenayo i-HIV.

Kutholakala ulwelwesi lwamafinyila:

• ngaphakathi esithweni sangasese
• ukuvuleka komthondo
• unxande
• umlomo, kufaka phakathi izindebe
• izindinyana zamakhala

Izicubu ezilimele zingafaka izilonda, ukusikeka, noma amanxeba avulekile kunoma iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba wakho.

Kuthiwani ngezinye izifo zocansi?

I-Yep, ungathola amanye ama-STI kusuka ku-humping eyomile, futhi.

Ukuxhumana ngesitho sobulili esikhunjeni kungadlulisa izifo zocansi njenge:

• i-human papillomavirus (HPV)
• igciwane le-herpes simplex (HSV)
• i-trichomoniasis (“trich”)
• ugcunsula
• izinkalankala
• chancroid

Ukushintshaniswa kuketshezi lomzimba kungadlulisa:

• gonorrhea
• chlamydia
• I-HPV
• I-HSV
• uhlobo
• i-hepatitis A no-B

Kuthiwani ngama-STD?

Uma ingalashwa, ama-STI amaningi angaba nezimpawu futhi akhule abe yisifo - i-STD.

Ngakho-ke, yebo, ukuhlakulela i-STD kusuka ku-humping eyomile kungenzeka.

Ngabe kukhona ongakwenza ukunciphisa ubungozi bokuncipha?

Ukugcina izingubo zakho ngesikhathi se-smash sesh kuzosiza. Iqeda amathuba okuxhumana kwesikhumba nesikhumba futhi yenze ingozi yokushintshana kuketshezi iphansi.

Noma kunjalo, ukukhuluma nomlingani wakho ngesimo sakho (kanye nesabo!) Kubalulekile ngaphambi kokubandakanya kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lomsebenzi wezocansi.

Ngabe kukhona ongakwenza ukuvimbela ukudluliselwa kumlingani wakho?

Impela!

Uzofuna ukuthatha izinyathelo ezifanayo zokuzivikela ongazenza ocansini olungene, futhi usebenzise izindlela zokuvimbela njengamakhondomu namadamu wamazinyo.

Futhi nje ukusinamathisela ekhaya: Xoxa ngesimo sakho nomlingani wakho ngaphambi kokuthola matasa.

Yini okufanele uyenze uma ucabanga ukuthi uveziwe?

Ukutholwa nokwelashwa kusenesikhathi kunciphisa kakhulu ubungozi bezinkinga kanye nokuthelela abalingani bakho, ngakho-ke bheka umhlinzeki wezokunakekelwa kwempilo ukuze ahlolwe ngokushesha okukhulu uma ucabanga ukuthi uveziwe noma unezimpawu.

Izimpawu okufanele uzibheke:

• ukuphuma okungavamile noma ukuphuma kwegazi esithweni sangasese, ipipi, noma ingquza
• ukulunywa noma ukushiswa esifundeni sangasese
• ubuhlungu besende noma ukuvuvukala
• ukuchama kabuhlungu
• ukopha okungajwayelekile kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, njengaphakathi kwezikhathi noma ngemuva kocansi
• ucansi olubuhlungu
• uhlevane, izinsumpa, izilonda, noma ukuqubuka ngaphakathi noma eduze kwesitho sangasese, ingquza, izinqe, noma amathanga

Ezinye izifo zingakubangela ukuthi uzizwe u-lousy ngezimpawu ezinjengomkhuhlane, noma kubangele ama-lymph node avuvukile emgodini wakho noma entanyeni.

Ama-lymph node akhulisiwe empeleni angenye yezimpawu zokuqala zokutheleleka nge-HIV.

Yize kukuhle ukwazi, khumbula ukuthi ezinye izifo - ezithathelwana ngocansi nokunye - zingadala nokuthi ama-lymph node avuvukele.

Ukuhlola izifo ezithathelana ngokocansi, umhlinzeki wakho wezokunakekelwa kwempilo uzoqala ngokuhlola okubukwayo nokwenziwa ngezandla ukuze ahlole izimpawu zokutheleleka. Ukuhlolwa kwaselabhorathri kusetshenziswa amasampuli egazi lakho, umchamo, noma uketshezi lwakho kungasetshenziswa ukuqinisekisa i-STI futhi kutholakale noma yimaphi ama-coinfections okungenzeka unawo.

Izifo ezahlukahlukene ziyatholakala ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene, kuya ngesikhatsi sokufukamela kwazo. Udokotela wakho angahlela ezinye izivivinyo kamuva.

Kwenzekani ngokulandelayo?

Lokho kuya ngemiphumela yakho.

Umphumela omubi

Uma uhlolwe unegciwane, khona-ke uzofuna ukuhlala phezu kokuhlolwa ngokuba nokuhlolwa okuvamile kwe-STI, ikakhulukazi uma unozakwethu abasha noma abaningi.

Umhlinzeki wakho wezokunakekelwa kwempilo angenza ukuhlolwa okuhlukile kuye ngezinga lakho lobungozi.

Umphumela omuhle

Uma kutholakala ukuthi une-STI, uzonikezwa uhlelo lokwelashwa noma lokuphathwa kuye ngokuthi yini okutholakele.

Izifo ezithathelana ngokocansi ezivame kakhulu zibangelwa amagciwane futhi kulula ukuzelapha. Iningi lingelashwa ngenkambo yama-antibiotic.

Ama-antibiotic awasebenzi ezifweni ezibangelwa amagciwane. Ngenkathi ezinye zingasula zodwa, eziningi ziyizimo zesikhathi eside. Imithi elwa namagciwane imvamisa ingaphatha futhi iqede izimpawu, futhi yehlise nengozi yokudluliswa.

Amanye ama-STI abangelwa okuthile ngaphandle kwama-bacteria noma ama-virus, njengezinkalankala, ayelapheka kusetshenziswa imishanguzo yomlomo noma eyisihloko.

Umhlinzeki wakho wezokunakekelwa kwempilo angancoma ukuthi uphinde uhlolwe ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuthi ukwelashwa kuyasebenza futhi ubheka ukuthi kungaphinde kutheleleke yini.

Uyini umugqa waphansi?

I-humping eyomile iphephile impela, ikakhulukazi uma ugcina indwangu ethile phakathi kwakho nomngane wakho wokuzihlikihla, kodwa ayinabo ubungozi ngokuphelele. Ama-STI ayenzeka, ngakho-ke hump ngokuzibophezela.

U-Adrienne Santos-Longhurst ungumbhali ozimele futhi umbhali obhale kakhulu kuzo zonke izinto zezempilo nezindlela zokuphila isikhathi esingaphezu kweminyaka eyishumi. Lapho engafakwanga endaweni yakhe yokubhala ecwaninga i-athikili noma evaliwe exoxa nochwepheshe bezempilo, angatholwa ebabaza azungeze idolobha lakhe lolwandle nomyeni nezinja bedonsa noma betshiza echibini bezama ukuphatha ibhodi lokugwedla lokuma.