Usayizi Webele Lakho Ungawuthinta Kanjani Umkhuba Wakho Wokuqina
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Angakanani isici samabele esimisweni somuntu sokufaneleka?
Cishe uhhafu wabesifazane abanamabele amakhulu ocwaningweni olwenziwe eNyuvesi yaseWollongong e-Australia bathe usayizi wabo webele uthinte inani nezinga lomsebenzi abawenzayo, uma kuqhathaniswa namaphesenti ayisikhombisa abesifazane abanamabele amancane.
Ngokunikezwa lezo zibalo, abacwaningi bathole ukuthi, yebo, “usayizi webele ungaba isithiyo kwabesifazane ababamba iqhaza ekuzivocavoca umzimba.”
Abesifazane abanamabele amakhulu bachitha isikhathi esincane ngamaphesenti angu-37 ngesonto bezivocavoca kunabesifazane abanamabele amancane, ngokocwaningo olusha lwase-Australia.
I-Psychology nayo iyasebenza, kusho uLaJean Lawson, Ph.D., umqondisi weChampion Bra Lab, ohlola imishini yokunyathelisa ehlola abesifazane babo bonke osayizi.
"Omunye umhloli we-DD ungitshele ukuthi akakaze azilolonge esidlangalaleni ngoba akafuni abantu ababheke amabele akhe anyakaze," usho njalo. (Okuhlobene: Kungani Wonke Umuntu Wesifazane Kufanele Aazi Ukuqina Kwesifuba Sakhe)
I-Butterfly Effect
Esikucabanga njengokubhampa akusona nje isiphakamiso esisuka phansi naphezulu. Njengoba ugijima, isifuba ngasinye sihamba ngephethini levemvane — kulandelwa uhlobo lophawu olungapheli olungu-3-D olunezinyathelo eziya phezulu naphansi, ohlangothini nohlangothi, nangeminyakazo eya emuva naphambili. (Lokhu okwedlule kubangelwa ukwehliswa okuncane komzimba esitelekeni sezinyawo, kulandelwe ukushesha lapho uphuma phansi.)
Inkomishi engasekelwa ingahambisa isilinganiso samasentimitha amane ngokuya phezulu nangamamilimitha amabili eceleni; i-DD, ngokuqhathanisa, ingahamba ngamasentimitha ayi-10 nanhlanu, ngokulandelana. Futhi kuneziphetho eziningi zezinzwa ezicutshini zamabele ezingabhalisa ubuhlungu futhi zikwenze ubuyele emuva ngamandla akho. (Okuhlobene: Ukuthi Ukusebenza Kwashintsha Kanjani Ngemva Kokuhlinzwa Kwami Okubili)
Ongakwenza Ngayo
Ucwaningo lukaLawson lukhombisa ukuthi ubhodisi wezemidlalo ofanele unganciphisa ukunyakaza kuze kufike kumaphesenti angama-74. Funa izinkomishi ezihlukile, ezingathululi kanye nemichilo yamahlombe ebanzi eguquguqukayo. Ungakwazi ukuphindaphinda kabili futhi ugqoke amabhulashi amabili ngasikhathi sinye ukwesekwa okwengeziwe, kusho uLawson. (Nakhu okunye kokuthi ungayikhetha kanjani ibra yezemidlalo ephelele, ngokusho kwabesifazane abayiklama.)
Ngokuqondene nohlangothi lwengqondo? "Kufanele ubhekane ne-bounce njengemvelo futhi yenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu," kusho imodeli yobukhulu obukhulu uCandice Huffine, umakhi wezingubo ezisebenza ngosayizi we-Day / Won.
"Bengihlala ngicabanga ukuthi umzimba wami awenzelwanga ukuqhuba," esho. "Ngabe sengizama. Impela, amabele ami adinga umsebenzi owengeziwe nezikhali zokudubula ukuze ngiwaqinisekise kahle, kodwa angizange ngiwavumele ukuba anginqande ekuqobeni izinhloso zami. "
Shape Magazine, kaJulayi / Agasti ka-2019