Ungayakha Kanjani Indawo Yakho Yokuphila Ukuze Uthole Injabulo Engaphezulu

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Isitayela sangaphakathi uNatalie Walton ubuze abantu ukuthi yini ebenza bajabule kakhulu ekhaya ngencwadi yakhe entsha, Leli Ikhaya: Ubuciko Bokuphila Okulula. Lapha, wabelana ngalokho akutholile okumangazayo mayelana nokuthi yini eholela ekuzizweleni okuqukethwe, uxhumekile, futhi uzolile.

Encwadini yakho, ugxila kokuthintwayo nemininingwane eyenza abantu bazizwe bejabule kakhulu emakhaya abo kwakuthakazelisa kakhulu. Ingabe uye wathola imicu evamile?

"Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi okwenza abantu bajabule kakhulu bekukhona ngezinto abebezidedele njengoba bekuyinto abebebambelele kuyo. Akukho namakhaya abo obegcwele izinto. Amaqoqo ahlelwe, ngakho-ke obekusele ingqikithi yedizili yezikhathi ezibalulekile ezivela ezimpilweni zabo. Lezi zingcezu bezinomlando nencazelo— umsebenzi wobuciko owenziwe ilunga lomndeni noma umngani, noma into ethengwe ngeholide. Umsebenzi wobuciko ungashukumisa kakhulu. Imvamisa kunendaba ngemuva kokuthengwa, noma kungasikhumbuza ngesikhathi esithile ezimpilweni zethu. "

(Okuhlobene: Izinzuzo Zomzimba Nezengqondo Zokuhlanza Nokuhlela)

Kubukeka sengathi wonke umuntu usekhahlelweni elincane likaMarie Kondo.

"Kuhlala kukhulunywa kakhulu ngokudicilela phansi izintambo. Kodwa kwesinye isikhathi siyasizakala uma sibambelele ezintweni ezikhethekile. Omunye wesifazane engixoxile naye wathenga isando lapho eneminyaka engu-19 futhi esebenza eVenezuela. Ngaleso sikhathi wayecabanga ukuthi ngelinye ilanga angaba nendawo enhle, enelanga yokulengisa lesi hammock. Wayengenakho lokho kuze kube cishe eminyakeni engama-20 kamuva. Manje usilengisa kuvulandi osegumbini lakhe lokulala. Kwenza isikhala sikhetheke kakhulu kuye, futhi akusona nje isando -Kuyisikhumbuzo sohambo lwakhe lokuphila. "

(Okuhlobene: Ngazama Indlela Yokuncipha KukaMarie Kondo futhi Yashintsha Impilo Yami)

Abantu abaningi okhulume nabo bakhulume ngokubaluleka kokukhanya emakhaya abo, noma bahlobisa izikhala zabo ngezinto zemvelo. Ucabanga ukuthi kungani abantu befiphaza umugqa ophakathi kwendlu nangaphandle?

"Ukuba semvelweni akukaze kubaluleke kangaka. Kodwa siphila ezweni elixhumeke kakhulu. Kuyaqabukela ukuthi sibe nesikhathi sokuthula noma sokuthula. Singaletha imvelo ekhaya lethu, kepha sikwamukele njengendlela yokuzwa ukukhululwa okuthile. .Imvelo iyikhambi lezifo eziningi zesimanje, futhi imahhala.Ngiyazenzela.Umuzi wami unamafasitela amaningi abheke izihlahla.Ngathi ngingena ngenza yonke indawo yami yangaphakathi.Izihlahla zinhle ukuzibuka kodwa futhi zimatasatasa. . Bengingafuni ukuthi ingaphakathi lincintisane nombono. "

(Okuhlobene: Izinzuzo Zezempilo Zokuxhumana Nemvelo)

Kungithusile nokuthi bangaki abantu abathi indawo abayithandayo ekhaya labo yindawo lapho umndeni wabo nabangane bahlangana khona. Ucabanga ukuthi kungani kunjalo?

"Siyizidalwa zomphakathi. Kumele sixhumane. Izindlu zethu ziyizindawo ezilungele ukuthi sihlangane futhi sabelane ngamava. Sakha umuzwa wekhaya lapho sivula umculo, sibeka izimbali embukisweni, sidla ndawonye. Lokhu ukuthinta okungasenza sijabulele indawo yethu kodwa ngokuvamile akunakwa.Ngezinye izikhathi senza impilo ibe nzima.Uma indlu ingahlanzekile noma ingahlanzekile ngendlela ebesingathanda ukuba ibe ngayo, asifuni ukuba nabantu.

Ngithi, phatha abangane ngaphandle engadini noma emphemeni noma kuvulandi. Noma vele ube nabantu abazodla isidlo sakusihlwa, ukhanyise amalambu phansi, bese ukhanyisa amakhandlela — akekho ozobona. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, njengoba kubalulekile ukudala izikhala [lapho abantu bengaxhuma khona], kuwumqondo omuhle futhi ukuba nezindawo ezithule ongabuyela kuzo. Indawo engenayo imfuhlumfuhlu. Ukukhanya kwemvelo noma umoya oshisayo njalo kusiza. Kugcine kulula kodwa kube nomphefumulo. "

Shape Magazine, Udaba lukaDisemba 2019

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