UJanet Jackson Uthi 'Wakhala Phambi Kwesibuko' Ngaphambi Kokunqoba Izinkinga Zesithombe Somzimba Wakhe

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Kuleli qophelo engxoxweni evumayo yomzimba, kufanele kucace bha ukuthi wonke umuntu ubhekana nezinkinga zomfanekiso womzimba-yep, ngisho nosaziwayo abaphezulu emhlabeni abanebutho labaqeqeshi, izazi zokudla nezitayela abanazo. (Futhi akukhona nje lapha ezindabeni zesithombe somzimba wase-U.S. eziyinkinga yamazwe ngamazwe.)

UJanet Jackson, umama omusha futhi oneminyaka engu-52 ubudala osile futhi osebenzise cishe yonke impilo yakhe ukuyisebenzela ekukhanyeni, uyavuma ukuthi uzibuke esibukweni futhi wakuzonda ukucabanga kwakhe. “Ngangizibuka esibukweni ngiqale ngikhale,” esho exoxa naye I-InStyle eshicilelwe kuleli sonto. "Bengingakuthandi lokho ukuthi bengingakhangi. Bengingathandi lutho ngami."

Kepha ngemuva kokuchitha isikhathi esiningi egxeka umzimba wakhe, waveza ukuthi ufunde okuningi ngesimo somzimba-nangokuvikeleka naye. "Okuningi kuhlobene nesipiliyoni, ukuguga. Ukuqonda, ukubona ukuthi ayikho into eyodwa kuphela ethathwa njengeyinhle," esho. "Okuhle kuza ngazo zonke izimo, osayizi, nemibala." (Okuhlobene: Umqeqeshi kaJanet Jackson Wabelana Ngokumsiza Kwakhe Ukuthola Isimo Esihle Kakhulu Sempilo Yakhe.)

Kulungile, kodwa unjani empeleni ufike kulowo mqondo onempilo? UJackson wabelane ngamasu akhe okufunda ukuthanda umzimba wakhe isinyathelo esisodwa ngesikhathi-futhi kuhle kakhulu. “Kwakumele ngithole into engangiyithanda emzimbeni wami, okwakunzima ukuthi ngiyenze, ngaqale ngangathola lutho kodwa ngagcina sengithandana neqolo lami elincane,” usho kanje. "Bese kuthi lapho ngithole izinto eziningi."

UJackson uphinde wathi ukwelapha kwamsiza ukuthi afike endaweni enempilo, nomzimba wakhe kanye nempilo yakhe yengqondo. "Ukukhula nokuba kuleli bhizinisi… bekufanele ube nosayizi othile. Bekufanele ube nomzimba omncane ukuze ube ngumuntu othokozisa abanye… Lokho kungakudida impela," esho. "Ngiye ekwelashweni, obekumele ngithole leyo nto oyithandayo ngawe." (Okuhlobene: Kungani Wonke Umuntu Kufanele Azame Ukwelashwa Okungenani Kanye)

Isifundo: Kwesinye isikhathi ukufunda ukuthanda umzimba wakho kuqala ngokukha into eyodwa nje encane, engahleliwe bese uvumela leyo mbewu ikhule. Kungaba inqubo ehamba kancane, kepha lokho kulungile.

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