Amathiphu angama-28 Okukufaka Esimweni Se-Sesh Yakho Yezocansi Elandelayo

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• Akuzona zonke izifiso ezizenzekelayo
• I-PSA: Imvume yomdlandla iyadingeka njalo
• Hlela ukungena kumzwelo
• Hlela usuku lwezocansi masonto onke
• Ncika ekufundeni okukhanukayo
• Qhubeka nokubaleka okuhle
• Tshala isikhathi ekuphendukaneni
• Hlola amathoyizi ocansi agqokekayo
• Sext!
• Yakha ukulindela ngezinye izindlela zokudala
• Ukuxineka ndawonye
• I-Yoga
• Ukuphefumula
• Zindla
• Thatha ishawa noma ugeze
• Xazulula noma yikuphi ukungaboni ngaso linye
• Setha imizwa
• Kwenze umdlalo
• Azikho izandla
• Gingqa idayimane
• Khetha ikhadi, noma iliphi ikhadi
• Wena hamba, ngiyahamba
• Letha izinsiza ezivusa inkanuko
• Hlola izithombe ezingcolile zobulili
• Bhekani izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ndawonye
• Thola zasendle ngamazwi
• Phenya incwadi yamahlaya
• Okubalulekile

Sifaka imikhiqizo esicabanga ukuthi ilusizo kubafundi bethu. Uma uthenga ngezixhumanisi ezikuleli khasi, singathola ikhomishini encane. Nansi inqubo yethu.

Akuzona zonke izifiso ezizenzekelayo

Ngabe ama-vibrator, ama-iPhones namahhavini e-toaster afana ngani? Ungazivula ngokucindezela inkinobho. Umzimba wakho, i-fam, awukho kulolo hlu.

"Amabhayisikobho ajwayelekile ne-TV enza kubonakale sengathi kuyisifiso esizenzekelayo - lapho uvula khona ngokungazelelwe noma ngokungahleliwe - kuyinto evamile," kusho uJill McDevitt, isazi sezocansi saseCalExotics.

"Futhi ngenkathi kwenzeka ngokuqinisekile - ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni kobudlelwano - akusiyona kuphela indlela yobulili obuhle noma obuhle ukuqala. ”

Eqinisweni, iningi labantu lihlangabezana nento ebizwa ngokuthi "isifiso sokuphendula."

“Yilapho-ke kufika khona isifiso sokuya ocansini ngenxa ngenhloso ukusebenzisa imikhuba yocansi noma engokwengqondo njengokuqabula, ukubhucunga umzimba, ukufunda izinkanuko, noma ukubuka izithombe ezingcolile ukuze ungene esimweni sengqondo, ”usho kanje.

Ngezansi, amathiphu wokuziphendulela ngamabomu - nomlingani wakho, uma unakho.

I-PSA: Imvume yomdlandla iyadingeka njalo

“Kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi kokudinga ukunakwa okuncane ukuze ungene esimeni sengqondo nokuphoqelelwa ngumlingani wakho ukuba nenze ucansi ongafuni ukuba nalo,” kusho uthisha oqinisekisiwe wezocansi u-Alicia Sinclair, oyi-CEO yeCOTR, ​​Inc., umkhiqizi b-Vibe, Le Wand, kanye neCowgirl.

"Uma omunye umlingani ethi 'cha' noma uyalulama ngokomzimba, kubalulekile ukuthatha lezo zimpawu ukuyeka ngokungathi sína," usho kanje.

Ukwehluleka ukuma lapho umlingani wakho engavumi ngentshiseko akuyona ucansi. Ukushaya.

Hlela ukungena kumzwelo

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ucansi oluhleliwe luyimpikiswano yocansi olumnandi, cabanga ukuthi kungaba mnandi kanjani ukuba sezintanjeni zakho ezimnandi, izifinyezo, noma isibopho lapho umlingani wakho ekukhumula - ngokungafani nabashayi besibhakela abanosuku noma ama-panties ezikhathi.

Hlela usuku lwezocansi masonto onke

Kucacile okungenani Imizuzu engama-60 kukhalenda lakho kanye ngesonto ukuthola usuku lokuya ocansini olwenzeka kabusha.

"Okusemqoka ukugcina ukuzibophezela ekuhloleni umzimba wakho nomzimba womlingani wakho ngendlela ogcina ngayo ucingo noma ukuqokwa kwezinwele," kusho uthisha wezocansi uSarah Sloane, obeqeqesha amakilasi amathoyizi ocansi eGood Vibrations nasePleasure Chest kusukela ngo-200l .

I-FYI, leli thiphu lisebenza nakobulili bodwa, futhi. Izimpama zokushaya indlwabu ezihleliwe.

Ncika ekufundeni okukhanukayo

Hlela usuku lokuya esitolo sakho socansi. Hamba uyobona bukhoma ukurekhodwa kukaTina Horn ethi "Kungani Abantu Bengena Kulokho?!" i-podcast. Iya eMnyuziyamu Wezocansi. Iya emcimbini wokuxoxa izindaba ngezocansi.

"Ebudlelwaneni bezocansi besikhathi eside, ukudala umuzwa wobusha nokusha kungaba umehluko phakathi kokukhanyiswa nokuzizwa sengathi wenza umsebenzi othile," kusho uSinclair.

Enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokwenza lokhu ukuya emcimbini ogxile kwezocansi futhi ubone ukuthi yimaphi ama-convos nezintshisekelo ezivelayo ngemuva kwalokho, esho.

Qhubeka nokubaleka okuhle

Eyaziwa nangokuthi iholide… lapho uya ocansini khona.

Akusikho ukuzifakela ingcindezi ukuze uyithole. Kumayelana nokuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye, ​​ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka komsebenzi / izingane / izilwane ezifuywayo / abazali.

Uma ugcina ukulengiswa, kuhle! Omunye umuntu uzogeza amashidi anamabala we-lube! Uma kungenjalo, ayikho inkinga, usazohlomula ku-QT.

Tshala isikhathi ekuphendukaneni

Ukuphinda: Imizimba yabantu ayivuli ngokucindezela inkinobho. Lokho kuthatha isikhathi.

Hlola amathoyizi ocansi agqokekayo

Ngokufanelekile, lezo zingafika nesilawuli kude.

“Zama ukuba nomlingani oyedwa ogqoke isidlidlizi, njengeLock-N-Play Panty Teaser yiCalExotics, ongalawulwa umlingani wakho ngesilawuli kude,” kuphakamisa uMcDevitt.

"Ukwakhiwa kuzodingeka nigxumale ngamathambo omunye nomunye uma ufika ekhaya."

Sext!

Cabanga ngokuthi i-HOTO ingabakhona kanjani iseshini yokuthumelelana imiyalezo yocansi okulindelekile. Ngaphambi kokuthi uzobona umlingani wakho, mtshele kahle ukuthi ufuna ukwenzani kuye.

Olunye ulayini okufanele uboleke:

• "Angisakwazi ukulinda ukukhotha umthungo we…"
• “Ngihlala ngicabanga ngendlela obukeke ubukeka ngayo ngenkathi ngiqala ukukucindezela ngesonto eledlule…”
• “Namhlanje ngifuna ukukuzwa ukhalela igama lami emlonyeni wami…”

Yakha ukulindela ngezinye izindlela zokudala

Ezinye iziphakamiso ezivela kwaSinclair:

• Shiya inothi elimnandi kumlingani wakho.
• Hlanganisa izingubo zangaphansi ezikhethekile endaweni lapho uzakwenu azoyibona khona.
• Hleba okuthile okungcolile ezindlebeni zabo ngaphambi kokuya emsebenzini.
• Hambani niyothenga izinto zokugqilazwa ezintsha noma amathoyizi ocansi ndawonye (futhi mhlawumbe nitshelane izindlela eningathanda ukuzisebenzisa!).

Ukuxineka ndawonye

Isitha sakho se-libido cishe siyinombolo yakho eyodwa njalo: ukucindezeleka. Bust okunye kwalokhu kucindezela ngamasu alandelayo.

I-Yoga

Vele i-yoga isohlwini! Kungumkhuba wokucindezela, ngemuva kwakho konke. Futhi, Inja Ebheke Phansi ingumkhuba omuhle wesitayela senja…

Enye inketho: Zama i-yoga ye-tantric, eyi-yoga evusa inkanuko.

Ukuphefumula

TBH, awazi iqiniso ukusondelana uze ufanise ukuhogela kwakho nokukhipha umoya ngokuhogela nokuphefumula nge-boo.

Zindla

Zijwayeze ukwenza imizuzu embalwa yokuzindla ukuze usule ingqondo yakho ngaphambi kokuhlanganyela ekushintshaneni ngocansi, phakamisa uMcDevitt.

“Vele ungenzi ukungena esimeni sezocansi umgomo wokunciphisa ingcindezi, ngoba kuzobuyela emuva. Ukuthi, ‘Ngidinga ukuzindla ukuze nginciphe kancane futhi ngifune ukuya ocansini’ kuyindlela yomlilo eqinisekile yokuzikhathaza ngokwengeziwe, ”usho kanje. Kuyaziwa!

Thatha ishawa noma ugeze

Ukushisa okuphumuza imisipha. Isiliphu sezinkanuko esikhunjeni sakho. Imizimba enqunu. I-Yep, ishawa nokugeza zikulungele ukuvula.

Umgomo akukhona ukwenza ucansi eshaweni, ukunqanda ukucindezeleka, ngokomzimba. Kepha (!) Uma into eyodwa iholela kwenye, ungakhohlwa ukusebenzisa i-lube.

Xazulula noma yikuphi ukungaboni ngaso linye

"Ubulili obuhle kakhulu ubulili lapho kunokuxhumana okucacile, okuqondile nokukhululeka phakathi kwabalingani," kusho uSinclair.

"Futhi uma ulwa, uthukuthele, noma ukhungathekile nomlingani wakho, kungadala ukuthi ubeke izindonga zakho, okuyinto engeyona imo evumayo noma isimo sokudlala okujabulisayo."

Ukuhamba kwakho: Xhumana, xhumana, futhi uxhumane ngokuningana ukuze uxazulule (futhi mhlawumbe ulingise).

Ukuzizwa uthukuthele, ukhungathekile noma ucasukile wena futhi ingavimba i-libido yakho.

Zama ukushicilela, ukhulume ngakho nomunye umuntu (umngane, umelaphi, umthandi), noma uphendukele kwezinye izindlela zakho zokuzinakekela.

Setha imizwa

USinclair uthi: “Indawo okuyo ngezinye izikhathi ingaba ukhiye ekuphumeni esimeni esibi bese ungena kokungathandeki,” kusho uSinclair.

Zama ukuhlanza indawo yakho yezocansi, ukhanyise amalambu, ukhanyise ikhandlela lakho olithandayo, udlale umculo othambile, ubeke isitsha sokudla se-aphrodisiac (noma ibha yetshokholethi kuphela), noma uvule ifilimu yakho ekalwe nge-fav-O-rite R.

Kwenze umdlalo

Ngabe ucansi nemidlalo kufana ngani? Zimnandi zombili. Ndawonye ifana nobumnandi x10.

Azikho izandla

Ungaqabula. Yilokho kuphela! Akukho ukudonswa kwezinwele, ukudonsa ingono, ukugconwa ngomunwe, ukuphekwa kwebhola, noma ukushaywa ngebhomu kuvunyelwe.

Umuntu wokuqala ukusebenzisa izandla zakhe ukuthinta omunye umuntu ulahlekelwa.

Ukuhamba kwakho: Sebenzisa amazinyo akho, ulimi, nezindebe zakho ukuluma, ukuncela, ukuqabula, nokukhotha umlomo womlingani wakho ngesigqi esijabulisa kakhulu abakwazi ukukusiza kodwa ukukudonsela kuzo.

(Uma ungacabangi ukuthi lokhu kuyashisa, kusobala ukuthi awubonanga ukubhebhana kwawo wonke umuntu IZwi L Izithandani uCarmen noShane bayidlala ngesizini 2, isiqephu 3.)

Gingqa idayimane

Ah, idayisi yezocansi - ongayithola ku-inthanethi - ingazwakala njenge-corny AF, kepha kungashisa kakhulu.

Gingqa idayisi bese bakutshela ukuthi ukuluma, ukuncela, ukukhotha, ukushaya noma ukuqabula ophathina bakho, i-clit, iqhude noma umlomo.

Uma wena nomlingani wakho nikwi-kink ne-BDSM, ungahle uzame lokhu kusetha okugxile kukink.

Khetha ikhadi, noma iliphi ikhadi

Ngemuva kwalokho, yenza lokho ekutshela ukuthi ukwenze. Ukusuka ocansini lomlomo kuya ekuhlikihleleni emuva ukuya ekunceleni umunwe nasekuhlaleni ubuso, amakhadi ezocansi ayamnandi kuma-duos asemoyeni wokuthola imood. Thatha isethi online.

Wena hamba, ngiyahamba

“Lokhu kuzivocavoca kumayelana nokudlala uMuphi bese udlala umamukeli,” kuchaza uSinclair.

Qala ngokusetha isibali sikhathi. Isikhathi esibekiwe (njengemizuzu engama-30), Umnikezeli uthinta uMamukeli noma kuphi nanoma ikuphi lapho angathanda ukuthintwa khona, aqale ngokuthintwa kwabangathandani nababili. Uma isikhathi sesiphelile, shintsha.

"Le yindlela enhle yokugxila ekupheni nasekwamukeleni ubumnandi, futhi nokuxhumana ngezinto ezizwa kamnandi ngaphambi kokuthi kuqale ucansi," esho.

Letha izinsiza ezivusa inkanuko

Esikhundleni sokusuka ku-0-to-O (lelo zero liye ku-orgasm), kungani ungasebenzisi amehlo nezindlebe zakho ukusetha imizwa?

Hlola izithombe ezingcolile zobulili

"I-erotica ekhulunywayo efana neDipsea ne-Aurore iyindlela entsha emnandi yokuletha iphupho nomcabango kulokho okwenzekayo," kusho uSinclair.

Itholele ocingweni lwakho lapho ubuya ekudleni bese unika i-bae eyodwa yama-earbuds.

Bhekani izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ndawonye

Uma wena noma i-boo yakho nikujabulela ukubuka amavidiyo ngesikhathi sakho wedwa, kungani ungawabuki ndawonye? Ukuze uthole amafilimu athinta ezocansi, ahlola ubulili, hlola amaFourChambers noma iBellesa.

Futhi kuyashisa: Ukuvula ifilimu yocansi ende bese uphenya isikrini ukuze uzwe ukuqhuma, ukububula, nama-mews ngemuva (i-CrashPadSeries inezinye kakhulu ama-vids agcwele ama-moan).

Thola zasendle ngamazwi

Akufanele kusimangaze ukuthi ukufunda ngabantu abenza ucansi kungashisa. Donsela indaba ku-Literotica noma i-Sugar Butch Chronicles bese uyifunda ngokuzwakalayo ku-boo yakho.

Phenya incwadi yamahlaya

Abafundi ababukwayo ngaphambili! “Amanoveli emidwebo nezincwadi zamahlaya, njengeFantagraphics, kuyindlela eqanjiwe futhi emnandi yokuhlola izingxenye ezintsha zobulili bakho,” kusho uSinclair.

Okubalulekile

Kuphilile ngokuphelele futhi kujwayelekile uma kuthatha umsebenzi omncane ukuthola imizwa yezocansi. Kukhona, njengoba kukhonjisiwe ngenhla, nonjabulo yezindlela zokwenza kanjalo.

Futhi, KULUNGILE uma ungakwazi ukungena esimweni sengqondo! Akufanele neze uzizwe ucindezelekile ukuya ocansini uma ungafuni.

Izitho zakho zangasese nezinye izindawo ezine-erogenous akusona isimo se- "use 'em or lose' em" - zisazoba khona lapho usuphakathi, noma unesikhathi sokungena, imizwa.

UGabrielle Kassel ungumbhali wezocansi nowezempilo waseNew York futhi ungumqeqeshi weCrossFit Level 1. Ube ngumuntu wasekuseni, uvivinye ama-vibrator angaphezu kwama-200, futhi wadliwa, wadakwa, futhi wahluzwa ngamalahle - konke egameni lobuntatheli. Ngesikhathi sakhe samahhala, angatholakala efunda izincwadi zokuzisiza namanoveli othando, ukucindezela ibhentshi, noma ukudansa kwepali. Mlandele Instagram.