Kungenzeka yini ukuthi usayizi womthondo wensizwa ube mkhulu kakhulu?

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Uma kuziwa ekukhulumeni shaya futhi ulinganise ama-egos egunjini lokushintshela labafana, usayizi womthondo ungenye yezindlela zokuthi abafana bazizwe sengathi bangaphezulu (noma ngaphansi) ephaketheni. Kepha isisho esidala esithi "usayizi ubalulekile" empeleni asinakufaneleka uma kukhulunywa ngekamelo lokulala-phela, kunjalo ukuthi yini abangayenza ngalokho abanakho, akunjalo?

Kanjalo Umumo u-sexpert uDkt. Logan Levkoff uzizwa-ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa kumfana "mkhulu kakhulu." Uma uyi Ucansi Nomuzi fan, kungenzeka ubuyela emuva esiqeshini esithile lapho uSamantha (owayenesabelo sakhe esihle sokulala nabafana bazo zonke izinhlobo nobukhulu) engakwazi ukuphatha "Mnu. Too-Big" othile. Ukube lokho wawukhe watatazela ngomqondo wamadoda amakhulu osayizi wesilo lapho ubulili babuzovele bube khona hhayi work, kunezindaba ezimnandi: U-Levkoff uthi kungenzeka impela ukuthi kusebenze. Uma sikhuluma ngezinkinga zokuchama, bewazi ukuthi kungenzeka ukuphuka ipipi?

Kokunye, lokho okukhulu kakhulu kumuntu oyedwa kungase kungalungile komunye umuntu, kusho uLevkoff.Futhi, ngosayizi wepenisi omaphakathi oshaya cishe ngamasentimitha angu-5.2 cishe uzobe ulungile nganoma yini eza kuwe. Kodwa uma ipipi likaphathina wakho lilikhulu kancane ukuze ukhululeke, kunezinyathelo ezine ezibalulekile zokulenza lisebenze: ukuchitha isikhathi ku-foreplay (ngoba uma uvukile, isitho sangasese sangasese siba side futhi sibe banzi), usebenzisa i-lube (okungeyakho. I-BFF kulokhu), ukwenza amasu mayelana nezikhundla zakho zocansi, ukuphumula, nokukhuluma okubaluleke kakhulu nomlingani wakho ngakho. (Uthukile? Nansi inkomba ka-Levkoff yokuthi ungakhuluma kanjani nomlingani wakho mayelana nokuthi yini oyifunayo embhedeni.)

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