Ochwepheshe Bezobudlelwano Banquma UJennifer Lopez kanye ne-PDA Yokusondelana kaBen Affleck eMet Gala
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Njengamanje, kuphephile ukusho ukuthi ihlobo lika-2021 bekungelikaBennifer 2.0. Ngemuva kokuduma kokuhlangana okungenzeka ngoMeyi, uJennifer Lopez noBen Affleck benze i-Instagram yabo okokuqala ngoJulayi, njengoba bebebungaza usuku lokuzalwa lukaLopez lwama-52 eYurophu. Kusukela lapho, lezi zithandani - ezaqala ukuthembisana umshado ngo-2002 ngaphambi kokuqeda izinto eminyakeni emibili kamuva - zichithe isikhathi eLos Angeles futhi, muva nje, eVenice, e-Italy, lapho beqale khona ukhaphethi obomvu ngesonto eledlule. (Okuhlobene: UGwyneth Paltrow Ubenokuphendula Okumnandi Kakhulu ku-Ex Ben Affleck noJennifer Lopez's Red Carpet Return)
Abanye abalandeli bacabange ukuthi uLopez no-Affleck, 49, bazobonakala eMet Gala yangoMsombuluko. Yize uLopez ahamba ngezitebhisi zeMetropolitan Museum of Art solo, egqoke ingubo kaRalph Lauren onsundu eyayisebenza phezulu e-glam galore, e-Affleck kwaba ibonwe ngaphakathi. Eqinisweni, u-Affleck - owakhetha i-tux emnyama ecwebezelayo yomcimbi wokugubha "Inkululeko YaseMelika" - kamuva wadonsela u-Lopez eceleni kwePDA ethile. (Okuhlobene: UJennifer Lopez noBen Affleck Kubikwa ukuthi "Baqala Ukukhuluma" Ngekusasa Labo)
Yize kungacaci ukuthi kungani u-Affleck eqe ukhaphethi no-Lopez ngoMsombuluko, uLauren Cook-McKay, udokotela wobudlelwano e-Divorce Answers, uyakhumbula ukuthi mhlawumbe yi-NBD. "Bajabule kakhulu ukuthwetshulwa ndawonye," kusho u-Cook-McKay Umumo, ephawula uBennifer ufuna "ukukhombisa umhlaba ukuthi bayizithandani." Ngokwengeziwe, uCook-McKay uphakamisa ukuthi uLopez no-Affleck futhi "bangazi ngokugcina ubudlelwano babo nemisebenzi ehlukene ihlukene." "Yebo, uBen wayefuna ukuvumela uJ.Lo akhanye ngengubo yakhe enezimpiko ensundu - uyakwenza," kusho uCook-McKay. (Nakhu ubuhlobo besayensi obungakufundisa ngothando.)
Ngokuqondene nalabo abaduduzayo, ngemuva kwesigcawu uLopez no-Affleck abavela eMet Gala yangoMsombuluko? Yebo, bobabili uCook-McKay noKaren Donaldson, ingcweti kwezokuxhumana nolimi lomzimba, bakholelwa ukuthi lo mbhangqwana osanda kuhlangana uvumelana ngokuphelele.
Njengoba uLopez no-Affleck bemi ngapha nangapha ngokudubula okukodwa, uDonaldson uphawula ukudlidlizela kwalabo bobabili ngisho nalapho bezihlelela ngokusemthethweni. "Uma ubhekisisa kahle, ukubambelela kwakhe akuqinile futhi iminwe yakhe ihlukene kancane, okusitshela ukuthi ukhululekile futhi akazami ukuyilawula ngokubamba kwakhe," kusho uDonaldson. "Ngasikhathi sinye, isimo sikaJennifer sikhululekile futhi akaphikisi ukubamba kukaBen okhalweni. Kusitshela ukuthi laba bobabili bakhululekile uma bendawonye."
Kwezinye izithombe ezibonisa u-Affleck no-Lopez behamba ngaphakathi kwendawo, bobabili ochwepheshe bayavuma ukuthi umlingisi ubonakala evikela intokazi yakhe ehamba phambili ngokunganaki. "U-Ben oholayo kanye no-Jennifer ebambelele engalweni yakhe yangakwesokunxele njengoba behamba emcimbini kusikisela ukuthi laba bobabili baduduzeke kakhulu lapho bekhona," okubonisa ukuthi "uJennifer uvumela uBen ukuba alawule futhi athathe isivikelo." "kusho uCook-McKay. "Lo mbhangqwana ugcina ukuma kwawo okuhlelekile kulo lonke, ubonisa ubuhle nobuciko babo njengombhangqwana."
UDonaldson uyavuma, wengeza ngokuthi ukubekwa kwesandla sika-Affleck kubonisa isimo sakhe "somvikeli" "Uma sisesimweni sokuzivikela noma sokuzivikela, sivame ukudala umgoqo phambi kwezindawo zethu ezisengozini kakhulu," kusho yena. Futhi njengoba u-Affleck ehamba phambili, "kanye nendlela u-Jennifer abambe ngayo ingalo ka-Ben, isitshela ukuthi uzizwa ephephile futhi evikelwe nguye. Kuyinto yakudala, 'Ngingancika ekubambeni kwakho ingalo," kusho uDonaldson.
Futhi-ke, njengoba ababekhona eMet Gala kwakudingeka ukuthi bagqoke izifihla-buso zobuso lapho bengaphakathi endlini ngaphandle kwalapho bedla noma bephuza, laba babili baqhubeka nokwabo noma behlanganyela i-smooch. Kodwa indwangu eyengeziwe ayizange ibavimbe ekukhonzeni amakhemikhali amaningi. "Isimo somzimba lapha sibonisa ukuthi umbhangqwana uthandana kakhulu futhi ufuna ukwabelana ngalokhu nomhlaba," kusho u-Cook-McKay. "Izithandani azivumeli ukuthi izifihla-buso zibavimbele ekuhlanganyeleni isikhathi sokusondelana. Kulokhu, izingalo zikaBen zisonge okhalweni lukaJennifer futhi amehlo abo womabili avaliwe, okukhombisa ukuthi bakhona manje futhi sebekhohliwe ukuthi bathwetshulwa. Lesi sithombe asiwona owombukiso - singokoqobo! "
U-Donaldson uphawula ukuthi njengoba u-Lopez no-Affleck's torsos nama-groins bobabili bethintana, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi "babukana" omunye nomunye. "Imibhangqwana exhumeke kakhulu ivame ukulingisa isenzo somunye nomunye," esho. "Kufana nokuthi imizimba yabo ithi bayiyunithi eyodwa. U-Ben no-Jennifer bakhululekile ukukhombisa ukukhangana nothando lwabo ngomunye nomunye esidlangalaleni." (Okuhlobene: Lokho okushiwo nguJennifer Lopez noBen Affleck's Steamy PDA, Ngokusho Kwezazi Zolimi Lomzimba)
Yize kungekho owaziyo ukuthi ikusasa likuphatheleni iBennifer 2.0, kuyacaca ukuthi laba bobabili banenjabulo enkulu ndawonye endleleni. (Uma kwenzeka ufisa ukwazi, funda kabanzi mayelana ne-psychology ngemuva kokubuyelana nomuntu owake wathandana naye, ngokusho komelaphi wobudlelwane.)