Yini Ofuna Ukwelashwa Ofuna Ukuyisho Kubantu Abacasukile NguJ. Lo noShakira's Super Bowl Performance

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• Impendulo ku-Shakira no-J. Lo’s Super Bowl Halftime Show
• I-Backlash Against Shakira ne-J. Lo's Super Bowl Halftime Show
• I-Therapist ethi Thatha Ukugxekwa
• Umugqa Ophansi
• Buyekeza kwe-

Akunakuphikwa ukuthi u-Jennifer Lopez no-Shakira balethe ~ukushisa~ ku-Super Bowl LIV Halftime Show.

U-Shakira uqale umdlalo ngengubo ebomvu yezingcezu ezimbili ngeminyakazo ebucayi ye- "Hips Do Not Lie". U-J. Lo wabe esebuya nawo-'90s "no-Jenny waseBlock", "Get Right", "Waiting for Tonight" ngenkathi egqoke ukubukeka kwesikhumba okukhangayo. Lesi sihlabani esineminyaka engu-50 ubudala size saletha isivakashi esikhetheke kakhulu, indodakazi yakhe u-Emme, 12, ukuthi sinandise naye ngesikhathi sombukiso.

Ngokubambisana, lezi zihlabani ezimbili ze-pop zenza umbukiso wokukhumbula, zihlonipha amagugu azo ngenkathi ziveza amathalente azo kanye nemidlalo yezemidlalo engenakuqhathaniswa.

Impendulo ku-Shakira no-J. Lo’s Super Bowl Halftime Show

Akumangazi ukuthi iningi labantu ku-Twitterothandekayo ukusebenza kwesithonjana. Ngokuqondile, abantu abaningi bayakwazisa ukuthi bobabili uShakira noJ. Lo bamele kahle kangakanani amasiko abo aseLatina. "Umphakathi waseLatino umelwe ngokuziqhenya namhlanje ebusuku yizindlovukazi ezimbili futhi siyakuthanda lokho," kubhala umuntu oyedwa ku-twitter. Abanye bathi lo mdlalo ufanekisela amandla amantombazane futhi wenze ingxenye yawo ekuhlanganiseni abesifazane bemibala ndawonye.

Kwelinye inothi, abanye abalandeli baye ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ukuze bakhumbuze wonke umuntu ukuthi iminyaka yobudala iyinombolo nje—nokuthi u-J. Lo no-Shakira babonise lowo muzwa kangcono kunanoma ubani ngesikhathi sokudlala kwabo kwe-Super Bowl Halftime Show. "Omunye uneminyaka engama-43 kanti omunye uneminyaka engu-50. Igama elilodwa: QUEENS," kubhale uTwitter oyedwa.

"Yeka umbukiso wethalente, amandla, ezemidlalo, nobuhle," kwengeza omunye. "Ngijabule kakhulu ngabo bobabili nabalandeli babo, asebelinde isikhathi eside ukubabona benqoba umhlaba." (Okuhlobene: Izikhathi Zokufaneleka EzikaJennifer Lopez Ezizokugqugquzela Ukuhlasela Izinhloso Zakho)

I-Backlash Against Shakira ne-J. Lo's Super Bowl Halftime Show

Ngabe iSuper Bowl ingaba yini ngaphandle kwengxabano ethile? Naphezu kokuthululwa kwendumiso ngokusebenza kwe-Shakira kanye ne-J. Lo's Super Bowl Halftime Show, abasebenzisi abambalwa be-Twitter banomuzwa wokuthi lo mdlalo "awufanelekile," "ubuswa ucansi ngokweqile," futhi "awulungele umndeni."

"Nginamahloni ngezingane zami ukubuka lolu hlelo lwesikhathi sekhefu," kubhala omunye umuntu ku-tweet. "Izigxobo ze-Stripper, crotch, kanye nemiphumela engemuva ... akunasithunzi."

Umbhalo ofana nalona ubufundeka kanje: "Umbukiso ubungaphezu kokudlikiza futhi ube nomdanso we-pole wokuhlubula, ubambe onqenqemeni bese ugingqika esiteji uhhafu unqunu ulethwa emakamelweni okuhlala eMelika agcwele imindeni nezingane kuyenyanyeka! ISuper Bowl ingeyawo wonke umuntu futhi akufanele kukalwe i-XXX. " (Kuhlobene: Ingabe Imboni Yokufaneleka Inenkinga "Ye-Sexy-Shaming"?)

Abanye abantu baphinde baphikisa ngokuthi umbukiso bekungenjalo ukunika amandla abesifazane, okuphakamisa ukuthi bekungaphezulu "kokubuyiselwa emuva" ebufazini kunanoma yini enye. Umuntu oyedwa uze wabhala ku-twitter ukuthi lokhu "kukhombisa amantombazane amancane ukuthi ukuxhashazwa kwabesifazane ngokocansi kulungile."

“Ngokuxhashazwa kwabantu besifazane kukhula emhlabeni wonke, esikhundleni sokwehlisa amazinga, kumele thina njengomphakathi sikukhulise,” kubhala yena.

Omunye umuntu waba nomuzwa wokuthi ukusebenza kukaShakira noJ. J. Lo "kwakuwudoti" futhi "kungukuzenzisa." (Okuhlobene: ULena Dunham Uthi Indlela Yokuphila Ngokwempilo Akuyona Eyokulwa Nabesifazane)

"Abesifazanekazi bayamemeza ngokuhlonipha abesifazane bese behlose abesifazane ngedlanzana labo 'lokudansa'," kuqhubeka i-tweet.

Abanye baze bafaka izikhalazo kuFederal Communications Commission (FCC) mayelana nokusebenza kukaShakira noJo Lo weSuper Bowl Halftime Show. Empeleni, i-FCC ithole izikhalazo ezingaphezu kuka-1,300 ezivela kubantu ezweni lonke emahoreni alandela uhlelo, ngokusho kwesiteshi sezindaba saseTexas TV, WFAA. Ababukeli abafake izikhalazo babekhathazeke kakhulu ngokuthi ukudlala "bekungafanele izethameli ezijwayelekile" nokuthi "asikho isixwayiso esisesidlangalaleni esinikezwe mayelana nemvelo engcolile" yohlelo.

"Angibhaliseli i-The Playboy Channel, asithengi i-porn nge $ 20 nge-flick, besifuna nje ukuhlala phansi njengomndeni sibuke iSuper Bowl," kubhala omunye umbukeli waseTennessee. "Unkulunkulu akavumanga ukuthi besilindele ukubuka ibhola nekhonsathi elisheshayo kodwa kunalokho amehlo ethu anukubezwa. Ihlazo kini nonke ngokuvumela lokho kungene emakhaya ethu."

I-Therapist ethi Thatha Ukugxekwa

Ukuphendula lokhu kugxekwa, abantu abaningana beza ekuvikeleni kukaJ. Lo noShakira. Phakathi kwabo kwakunoRachel Wright, M.A., L.M.F.T., isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo nomshado nobungoti kwezobudlelwano. Encwadini ecatshangelwe kahle ku-Instagram, u-Wright wabelane ngemicabango yakhe ngalokhu kugxekwa, ethi uzizwa "ephoqeleke kakhulu" ukuthi aphawule ngalolu daba. ⁣(Ukhumbula ngaleso sikhathi abalandeli baka-Lady Gaga behlisa abantu abahlambalaza umzimba ngesikhathi se-Super Bowl?)

"Ukugqoka kwabantu okubenza bazizwe bekhanga futhi benamandla kuyinto enhle," kubhala uWright eposini lakhe.

Vele, njengombono ojwayelekile, uphawulanoma ngubani umzimba, ukubukeka kwakho konke, kanye/noma ukukhetha kwezingubo akulungile—ukuma ngokuphelele. Kuyinto yabo choice kanye yabo ibhizinisi. Lokho kusho, njengoba uWright esho, kukhona ngakho izindinganiso eziningi ezikabili kwabesilisa nabesifazane, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ekubukekeni komzimba. Icala ngephuzu: Uyakhumbula lapho u-Adam Levine ekhumula ihembe lakhe phakathi nokusebenza kwakhe kwe-2019 Super Bowl LIII Halftime Show?

"[U-Levine] wayephezulu lapho engenalutho," kusho u-Wright Umumo. "Ungangizwa kabi, bekukuhle. Kodwa ubekhiphe izingono, futhi akekho ozwa ukuthi lokho bekungathandi umndeni. Pho, kungani laba besifazane ababili, [ababukisa] ngamakhono abo, bethathwa njengabangafaneleki? , nakuba base bembethe ngokuphelele na?"

Futhi, uma ubheka kahle, uJ. Lo empeleni ubonakale egqoke izingqimba eziningi zama-leggings ngaphansi kwengubo yakhe, kuphawula uWight. UShakira, ngakolunye uhlangothi, uveze imilenze yakhe ne-midriff, okungafani neze nokugqoka isudi yokudoba olwandle, kusho uWright.

"Bagqoke izingubo ezincane njengabesifazane be-ballet," uyanezela. "Kodwa ama-ballerinas athathwa njengamazinga aphezulu futhi ayaziswa ngokuncintisana kwabo kwezemidlalo, kanti laba besifazane abekho. Empeleni yinhlangano thina, njengabantu abadala, eyenza imidlalo efana nalena enenkinga, hhayi imidlalo uqobo."

Yilezo zinhlangano ezenze abantu abaningi bazizwa bengakhululekile ngengxenye yomdanso wohlelo, u-Wright wabhala eposini lakhe. "Ukudansa esigxotsheni kuyindlela yokudansa eyinselele, yezemidlalo futhi enhle," esho ehlanganyela. "Kubizwa ngePOLE DANCING."

Empeleni, ochwepheshe abaningana bezokuzivocavoca babelane ngokuthi ukudansa nge-pole kungaba yinselele kanjani: "[Ukudansa nge-Pole] kuhlanganisa ngempumelelo ukuqeqeshwa kwamandla, ukukhuthazela, nokuzivumelanisa nezimo kube yinto eyodwa yokuzijabulisa," umfundisi uTracy Traskos, we-NY Pole, owabiwe nathi ngaphambilini. "Yi-yoga, i-Pilates, i-TRX ne-Physique 57 konke kusongwe kwaba kanye. Futhi ngezithende eziphakeme!" (Nazi ezinye izizathu eziyi-8 udinga ukuzama ukuqina komzimba.)

Ngokushesha futhi iba enye yezindlela ezishisa kakhulu zokuqina, ngenxa yendlela eqhuba ngayo umzimba nengqondo yakho. "Ukudansa kwepole kufeza izinto eziningi ngasikhathi sinye. Akukona nje kuphela ukuthi kungumakhi womzimba oyisisekelo omangalisayo nomzimba ongaphezulu, kodwa futhi kukhulula ngokocansi, kathartic ngokomzwelo, indlela yokuzwakalisa, nokuzihlola ngokwakho," u-Amy Main, co -umdidiyeli wefilimu Kungani Ngidansa, wasitshela ngaphambilini. "Luhlobo lokuqina komzimba oluguqula kakhulu kakhulu engake ngabhekana nalo. Futhi angikaze ngithande umzimba wami namajika!"

Ngisho noJ.Bheka — owesifazane, ngokwesimo sonke, oyisilo ejimini — ubekade evulelekile mayelana namandla omzimba nokuqina okudingekayo ukuze afunde ukudansa nge-pole: "Kubi emzimbeni wakho," esho ngemuva ekusithekeni Ividiyo esetshenziselwe ukuphromotha ifilimu yakhe yakamuva, Ama-Hustlers. "I-acrobatic ngempela. Ngithole ukusikeka nokulimala nezinto ezivela kumabhayisikobho, kodwa angikaze ngilinyazwe kanjena kunoma yini engiyenzile." (I-BTW, nayi indlela uShakira noJ. Lo abalungiselela ngayo ukusebenza kwabo kweSuper Bowl.)

Umugqa Ophansi

Ukonakalisa izitayela zokudansa ezihlukile kuyinto eyodwa. Kodwa u-Wright wabhekana nendaba engathi sína ngesiphakamiso sokuthi ukusebenza kwe-Super Bowl Halftime Show ka-Shakira no-J. Lo ngandlela thize kwakuwukungahloniphi kwabesifazane.

"Kuphambene ngqo," kusho uWright Umumo. "Into ebaluleke kakhulu yokulwela amalungelo abantu besifazane ukuthi abantu kufanele bakwazi ukwenza abakufunayo futhi bagqoke abakufunayo ngoba kuyilungelo labo eliyisisekelo." (Okuhlobene: Abesifazane Babelana Ngamazwana Amabi Abawatholile Ngomzimba Wabo)

Eqinisweni, uWright angaphikisana nalokho ukuhlambalaza noma ukugxeka omunye wesifazane ngokuthi kanjani bayakhetha ukugqoka kuyinto elwa nabesifazane uqobo, uyanezela. “Uma uhlonipha abantu besifazane kumele ubahloniphe uma beya ocansini, hhayi ocansini nanoma yini phakathi,” kuchaza yena. "Ukungabaza lokho, kanye [nokungahambisani] nendlela owesifazane akhetha ngayo ukwamukela umzimba wakhe, akukona nje ukulwela amalungelo abantu besifazane."

Noma kube nenqubekela phambili ekuqhubekeleni phambili kwesifazane, uWight uthi unomuzwa wokuthi kusenomsebenzi okusamele wenziwe. "Kufanele siqale ukuzibophezela kulezi zimo," usho njalo. "Kumele sizibuze ukuthi kungani lezi zinto zisenza singakhululeki futhi sizimisele ukuzwa imibono yabanye abantu."

Konke kuncike ekubeni nomqondo ovulekile, kusho uWright. “Kumele siqale sizifundise sifunde ukuzwelana esikhundleni sokuklolodelana,” usho kanje Umumo. "Uma ulinganisela umbono wakho kanjalo, ubamba umbono wakho womhlaba. Yilapho inqubekela phambili iba nzima, uma kungenakwenzeka."

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