Lo Mama Wabelane Ngesithombe Samamaki Wokunweba Komyeni Wakhe Ukwenza Iphuzu Ngokutholwa Komzimba

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Amamaki wokunweba awabandlululi — futhi yilokho kanye nomgqugquzeli womzimba omuhle uMilly Bhaskara ahlose ukukufakazela.

Umama osemncane ungene ku-Instagram ekuqaleni kwaleli sonto ukuze abelane ngesithombe samamaki omyeni wakhe uRishi, abependwe nge-glitter yesiliva. Kulesi sithombe, indodana yabo, u-Eli, nayo ibonakala ibeke ikhanda layo ethangeni likayise futhi imamatheka. (Okuhlobene: Lo Mfazi Usebenzisa I-Glitter Ukukhumbuza Wonke Umuntu Onweba Amamaki Amahle)

"Amadoda nawo athola ama-stretch marks," kubhala uBhaskara eceleni kwesithombe esinamandla. "Zijwayelekile kubo bonke ubulili."

Ngokuzijwayeza ukuzenzela umusa, uBhaskara uthi yena nomyeni wakhe banethemba lokufundisa indodana yabo ngokwamukela umzimba besebancane. "Silungisa ubunqunu kule ndlu, sijwayela imizimba ejwayelekile namamaki ajwayelekile, izigaxa kanye nezigaxa," kubhala yena. "Sijwayele ukuba ngumuntu onomzimba womuntu." (Okuhlobene: Lo wesifazane Ojabule Ngomzimba Uchaza Inkinga 'Ngokuthanda Amaphutha Akho')

"Sethemba ukuthi kuzomsiza ngokwamukela umzimba wakhe esekhulile," engeza.

Ngosuku olulandelayo, u-Bhaskara wabelane ngesithombe se-stretch mark yakhe enomyalezo ofanayo: "Yenza imizimba evamile (noma ngabe ikuphi okujwayelekile) ezinganeni zakho," ebhala. "Jwayela ubunqunu bobulili obuhlukile, izibazi, ukuthinteka kweplonic, imvume, imingcele yomzimba, ukwamukelwa komzimba [futhi] ukhulume kahle ngawe."

Yize izindinganiso zobuhle ezingezona ezeqiniso-kufaka phakathi inkolelo engafanele yokuthi ukwelulwa kufanele kufihlwe, kunokuba kugujwe-kudlame kakhulu emithonjeni yezindaba ejwayelekile, abazali banethuba lokuphonsela lezo zinganiso ekhaya nezingane zabo, uma bekhetha kanjalo. Kusukela ekuthuthukiseni ubuhlobo obuhle ngokudla nokuzivocavoca kuya ekubekeni phambili imikhuba yokuphila enempilo, izingane zingakwazi ukuqhubeka nokuziphatha kwabazali bazo kusukela zisencane.

Njengoba uBhaskara esho ngokwakhe: "Izingane zakho ziyakuzwa okushoyo. Ziyabona ukuthi uwuphatha kanjani umzimba wakho ngakho-ke yiba nomusa kuwe nasemzimbeni wakho noma ngabe kufanele ukukhohlise ekuqaleni lapho uzungeze khona!"

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