Angiyena Umzali Ojabulisayo - futhi ngipholile ngalokho

Konke kumnandi futhi kuyimidlalo lapho uBaba ekhona, kodwa ngiza ngokuvumelana nendima yami emndenini.

Angikaze ngizicabange njengomuntu onesidina. Kufanele ngicacise: Angikaze ngizicabange njengomuntu oyisidina ... kuze kube yilapho indodana yami endala iqonde ngqo ingitshela ukuthi nginguye. Ngimnika impilo futhi unginikeza lokhu kuthuka okukhulu. Unonya - {textend} kwesokudla?

Kepha yebo, lokho kwenzekile. Kwakungasho lutho kuye ukuthi nganginezinto eziningi zokuzilibazisa nezinto engizithandayo. Unikeze ama-zero effs ukuthi nginomsebenzi engiwuthandayo, impilo enhle yomphakathi, izifuywana ezimbalwa zokuhlenga, noma umlingani. Ungitshele ukuthi ngiyintokazi enesicefe, waqhubekela phambili wayicacisa ngokusho lokhu, futhi ngacaphuna: “Awuyi ndawo eduze ubumnandi njengoDaddy! ”

Yebo-ke ... kwakukhona. Lo mashiqela omncane wayengazi nokuthi angazisula kanjani izifuba zakhe, kodwa wayekhululekile ngokungijikijela ngokushesha endimeni engapheli yomzali “ongajabulisi”. Mmkay.

U-Ego manje ulimale ngokuphelele, lesi simemezelo esinesibindi sangenza ngayeka engangikwenza (okungenzeka ngaleso sikhathi kwakuwasha ama-onesies omfowabo osanda kuzalwa kanye / noma ukuthandaza ubuthongo babo buvumelaniswe ngaleyo ntambama) bese ngicabanga. Ngenkathi ngenza, ngabona ukuthi inzalo yami yayinephuzu.

Ngenkathi ngabelana ngemithwalo yemfanelo eminingi nobaba wakhe, umsebenzi omningi wokunakekela / wokuwasha-futhi-ukwenza-isidlo / ukugcina-ukuqokwa / ukugcinwa kwehlela kimi. Kubize ngomama. Yibize ngezindima zobulili. Yibize ngokuthi ngingumuntu okhathazeke kakhulu onenkinga yokulawula. Noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu, ngubaba othola ukuba aqokwe njengo "Good Time Guy."

Ekuqaleni, lokho kwangikhathaza. KAKHULU. Akuyona neze indlela engangizicabanga ngayo izinto lapho ngikhulelwe! Njengomama ozayo, ngithathe uhambo oluningi lwenkundla yokudlala olujabulisayo, ukuphuma kwezilwane, nemincintiswano yokwakha iLego njengomzali olandelayo. O, izindawo esizoya kuzo!

Inkinga kuphela ukuthi ngangingashiyanga ndawo emaphusheni ami emisebenzini ejwayelekile eza nobuzali. Futhi bafana, nginesiqiniseko sokuthi akudingeki nginitshele, kunezinqwaba ze-‘em, kusuka kwivenkile yokuthenga nokuwasha izingubo, ukuqabula ama-boo-boo, nakho konke okuphakathi.

Angisho ukuthi asenzi izinto ezimnandi engangizicabanga ngalezo zinsuku eziyigugu zokubeletha. Ngikhuluma nje akusiwo wonke ama-rose ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi angikhulumi ngamanabukeni angcolile lapha, bantu. Izinto ezingajabulisi - {textend} ukugcinwa, umsebenzi ogcina umkhumbi uhamba ngomkhumbi - lezo zinto ziza kuqala, futhi kuzohlala kunjalo. Akuyona into yokumisa noma nini maduzane, ngakho-ke uyemukela ukuthi kungena esikhathini ofuna ukusijabulela namakherubi akho.

Kepha uyazi ukuthi yini enye eyenzayo? Kwenza izikhathi zobumnandi zibe mnandi kakhulu, futhi kukwenza uthole ukuzijabulisa ezindaweni ezilula, zansuku zonke noma emizileni. Ungangizwa kabi - {textend} ngisendleleni eza ekwamukelweni ngokuba yilowo ongajabulisi, nakanjani ngivikele kancane.

Ngingayithola kanjani i-rap embi ngokungabi nayo njalo imisebenzi ejabulisayo ehlelelwe izingane zami, phakathi kwezinto eziningi kakhulu ezidinga ukwenziwa ukuzigcina zingamalungu omphakathi amancane aphilayo, asebenzayo? Izinto zidinga ukwenziwa, futhi umzali ojabulisayo yisihloko ubaba wabo angaba naso uma enamandla, isikhathi, nentshisekelo yokwenza kanjalo. Ngijabula kakhulu ngokuthi uyakwenza! Ngoba bafanelwe yizo zonke izinjabulo ezingakutholwa ubuntwana, futhi njengoba kunesisho, kuthatha umuzana.

Njengoba ngize ukuzobona, kungumsebenzi wami ukuqhubeka nokugcina izingane zami ziphilile futhi zisendleleni efanele. Bathanda imiqhudelwano kababa wevidiyo futhi baya epaki yetrampoline. Angibasoli! Ngiyayithanda lapho senza lezo zinto, futhi.

Kepha ngolunye usuku (ngethemba) bayokuthokozela nokuba nesethi egcwele yamazinyo angazange abole, noma bafunde ukubhukuda. Ngingumama wabo - {textend} hhayi uhlelo lwabo lokuzijabulisa ekhaya. Futhi ubumnandi esibutholayo (obuvame futhi buningi, i-IMHO) bukhunjulwa kakhulu kithi sonke.

Ngakho-ke kukhona. Uma unanoma yini efana nami, izingane zakho azicabangi ukuthi umnandi ngokwanele. Ngithi qhubeka wamukele isithukuthezi sakho sasebukhosini, ngoba uyazi ini? Uyi-glue.

UKate Brierley ungumbhali omkhulu, u-freelancer, futhi ungumama ongumfana kaHenry no-Ollie. Ahlabane nge-Rhode Island Press Association Editorial Award, uthole iziqu ze-bachelor kwezobuntatheli nokuba ngumpetha kwezomtapo wolwazi nezifundo zolwazi e-University of Rhode Island. Ungumthandi wezilwane ezihlengayo, izinsuku zasolwandle zomndeni, namanothi abhalwe ngesandla.