Kuyini Ukubandlulula?

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• Ingabe ukucwasa akunampilo?
• Kusebenza kanjani ukucwasa?
• Ubandlululo kuqhathaniswa nesisu
• Izinhlobo zobandlululo
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Incazelo yobandlululo

Ubandlululo luyisifiso sobulili ngokugxila engxenyeni ethile yomzimba. Lokhu kungaba yinoma iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba, enjengezinwele, amabele noma izinqe. Uhlobo oluvame kakhulu lokubandlulula yi-podophilia, lapho umuntu evuswa ngocansi ngezinyawo.

I-Partialism ihlukaniswa njengohlobo lwe-paraphilia noma i-paraphilic disorder. I-Paraphilia ifaka ukuvusa ucansi ezintweni, ezimeni, noma ekuhlosweni okubhekwa njengokungajwayelekile noma okungejwayelekile. Ubandlululo oluthathwa njenge-paraphilia luyimpikiswano ethile futhi kuyisihloko esiphikiswa kakhulu phakathi kochwepheshe bezempilo.

Izinhlobo eziningi ze-paraphilia azithathwa njengezamukelekile emphakathini noma azikho emthethweni, njenge-pedophilia necrophilia. Ubandlululo uhlobo lwe-paraphilia oluthakazelisa kakhulu noma oluthandayo kwezocansi kunesifo se-paraphilic, futhi esivame ukwamukeleka phakathi kwabantu abadala abavumayo.

Ingabe ukucwasa akunampilo?

Ukubandlululwa kubhekwa njengokungenampilo kuphela uma kukucindezela noma kukulimaza. Inqobo nje uma kungakhubazi ukusebenza kwakho ekhaya, emsebenzini, noma kwezinye izindawo zempilo yakho, noma ukulimaza abanye, njengezingane noma abantu abadala abangavumelani, akubhekwa njengokungenampilo.

Umehluko phakathi kwe-paraphilia nokuphazamiseka kwe-paraphilic manje sekuchazwe ngokusobala kakhulu kuhlelo lwakamuva kakhulu lwe-Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5). I-DSM-5 incwajana esetshenziswa ngochwepheshe bezokunakekelwa kwezempilo e-United States nasemhlabeni wonke njengomhlahlandlela onegunya wokutholakala kokuphazamiseka kwengqondo.

Incazelo entsha ibeka ngokusobala umehluko phakathi kwe-paraphilia njengezintshisekelo zocansi noma okuthandwayo, njengokukhetha, kanye nokuphazamiseka kwe-paraphilic okuvela kulokho kuziphatha. Ngokwenqubo eku-DSM-5, i-paraphilia ayithathwa njengesiyaluyalu ngaphandle kokuthi ikwenza uzizwe:

• ukukhathazeka ngentshisekelo yakho yezocansi
• isifiso sobulili noma ukuziphatha okubandakanya ukucindezeleka, ukulimala, noma ukufa komunye umuntu
• isifiso sokuziphatha ngokocansi okubandakanya umuntu ongathandi noma ongakwazi ukunikeza imvume yezomthetho

Kusebenza kanjani ukucwasa?

Abaphenyi abaqiniseki kahle ukuthi ukucwasana kusebenza kanjani nokuthi yini ebangela ukuthi umuntu ajabule ngengxenye eyodwa yomzimba womunye umuntu. Kunemibono eminingi, noma kunjalo.

Abanye ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi amaphethini wokuvusa inkanuko ehambisana ne-paraphilia akhiwa ngaphambi kokuthomba. Omunye umbono uthi ubangelwa ukukhathazeka noma ukuhlukumezeka okungokomzwelo kwasekuqaleni okuthikameza lokho okubhekwa njengokukhula "okujwayelekile" kobungqingili.

Enye inkolelo ukuthi ukuvezwa kusenesikhathi kokuhlangenwe nakho kocansi okukhokhiswa kakhulu kwenza umuntu akholelwe ukuthi isitho somzimba sabantu abesilisa nabesifazane noma into ethile iyajabulisa ngokocansi.

Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi isiko kungenzeka lihlobene nokukhetha. Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi isiko lidlala indima ekuthandweni kwezitho ezithile zomzimba noma ubujamo. Abanye ochwepheshe baveze ukuthi kunzima, uma kungenzeki, ukunquma ukuthi ngabe umuntu ukhangwa kuphela yingxenye yomzimba noma ngabe yingxenye yokuheha kwabo kwesinye sezici zomzimba zomlingani.

Ubandlululo kuqhathaniswa nesisu

Umbuzo wokuthi ukukhetha ubandlululo bekuyimpikiswano eshubile iminyaka. Isifo se-Fetishism sifakiwe esahlukweni se-DSM-5 ngezifo ze-paraphilic. Futhi akubhekwa njengokuphazamiseka ngaphandle kokuthi kubangele ukucindezeleka noma ukulimaza wena noma omunye umuntu.

Umehluko okuwukuphela kokukhetha nokubandlulula ukugxila kwezintshisakalo zomuntu. Ubandlululo ukuvusa ucansi okubandakanya ukuheha ingxenye ethile yomzimba, njengamabele noma izandla. Isibungu ukuvusa ucansi ngento engaphili, njengezicathulo noma izingubo zangaphansi.

Izinhlobo zobandlululo

Ubandlululo lungabandakanya noma iyiphi ingxenye yomzimba womuntu ngaphandle kwezitho zangasese. Izinhlobo ezivame kakhulu zokubandlulula zifaka:

• i-podophilia (izinyawo)
• izandla
• i-trichophilia (izinwele)
• i-oculophilia (amehlo)
• i-pygophilia (izinqe)
• i-mazophilia (isifuba)
• i-nasophilia (impumulo)
• i-alvinophilia (inkaba)
• i-alvinolagnia (isisu)
• izindlebe
• intamo
• maschalagnia (ikhwapha)

Ukudla okudlela endlini

Ubandlululo lungathathwa njengokujwayelekile kwezenhlalo, kepha inqobo nje uma lungalimazi muntu futhi lujatshulelwa phakathi kwabantu abadala abavumayo, akukubi. Uma ukhathazekile ngokuthanda kwakho ngokobulili noma unomuzwa wokuthi kunomthelela omubi kunoma isiphi isimo sempilo yakho noma somunye umuntu, khuluma nodokotela. Bangakudlulisela kuchwepheshe wezempilo yengqondo onolwazi ngezifo ze-paraphilic.