"Ingqondo Yokukhulelwa" Ingokoqobo-Futhi Yinto Enhle

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Wake wazibuza ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ukuthi umama wakho abonakale azi uma unosuku olubi futhi azi into enhle ongayisho ukukwenza uzizwe ungcono? Yebo, ungahle ubhekane namandla akhe okufunda ingqondo-noma okungenani ukukhulelwa kwakhe bekunguwe. Ukukhulelwa kushintsha ukwakheka komzimba wowesifazane, kumenza abe ngcono emakhonweni akhethekile adingekayo ukuze abe ngumama, ngokusho kocwaningo olusha olushicilelwe ku. Imvelo

Abaphenyi balandela abesifazane abangama-25, beskena ubuchopho babo ngaphambi kokuba bakhulelwe, ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, baphinde baphinda futhi eminyakeni emibili kamuva. Bathola ukuthi i-grey matter yabesifazane—ingxenye yobuchopho elawula imizwelo nenkumbulo phakathi kwezinye izinto—yancipha kakhulu ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa futhi yahlala incane ngisho nangemva kweminyaka emibili. Baphethe ngokuthi amazinga aphezulu amahomoni okukhulelwa anciphisa izicubu zobuchopho zabesifazane, aguqule ubuchopho besifazane unomphela.

I-Yep, "ubuchopho bokukhulelwa," into abesifazane abathi bayenza ihlaya ibenza bakhohlwe futhi bakhale, kuyiqiniso lesayensi. Kodwa nakuba ukuncipha kobuchopho nokungakwazi ukubugcina bundawonye phakathi nezimakethe ezikhangayo zamanabukeni kungase kuzwakale njengento embi, lezi zinguquko zivamile futhi zingafeza injongo ebaluleke kakhulu komama, kusho u-Elseline Hoekzema, isazi sezinzwa eziphezulu e-Leiden University eNetherlands, obehola lolu cwaningo e-Universitat Autonoma de Barcelona eSpain.

Lezi zinguquko zivumela ubuchopho ukuthi bube nokugxila kakhudlwana futhi kukhetheke, okungenzeka ukuthi kulungiselela owesifazane imisebenzi ethile yokuba ngumama, kuchaza uHoekzema. (Kuyinqubo efanayo eyenzekayo ngesikhathi sokuthomba, uyanezela, evumela ubuchopho ukuba bugxile emakhonweni abantu abadala.) Imaphi amakhono owalolayo ngesikhathi ukhulelwe? Izinto ezinjengokukwazi kangcono ukuqonda lokho abanye abazizwayo nokulindela kangcono amakhono abo abaluleke kakhulu kunoma yimuphi umama omusha (noma omdala).

"Lokhu kungabonakala njengokuthuthuka ekhonweni likamama lokwazi izidingo zengane yakhe noma emandleni akhe okubona izinsongo zenhlalo," kusho uHoekzema.

Futhi nakuba u-Hoekzema egcizelela ukuthi abacwaningi abakwazi ukufinyelela eziphethweni eziqondile mayelana nokuthi lokhu kushintsha kanjani ukuziphatha, lokhu kuthena nokucija kungachaza okuningi ngokukhulelwa, njengokuthi "umzwelo wokuzalela" othatha imicabango yowesifazane okhulelwe engxenyeni yokugcina yakhe. ukukhulelwa. Ngakho-ke uma noma ubani ebuza ukuthi kungani ucabanga ukuthi yisiphi isikebhe esiphephe kunazo zonke noma uthola amalambu agqamile egolide e-nursery, ungavele ubatshele ukuthi ulindele kangcono izidingo zabantwana.

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