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Ukuhlakulela umuzwa oqinile we-intuition

futhi uthole ukuthi ungalalela nini ukuthambekela kwakho. "Intuition isula umbono wakho futhi ikuholele enjongweni efanele," kusho uJudith Orloff, M.D., umsizi kaprofesa wezokwelapha wezifo zengqondo e-University of California, eLos Angeles, onencwadi yakhe yokuzisiza Amandla Avumayo isanda kukhishwa ephepheni yiThree Rivers Press. "Ikutshela iqiniso mayelana nokuthi ungazisiza kanjani ngezindlela ezingokwenyama, ezingokomzwelo nezocansi ingqondo yakho enengqondo engeke ikutshele yona."

Izixazululo

Lalela izimpawu zomzimba wakho. Ngezinye izikhathi umzimba wakho uzwa usongo noma ingozi ngaphambi kokuba ingqondo yakho yenze. Izinga lakho lokuphefumula noma lokushaya lingashintsha, noma uzwe ukubanda okungazelelwe esikhumbeni sakho lapho useduze kwabantu abathile. Naka ukuthi uzizwa unokuthula noma unamahloni lapho uphakathi kwabanye, futhi uzokwazi ukwenza izinqumo ezingcono mayelana nokuthi ubani ofuna ukusebenza naye noma ube umngane wakho.

Vula izinkomba ezicashile ezivela endaweni yakho. Lapho usesikhathini futhi ugxila ngokuphelele lapha nakalokhu, ungaqala ukuthola izinkomba ezibalulekile - njengokuqina kumuntu othandana naye noma ukungezwani okufihliwe phakathi kwabangane. "Noma iyiphi imvelo izothwala amandla abantu abakuyo," kusho uLauren Thibodeau, Ph.D., umbhali we-Skillman, N.J. I-Natural-Born Intuition (Izincwadi Ezintsha Zamakhasi, 2005). "Uma unaka ikhwalithi yalawo mandla, uzoqala ukuzwa ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela lapho."

Inselele ukuzingela kwakho. Ungawuthembi umuzwa wakho wesithupha ngokungaboni - uwubuze futhi uhlole ukunemba kwawo ngokusebenzisa amandla akho esisu kubangane bakho namalungu omndeni adlule. "Ekuqaleni, nge-intuition kwesinye isikhathi uqinisile futhi kwesinye isikhathi wenza iphutha," kusho u-Orloff. Ngokuzijwayeza, noma kunjalo, ngokwemvelo uzothola umuzwa ongcono wokuthi uzolilalela nini izwi lakho elingaphakathi.

Inkokhelo

Ukuthuthukisa intuition yakho kungakusiza wenze izinqumo ezingcono, uqhamuke nemibono yobuciko eyengeziwe futhi uthole ukuthi ubani noma yini ongayethemba. Kufana nokuba nomqeqeshi wakho siqu, imnyuziyamu, unogada kanye nebhodi labeluleki, konke kuhlanganiswe ndawonye. "Intuition ikusiza ukuthi wenze izinto ezikulungele kunokuba lokho omunye umuntu akutshela ukuthi ukwenze," kusho u-Orloff. "Futhi lokho kungakusiza uphile impilo yakho ngokugcwele."

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