U-Rosie Huntington-Whiteley Uthi Ukuzama Ukunciphisa Isisindo Ngemva Kokukhulelwa "Kwakuzithoba"

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Ukubeletha kuyinto evula amehlo ngezindlela eziningi. KuRosie Huntington-Whiteley, ukuzama ukwehlisa isisindo ngemva kokukhulelwa kwakuyisici esingazange sihambe njengoba bekulindelekile. (Okuhlobene: U-Rosie Huntington-Whiteley Wabelane Ngemikhiqizo Yakhe Yobuhle Ayintandokazi Azoyithenga E-Amazon)

UHuntington-Whiteley usanda kuhlala phansi no-Ashley Graham isiqephu se-podcast kaGraham, Isenzo Esihle Esihle. UGraham, osekhulelwe njengamanje, uveze indlela oshintsha ngayo umzimba wakhe, okuholele engxoxweni ngokukhulelwa kukaHuntington-Whiteley nokuba ngumama. U-Huntington-Whiteley uthe wazuza cishe amakhilogremu angu-55 ngesikhathi ekhulelwe futhi wazizwa enamandla emzimbeni wakhe.

Ngemuva kokubeletha, nokho, wathi ufuna ukwehlisa isisindo sakhe sokukhulelwa futhi wathola ukuthi ukwenza kanjalo kwakunzima kunalokho ayekulindele. Yize eya ejimini njalo, uHuntington-Whiteley uthe ubengayiboni nje inqubekela phambili abekade eyilindele. "Kwangithobisa kakhulu kimi," ekhumbula.

Ukulwela ukunciphisa isisindo kwenza uHuntington-Whiteley aqagele ukuthi uzokwamukela kanjani ukwelulekwa ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kwakhe, watshela uGraham ngesikhathi benengxoxo. "Abantu bahlala bengibuza ngomzimba wami nokuzivocavoca umzimba, uzizwe wena uthi, 'Uyazi, zivivinye kathathu ngesonto,' 'echaza.

Kepha manje, uHuntington-Whiteley uthe useqedile ukunikeza noma yiziphi izeluleko zokulala. "Ngavele ngazizwa ngathi, 'Cha, angikwazi ukutshela abantu ukuthi bazizwe kanjani ngemizimba yabo, ngoba wonke umuntu unokuhlangenwe nakho okuhlukile," etshela uGraham. "Futhi ngizothi ukuzivocavoca ejimini bese ngibheka emuva kimi futhi ngizizwe ngathi ngingu-sh t, bengifana nokuthi, 'Manje sengiyabona ukuthi kunzima kanjani ukuthi abanye abantu baye ejimini.'" (Okuhlobene: URosie U-Huntington-Whiteley Wabelane Ngomjikelezo Wakhe Ogcwele Wasebusuku Wokunakekela Isikhumba)

Enye ingxenye yempilo ngemuva kokukhulelwa engazange ibikezelwe nguHuntington-Whiteley? Ukuphawula okubi ngomzimba wakhe. Ezinyangeni ngemuva kokubeletha, walingisa emdlalweni wakhe wokubhukuda. UPaparazzi babekhona kanti ihlumela lathathwa ngama-tabloids. "Ngangimangele ngezinye zezinkulumo abantu ababenazo," kusho uHuntington-Whiteley etshela uGraham. Uthe kumphathe kabi kakhulu "ukulandisa mayelana nokuthi abesifazane 'kumele' babukeke kanjani." (Okuhlobene: ICassey Ho Idale umugqa wesikhathi "Wezinhlobo Ezihle Zomzimba" Ukukhombisa Ukuhlekwa Kwamazinga Obuhle)

“Kwakwethusa ukubona umuntu ebhala ethi, ‘Esinye isidumbu esicekeleke phansi ngemva komntwana. Ufana nokuthi, 'Iyini i-f ck?' "Kuqhubeka uHuntington-Whiteley. "Ngempela sisekhona kulendawo okumele sibe nayo le ngcindezi yokuthi sibuyele emuva emva kwengane?"

Okudabukisayo ukuthi ingcindezi isekhona namanje, ngisho nakwabesifazane abangadingi ukubhekana nokuqokwa ngokuhlukana kwemizimba yabo emaphephandabeni. Kepha njengoba uHuntington-Whiteley atshela uGraham, ukubonakala komzimba wakho ngemuva kokubeletha — ingasaphathwa eyokubonwa abanye bengakufuni ngakho — akubalulekanga kangako nenhlala-kahle yakho, ingasaphathwa eyengane yakho. "Ngifuna ngempela wonke umama agxile kuye, ekugcineni, kodwa nesikhathi nengane yakhe," esho ku-podcast.

“Wonke umuntu ubuyela endaweni lapho ezizwa ejabule futhi,” kwengeza u-Huntington-Whiteley. "Ngizizwa ngingcono manje, futhi ngizizwa ngihloniphekile ngomzimba wami kunangaphambili."

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