Uhlu lwemibuzo ngocansi: Izindlela ezi-5 Zokwazisa Ozakwenu ukuthi Yini Oyithandayo

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• Isingeniso
• Ingabe unephunga elithile elikwenza ushise ngaphansi kwekhola?
• Uma kunjalo…
• Uyazijabulela izindawo ezivusa amadlingozi noma lapho ubona umlingani wakho egqoke i-athikili ethile noma uhlobo oluthile lwezingubo - noma mhlawumbe lutho?
• Uma kunjalo…
• Uyakuthanda lapho umlingani wakho ehlebela inkulumo emnandi endlebeni yakho?
• Uma kunjalo…
• Ingabe umlingani wakho angakuthumela ekuhlanyeni ngokuthinta okukodwa kwengxenye ethile - noma izingxenye - zomzimba wakho?
• Uma kunjalo…
• Ngabe ukunambitheka kwe-champagne kanye ne-strawberry kwanele ukukungenisa esimeni sengqondo?
• Uma kunjalo…
• Amathiphu wokungena kumzwelo
• Ukuzazi ngokwakho kuyinto ejabulisayo

Isingeniso

Usule uhlelo lwakho, walala ngokwanele, futhi wadla ukudla okulula. Uzizwa unamandla futhi ujabule. Uzakwenu usekhasini elifanayo. Nobabili nikulungele ukuyozijabulisa kancane ekamelweni.

Kepha uma ukuthola kunzima ukuveza ukuthi ungathanda ukuzama okuthile okusha noma umane uzizwa ungaqiniseki ngokuthi uzokwazisa kanjani umlingani wakho ukuthi yini othanda ukuqala ngayo, ungakhathazeki - lokhu kungokwemvelo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ube neqiniso, uziphendulele emizweni yakho, futhi uzijwayeze.

Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi inhlanganisela yokuxhumana kwabesilisa nabesifazane kanye nezocansi ihlotshaniswa nobuhlobo nokwaneliseka kwezocansi. Ukukwazi ukuxoxa ngokukhululekile ngezifiso zocansi noma ukukhathazeka kuye kwaxhunyaniswa nokwaneliseka okukhulu kwezocansi, inhlalakahle yezocansi, nokuba nobuhlobo obanelisayo.

Sebenzisa le mibuzo emifushane ebheka izinzwa ezinhlanu ukuthola ukuthi yini ekuvusa kakhulu, nokuthi ungalusebenzisa kanjani lolu lwazi ukukhulisa ukushisa ngesikhathi sakho sokuqhuma esilandelayo.

Ingabe unephunga elithile elikwenza ushise ngaphansi kwekhola?

Uma kunjalo…

Ukungeza iphunga - cabanga ngamafutha, amakha, namakhandlela anamakha - emdlalweni wakho wokulala kungasiza ekuthuthukiseni umuzwa wakho. Ukuzijabulisa, kungani ungazami ukumnika i-vanilla ne-musk ukukufaka esimweni sengqondo esithandekayo? Le nhlanganisela inamahemuhemu okuthi yi-aphrodisiac yemvelo futhi ingabeka nabantu ngokukhululeka.

• "Leya ngcobo engangiyigqoke ngelinye ilanga ingenza ngibe namahloni."
• "Ngiyayithanda ngempela uma ugqoka [i-cologne / iphunga]."

Uyazijabulela izindawo ezivusa amadlingozi noma lapho ubona umlingani wakho egqoke i-athikili ethile noma uhlobo oluthile lwezingubo - noma mhlawumbe lutho?

Uma kunjalo…

Ukukhanya kwemizwa ehloniphekile kungenza umehluko futhi kukusize ekutholeni wena nomlingani wakho esimeni semizwa. Thola isibani se-lava noma uphonsa ihembe elibomvu elinesibindi phezu komthunzi wakho wesibani. Izokwakha i-ambiance enhle futhi inikeze ukukhanyisa okuphansi okuthophayo.

Futhi uma kukhulunywa ngezembatho, kuya ngokuthi ukhululeke kangakanani kwezemidlalo. Ngenkathi abanye bengavuna ama-stilettos nocezu lwezingubo zangaphansi, amabhulukwe e-yoga angaba ngaphezulu kuwe. Ekugcineni, kumayelana nalokho okushiya uzizwa uzethemba futhi unethezekile.

• "Kuyangivulela uma ugqoka i-X."
• “Ngiyathanda uma ukhanyisa amakhandlela bese uvula isibani selava ukusetha umoya.”

Uyakuthanda lapho umlingani wakho ehlebela inkulumo emnandi endlebeni yakho?

Uma kunjalo…

Gxila kumsindo wezwi lomlingani wakho. Yabelana nabo ngalokho ocabanga ngakho, bese ubacela ukuthi bakuthele endlebeni bese bekuphinda bakubuyisele kuwe.

Noma mhlawumbe okukufaka esimeni sokulalela uhlobo oluthile lomculo. Umculo uvusa imizwa. Dala uhlu lwadlalwayo olumnandi futhi ulungele ukuzijabulisa.

• "Uma ungihlebela kancane endlebeni yami ngokuthi ufuna ukunginambitha kangakanani, ngithola konke ukuzitika ngaphakathi bese ngifuna ukulahla konke esikwenzayo bese ngiqala ukwenza okuthile."
• "Uma udlala ingoma engu-X, kuyangimanzisa ngempela."

Ingabe umlingani wakho angakuthumela ekuhlanyeni ngokuthinta okukodwa kwengxenye ethile - noma izingxenye - zomzimba wakho?

Uma kunjalo…

Cabanga lapho uthanda ukuthintwa khona. Ingabe uthanda ukuthinta okuthambile noma okunzima? Yini othanda ukuthintwa ngayo? Uphaphe? Isigwedlo? Ulimi? Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuzinika imvume yokuthola injabulo ukuze uzizwe uqiniseka ngokwengeziwe ukuvumela umlingani wakho angene.

• "Ngiyayithanda kakhulu uma nenza imibuthano ethambile ezungeze i-clit yami."
• "Ngiyathanda impela uma ungikhama ungiqinise."

Ngabe ukunambitheka kwe-champagne kanye ne-strawberry kwanele ukukungenisa esimeni sengqondo?

Uma kunjalo…

Yidla ngokuzidela. Ngokuzama ukudla okusha okunesibindi noma okubabayo, uzoba semqondweni wenoveli. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi uvulekele kokuhlangenwe nakho okusha nemizwa, okungesinye sezithako ezidingekayo zempilo yezocansi ebabayo.

Uhlelo lokusebenza lwezempilo i-Lifesum lwenza ucwaningo ngonyaka owedlule lwathola ukuthi abantu badla ushokoledi kaningi ngaphambi nangemva kocansi. Kepha ama-aphrodisiacs athandwayo eceleni, ukudla okunothe ngama-antioxidants, njengembewu yefilakisi, kukhuthaza impilo yenhliziyo, ngaleyo ndlela kuholele ekugelezeni kwegazi okungcono kuya ezithweni zangasese.

• "Ngizithola ngikufisa kakhulu ngemuva kokuchitha isikhathi sihlola izindawo ezintsha zokudla kwasemini."

Amathiphu wokungena kumzwelo

• Lawula ukucindezeleka kwakho. Uma ugijima ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi weqa usuka komunye umsebenzi uye komunye, umzimba wakho uzoba nesikhathi esinzima sokuphumula.
• Phuma endaweni yakho yokududuza. KULUNGILE ngokuphelele ukusunduza imingcele yakho bese uzama okuthile okusha.
• Futhi khumbula: Uma nje kuvunyelwene, ayikho indlela elungile noma engalungile yokuthola ubumnandi.

Ukuzazi ngokwakho kuyinto ejabulisayo

Ukuzazi ngokwakho kuyinto ejabulisayo, futhi uma kukhulunywa ngocansi, kungaba yinto ejabulisayo. Ukufunda ukuthi yini okuvula bese uthola ukunethezeka ngokwabelana ngezintshisekelo zakho ne-SO yakho kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ukwaneliseka kobudlelwano, futhi.

Cabanga ngaphandle kwebhokisi bese usebenzisa izinzwa zakho ezinhlanu ukuze ufunde ukuthi yini okuvula. Uma unentshisekelo kwezinye izindlela zokunonga impilo yakho yezocansi, hlola ezinye zalezi zinsizakusebenza:

• ngocansi onethezekile
• ngokuzama ucansi lwe-tantric
• ngokucindezela inkinobho "yokusetha kabusha" empilweni yakho yezocansi

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