Le Harness Yiyo Yodwa Engenzi Ngizizwe Sengathi Ngiyoqwala Amatshe Ngesikhathi Socansi

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• Kuyini Ukuhlanganiswa Kocansi, Ubuza?
• Kanjani Futhi Ulisebenzisa Ihhanisi (nokuthi Kungani Ungase Ufune)
• KULUNGILE, KULUNGILE, Kepha Nakhu Ukuthi Ngiyayithanda Kangakanani I-SpareParts Joque Harness Kakhulu
• Ama-Sexcessories Wokuhamba Nehhashi Lakho
• Buyekeza kwe-

Kulezi zinsuku, ukuthola isidlidlizi okungcono kakhulu kokuthandayo ~ kwezocansi ~ kulula futhi, ngokuchofoza (lapha, lapha, nalapha). Ngeshwa, ukubuyekezwa kwe-harness kunzima ukukuthola. Ngakho-ke uma usemakethe ye-harness entsha uvame ukuphoqeleka ukupheqa ikhasi-ekhasini-lezibuyekezo ze-Amazon ezingasizi ngalutho. Nginenhlanhla ngawe, ngilapha ukuzokwenza izinto zibe lula.

Ngemuva kweminyaka eyishumi yokuhlolwa kwe-harness, ngingasho ukuthi i-harness ehamba phambili futhi esebenza kahle kakhulu ayinasithunzi sokungabaza: I-SpareParts Joque Harness (Ithenge, $ 115, amazon.com; goodvibes.com). Funda ngokubuyekeza kwami ​​okugcwele ... uyazi ukuthi ufuna.

Kuyini Ukuhlanganiswa Kocansi, Ubuza?

Ihhanisi locansi yinoma iyiphi idivayisi ekuvumela ukuthi uvikele ithoyizi locansi emzimbeni wakho. Imvamisa, amahhanisi agqokwa endaweni yangasese ukuze kuvikeleke i-dildo lapho ipipi lizoba kumuntu owabelwe owesilisa ekuzalweni (AMAB). ISpareParts Joque yilolo hlobo lokubopha. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukusho ukuthi akhona namahhanisi ethanga (Malibu Thigh Harness, Buy It, $45, babeland.com), amahhanisi omlomo nobuso (Latex Face Fucker Strap On Mask, Buy It, $86, kinkstore.com), hhayi ukukhuluma, amagiya amaningi okugqokwa agqokiwe nawo ahlukaniswe njenge "harness."

Enye into ebalulekile okufanele uyazi ukuthi igama elithi "strap-on" lisetshenziswa lapho ihhanisi lisetshenziswa nge-dildo futhi linamandla lelo.

Kanjani Futhi Ulisebenzisa Ihhanisi (nokuthi Kungani Ungase Ufune)

Uma ngikhuluma iqiniso, i-IMO, kunezizathu eziningi zokuzama i-harness embhedeni, kepha ngaphambi kokuthi ngingene kuzo, yazi lokhu: Kunenganekwane eyinsakavukela yokuthi ukubopha amahhashi kuyithoyizi lezocansi. Kodwa ihhanisi lingagqokwa futhi lithokozelwe ngumuntu kanye nomlingani wakhe kungakhathaliseki ubulili, izitho zangasese, noma ubulili. (Futhi, i-pssh, akubona bonke abathandana nabo abathanda nabo!)

"Ihhanisi lingagqokwa ngesikhathi socansi lwesitho sangasese sowesifazane, ucansi olwenziwa ngezandla, ucansi lomlomo, ukushaya indlwabu, nokuningi," kuchaza u-Andy Duran, umqondisi wezemfundo weGood Vibrations. Zibuye ziyizingubo zosuku ezidumile phakathi kwabantu be-transmasculine abafuna ukuzuza ukubonakala kokuba nepipi ngosizo lwe-dildo egobekayo, njenge-New York Sex Toy Collective Mason (Buy It, $175, goodvibes.com) noma i-Archer Silicone Packer (Ithenge, $ 60, goodvibes.com).

U-Duran uthi: "Umnikazi womuntu obhince ingquza, angagqoka ibhande ukuze angene kumuntu asebenzelana naye ngezandla." Ebudlelwaneni lapho bobabili abalingani benama-vulvas, ihhanisi lingase ligqokwe ne-dildo ukuze kungene isitho sangasese sowesifazane—okuvame ukwaziwa ngokuthi yibhande le-vaginal-on sex. (Une-Q mayelana nocansi oluyibhande? Lokhu kuzosiza: Umhlahlandlela Wangaphakathi Wokulala Nomunye Umuntu wesifazane Okokuqala ngqa.)

Noma, i-harness nayo ingagqokwa ngumnikazi wesitho sangasese sangasese nanoma imuphi umlingani ocansini lwangasese noma ukukhonkotha. “Ihhanisi liphinde livumele umuntu onepipi ukuthi angene kokunye ngaphandle komzimba wakhe,” kwengeza uDuran. (Lokhu kuvame kakhulu phakathi kwabantu abangama-transfeminine kanye nabantu abanokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile.) Kwezinye izimo, ihhanisi lingase lisetshenziswe ukuvumela umnikazi wepipi ukuthi angene umlingani ngepipi lakhe *kanye* nelinye ithoyizi ngesikhathi esifanayo ukungena kabili.

KULUNGILE, KULUNGILE, Kepha Nakhu Ukuthi Ngiyayithanda Kangakanani I-SpareParts Joque Harness Kakhulu

Ama-harnesses eza ngezitayela ezimbili eziyinhloko: i-jockstrap- nesitayela sangaphansi. Ngokuvamile, amahanisi wesitayela se-jockstrap anqoba ukuzinza nokulawula, ngenkathi isitayela sezingubo zangaphansi siphumelela phambili ngokunethezeka. Kodwa nge-SpareParts Joque, asikho isidingo sokuthi ukhethe enye yalezi zici ezibalulekile ngaphezu kwenye—uthola kokubili.

"I-Joque inethezekile njengoba izinzile," kwenanela uDuran. "Ungafaka i-dildo ecishe ibe ngosayizi ku-harness, futhi ngeke iwe phansi noma uzulazule." Kungenxa yokuthi, ngaphezu kokuba ne-AF O-ring ehlala isikhathi eside (leyo yingxenye i-dildo edlula kuyo), imichilo iyashintsha kakhulu. Okusho ukuthi, ungafaka i-harness ngokuqinile esikhunjeni sakho.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, iza ngosayizi ababili.Usayizi A ungalungiswa ukuze ulingane okhalweni ngamasentimitha angama-20 kuye kwangama-50 nxazonke, kuyilapho usayizi B ungashintshwa ukuze ulingane okhalweni ngamasentimitha angama-35 kuye kwangama-60 nxazonke. Uma lolo hlu olubanzi lubonakala luheha, luyathandeka. "IJoque ingelinye lamahhanisi ambalwa akwazi ukubamba ubukhulu obuningi kangaka bomzimba," kunezela uDuran.

Lezi zici azizi ngentengo yenduduzo noma. Kwenziwe ngenhlanganisela ye-spandex-nayiloni, i-front-paneling ithambile futhi ibushelelezi ngokumelene nesikhumba sami nama-pubes-ngisho noma iba manzi. Okufanayo akunakushiwo ngamanye amahanisi engizamile.

Engikuthanda kakhulu ukuthi iphaneli esondelene kakhulu nesikhumba ihlukaniswa kabili futhi ingagudluzwa eceleni ukuze kuthi uma ngiboshiwe ngizwe ingquza icindezela ingquza yami. Ngisho nalapho i-dildo akunjalo dlidliza, ukunyakaza okunyakazayo kudala umuzwa oshukumisayo.

Futhi into engiyithandayo yesibili ukuthi kunamaphakethe amabili (ama-2!) Akhelwe kwiJoque yama-vibrator ezinhlamvu-eyodwa ngenhla neyodwa engezansi kwe-O-ring. "[Lokhu] kungakhuphula ukuthi umuntu ogqokile uzizwa evuseleleka kangakanani ngenkathi engena kumlingani wabo," kusho uDuran. "Futhi ukudlidlizela kungahamba ngisho ne-dildo ukukhuthaza umlingani ukuthi angene, futhi." (Okuhlobene: I-Best Bullet Vibrator Yanoma yikuphi, Noma Kunini Okujabulisa).

Esinye isici esiphawulekayo ukuthi uma uqedile ukudlala, ungakwazi ukufaka le ngane endaweni yokugeza. Ungayisebenzisa ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku, uyigeze ngoMgqibelo, bese futhi ngeSonto ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokudluliswa koketshezi lomzimba noma izinto ezingaba izifo ezithathelwanayo. (Okuhlobene: Indlela Engcono Kakhulu Yokuhlanza Ithoyizi Lakho Locansi).

Ngokusobala nginezibuyekezo eziningi ze-rave mayelana nokuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​​​nge-SpareParts Joque Harness, kodwa u-Duran uveza izinkinga ezimbili abanye abantu abangaba nazo kuye ngokuthandwa kwe-dildo nosayizi womzimba.

Okokuqala, iphaneli le-crotch lingamasentimitha ambalwa ububanzi. "Abantu abakhulu abanemizimba nalabo abanezindawo ezinkulu zezindunduma bangabona ukuthi yize i-harness ilingana, idala ukubukeka kokwehla kokwehla," esho. Kubantu abangawuthandi lobo buhle — nanoma ngubani okhetha kakhulu ukubopha okuhlanganisa okuningi - uncoma iSpareParts Tomboi Fabric Brief Harness (Buy It, $ 90, goodvibes.com).

Njengoba sengizamile iTomboi, ngiyakuqinisekisa ukuthi i-O-ring izinzile njengaleyo eseJoque ngakho-ke usazokwazi ukulawula ngokuphelele. Futhi inamaphakethe amabili esidlidlizi, elilodwa ngapha nangapha kwe-dildo ngakho-ke usazoba naleso sici.

Ama-Sexcessories Wokuhamba Nehhashi Lakho

Emakethe yehhanisi elisha lezocansi futhi ngandlela thile ungakaqiniseki ukuthola iJoque, lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ubuqili: Njengamanje ungathola ama- $ 20 noma yiliphi i-oda elingaphezu kwama- $ 75 ngeGood Vibrations. Lokho kwenza ihhanisi libe ngu-$104.95—ukweba!

Ngenkathi ukuyo, bheka ama-sexcessories ambalwa azothuthukisa yonke i-shebang. Uma ufuna i-dildo ebukeka ngokwangempela, ayikho inkampani eyenza kangcono kune-New York Sex Toy Collective. IMason (Ithenge, $ 175, goodvibes.com) iyindlela enhle yokuqala. Ngokuqondene nama-dildos angewona amaqiniso, ngincoma i-Charm Silicone Dildo (Yithenge, $45, i-goodvibes.com) kuma-peggers okuqala kanye ne-Wet For Her Strap On Dildo Black (Yithenge, $55, wetforher.com) kwezinye izinhlobo wokudlala ngebhande. Okunye ukukhetha okuhle: I-BJ Dildo (Thenga It, $ 90, goodvibes.com) yokuvuselela ucansi lomlomo kanye neFun Factory ShareVibe (Ithenge, $ 115, goodvibes.com) yemisebenzi yezandla, ukushaya indlwabu ngokushaywa ngokobulili, noma umdlalo oboshwe phakathi kwesitho sangasese -abanikazi.

Uma ubheka ukusebenzisa okukodwa (noma kokubili!) Kwamaphakethe esidlidliza, uDuran uncoma iBullet Crave Vibrator (Ithenge, $ 69, amazon.com), iMagic Touch Waterproof Vibrator (Ithenge, $ 15, goodvibes.com ), noma i-We-Vibe Tango Mini Vibrator (Ithenge, $ 74, amazon.com).

Futhi ekugcineni, ngena esenzweni ngaphandle kwe-lube! Iningi lama-dilds enziwe nge-silicone, engadala umuzwa ongemnandi wokungqubuzana esikhumbeni uma ilubricant inganele. Ngakho-ke uzofuna ukusebenzisa i-lube elisuselwa emanzini njenge-Sliquid Sassy (Thenga It, $ 12, amazon.com), Sutil Rich Botanical Lubricant (Buy It, $ 42, goodvibes.com), noma Cake Toy Joy (Thenga It , $ 22, hellocake.com).

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