Izikhundla Eziyi-7 Zobulili Ezimile Ezizokwenza Ukuzamazama Kweminwe Yakho - Ngendlela Enhle

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• Yini Isikhalazo Sokuma Ngocansi, Noma kunjalo?
• Izikhundla Zocansi Ezimile Ongazizama
• Umlenze-Up
• Ukuma Oral for Vulvas
• Umkhawulo Wethebula
• Usinki weBathroom nje
• I-Yogi
• I-Blowjob emile
• Umshwibi
• Buyekeza kwe-

Ucansi olumile luhlala luzwakala njengombono ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni kuze kube yilapho uzama ukuphonsa okuthile emgodini ongahlangene nomzimba wakho. Isikhathi esiningi, kugcina ngokuba ngomunye walabo "bekubonakala kuwumqondo omuhle ngaleso sikhathi" uhlobo lokuxhaphaza abesilisa nabesifazane.

Phusha lowo mbono eceleni, ngoba ukuma ocansini empeleni kuyenzeka - inqobo nje uma wazi ukuthi ungakusebenzisa kanjani ngokugcwele. Ngaphambili, ulwazi oluthile oluvela ku-sexperts mayelana nendlela yokwenza ucansi olumile lube lula, lushise, futhi lumangalise ngokuphelele kuwe.

Hlala wazi ukuthi uma ungazizwa, uma okuthile kungathandeki, noma wazi, ukhathele, ungahlala njalo uye embhedeni, kusofa, noma kuphi. Ingcindezi nokucindezeleka kubulala amathambo (kokubili i-clit kanye ne-penis persuasion) ngokushesha kunanoma yini enye.

Nayi eminye imihlahlandlela emi kahle kakhulu yezocansi ezokusiza ukuthi wenze iphupho liphile, esikhundleni sokufa lapho ufika.

Yini Isikhalazo Sokuma Ngocansi, Noma kunjalo?

Uma sithi "ucansi olumile" sivame ukubhekisela ocansini olungena ngaphakathi. Into ukuthi, ukuze ube nekhono langempela ekumeni ucansi - futhi ukujabulele - isinyathelo sokuqala ukuvuselela umqondo wakho "wezocansi." Akuwona wonke ucansi odinga ukungena ngaphakathi futhi, empeleni, uma kuziwa ocansini olumile, ngomlomo, ucansi lwezandla, noma ukuhumpa okuvamile kungaba mnandi kakhulu. Ngakho-ke lahla imibono yokuthi udinga ukuba ibhande lenjoloba, ukwazi ukuziguquguqula ungene epipini noma engquzeni yomuntu (mhlawumbe) ongalingani nowe futhi uvulekele ukwenza ezinye izinto zocansi umile.

"Khumbula, zonke lezi zikhundla zisebenza nasecansini lomlomo. Ungesabi ukuma phakathi futhi unikeze umlingani wakho okungcono kakhulu kokubili komhlaba," kusho uJulieta Chiaramonte, umbhali we-blog blog nochwepheshe wamathoyizi ocansi. (Okuhlobene: Izikhundla Ezinhle Kakhulu Zocansi Lomlomo zamaVulvas)

Ngempela, ukuma ubulili kuyajabulisa (nazo zonke izinto ezingezona zevangeli embhedeni) ngoba sithanda izinto ezintsha. Kubilisa ilukuluku, ukuzama izinto ezintsha, nokugcina impilo yakho yocansi iyintsha. Futhi, "ukuma ngocansi kwenza ucansi lwenziwe ezindaweni okungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeki," kusho uRyn Pfeuffer, umbhali wezocansi nobudlelwano nombhali we Izindlela eziyi-101 Zokuqomisana Ku-inthanethi (Ithenge, $ 10, amazon.com). "Cabanga: izindawo eziqinile njengezindlu zangasese, futhi uma uzibandakanya ocansini lomphakathi, ucindezelwe ubhekane nemoto noma isihlahla."

Ucansi olumile lungase lungabi yilokho okusemoyeni ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa kuhle ukuba nalo kumenyu yakho yocansi - kanye nezinye izinto ezijabulisayo njengocansi lwesitulo nocansi kubhavu.

Izikhundla Zocansi Ezimile Ongazizama

Umlenze-Up

Ungakwenza kanjani: Simile ubuso nobuso, yenza umlingani wakho abambe omunye wemilenze yakho phezulu bese ufaka i-astride. Uma ukugcina umlenze wakho uqondile kungakhululekile, ukugoba ngamadolo. Lesi sikhundla sikuvumela ukuthi ugcine ibhalansi yakho ngesikhathi sokungena okungajulile, futhi akuphoqi umlingani wakho ukuthi abambe isisindo sakho sonke (isenzo esinesibindi kunoma ngubani).

Izinzuzo: Lesi sikhundla sibukeka njenge-movie futhi sibukeka njenge-acrobatic, kepha akunzima kangako ukusikhipha. Ngokuyisisekelo isikhundla sobulili obumi se-OG. Ilungele ukuzidela okunjengobulili bangaphandle. Lesi futhi isikhundla esihle ngaphandle kokungena. Ningakhuhlana ngomunye nomunye, sebenzisa izandla zakho, futhi wenze lowomlilo uhambe (negazi ligobhoze).

Ungayiguqula kanjani: Ukwenza umehluko wokuphakama, sebenzisa noma yimaphi ama-ledge azinzile onawo endlini yakho. Isitebhisi singenza iqhinga. Vele uqiniseke ukuthi umhlane wakho uphikisana nodonga. Into yokugcina oyidingayo ukuwa. "Zama ukufaka isidlidlizi emiksini efana ne-Satisfyer Strong One Vibrating Cock Ring (Yithenge, $40, amazon.com), engandisa isikhathi sokusebenza kuyilapho inikeza ukukhuthazwa kwe-clitoral," kusho u-Chiaramonte. (Okuningi lapha: Ungayisebenzisa kanjani i-Cock Ring - Izinketho eziyi-8 zokuzama)

Ukuma Oral for Vulvas

Ungakwenza kanjani: Omunye umlingani umile, kanti omunye uguqa phambi kwabo. Umamukeli angakwazi ukusabalalisa imilenze yakhe ibe yisimo esithi "V", noma abeke unyawo olulodwa ehlombe lomlingani wakhe. Lokhu kungathatha ukulungisa okuthile, ngakho-ke qiniseka ukuthatha isikhashana ukuthola ukuthi yini okukusebenzelayo.

Izinzuzo: Lesi yisikhundla esigubha ukubusa kwabesifazane nezocansi. Futhi, ucansi lomlomo luyindlela ethembekile yabanikazi abaningi be-vulva yokuba ne-orgasm. Futhi, u-Kenneth Play, uthisha wamazwe ngamazwe nomdali we-Sex Hacker Pro Series, uveza ukuthi, "ngenxa yokuthi abanikazi be-vulva abaningi bakhula beshaya indlwabu imilenze yabo iqondile, noma besukuma ngisho naseshaweni, abesifazane abaningi bathola i-orgasm kalula imilenze. Lesi sikhundla sifana nalokho, uma emi nemilenze eqondile futhi ehlukene."

Indlela yokuyilungisa: Uma ukuguqa kungakhululekile kophayo, bamba umcamelo (mhlawumbe nomcamelo wezocansi) ukuthola ukwesekwa okwengeziwe. Thatha ezimbili, ngisho! Uma lokhu kusabasebenzela, kugcine kumile. Goba okhalweni. Ukwenza kube lula ngokwengeziwe, thatha isitulo futhi uhlale phansi ukuze unikeze ngomlomo.

Umkhawulo Wethebula

Ungakwenza kanjani: "Uhlala phezu kwekhawunta noma etafuleni bese bema. Ukusekelwa kwendawo eyisicaba nokuzinza kunikeza uzakwethu osunduzayo ukufinyelela okuqondile kokungena.Gcoba imilenze yakho okhalweni lwabo ukuze ubasondeze futhi ubambelele," kuchaza u-Taylor Sparks, uthisha ovusa inkanuko futhi umsunguli we-Organic Loven, esinye sezitolo ezinkulu zokusondelana eziphethwe yi-BIPOC ku-inthanethi.

Izinzuzo: "Kunezinto ezimbalwa ezishisa kakhulu kunokulala etafuleni, welule imilenze yakho isitho sakho sangasese simi ngasemaphethelweni, futhi kungene umlingani kuwe, kungaba ngepipi noma ngebhande," kusho uPfeuffer. "Lesi sikhundla sisebenza kahle uma kunomehluko wokuphakama phakathi kozakwethu. Yizo zonke izinhlobo zezithandani ukusakazeka-ukhozi nokuvezwa kanjena." Lesi sikhundla futhi sivumela ukungena okujule kakhulu - ngakho-ke, uma lokho kuyinto yakho, uzoyithanda.

Indlela yokuyilungisa: Lesi sikhundla asigcini nje kumatafula. Noma iyiphi indawo evumela imizimba yakho ukuthi iqondane izokwenza kahle. Lesi sikhundla singaba sikhulu futhi ngomlomo. Hlala esihlalweni bese umlingani wakho (onikelayo) aguqe noma ahlale phambi kwakho. Kwenze okwakho, boo.

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Ungakwenza kanjani: Umamukeli umi ubheke kusinki, awusebenzise ukwesekwa. Ungakwazi ukuma uqonde noma ugobe phezu kukasinki, kuye ngokuthi yikuphi ozizwa ukhululeke kakhudlwana. Lowo onikelayo ube esengenisa umemukeli ngemuva.

Izinzuzo: Nokho, okokuqala nje, kufanele nizibuke esibukweni sokugezela okuyi- * * chefs kiss. "[Umlingani wakho] angakubamba okhalweni, akuthinte imbongolo yakho, noma alulekele osisi bakho," kusho uPfeuffer.

Indlela yokuyilungisa: Uma lokhu kungenzeki, yeqa ukungena. Lesi yisikhundla esihle sobulili kwezocansi ngomlomo, kokubili kwabanikazi bezitho zangasese nabanikazi bamapipi. Awukwazi ukugoba? Ubani othi isisetshenziswa esinosinki sisusiwe etafuleni, bangane? Yiba nakho.

I-Yogi

Ungakwenza kanjani: Ophayo "uthatha umlingani wakhe ngemuva, futhi abamise izingalo zabo odongeni," kusho u-Chiaramonte. Khona-ke kufanele "bagobe [umamukeli] phambili futhi benze ijika emhlane wabo." Onikelayo kufanele abukeke sengathi benza isikhundla sekati "lekati" - yingakho igama.

Izinzuzo: "Lokhu akugcini nje ngokwakha ukwelula okumangazayo nasemahlombe kumamukeli, kepha kuvula isifuba sabo ngokuphelele ukungena kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma sangasese ngenkathi besukuma," kuchaza uChiaramonte. "Cabanga ngokwenza lokhu yonke indawo: Igumbi lokulala, ikhishi, ishawa yakho." Kunokuhlukahluka okuningi ngalokhu. (Related: The Best Shower Sex Positions)

Indlela yokuyilungisa: Inkinga enkulu abantu abangaba nayo ngalesi sikhundla ukusebenza ngokuhluka kobude. "Bobabili abalingani bangangeza ukugoba emadolweni ukuze bathole i-engeli efanele. Dlala ngokubeka izingalo zakho ngaphezu kwekhanda lakho, noma ngqo ezinhlangothini zesifuba sakho, njenge-cobra pose kwi-yoga," uyanezela. Ungakwazi futhi ukuletha amathoyizi athile (njengoba ungakwazi ngawo wonke ucansi), njenge-wand vibrator njenge-Le Wand (Buy It, $170, lewandmassager.com), ithoyizi le-clit elifana ne-Zumio (Buy It, $115, amazon. com) noma iFin (Ithenge, $ 85, dameproducts.com) noma i-plug anal. Amathoyizi ahlala enza yonke into ibe mnandi.

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Ungakwenza kanjani: Ngokufana nokuma ngomlomo ku-vulva, owemukelayo umi ufulathele udonga (noma enye indawo eyisicaba), ngenkathi umnikezeli eguqa noma ehleli (kungaba phansi noma esihlalweni) ukubanika ucansi lomlomo.

Izinzuzo: “Ukuguqa phambi kozakwethu omile onomthondo ukuze enze ucansi lomlomo kungenye yezinto engizithandayo futhi engithinta ngayo ukuthambekela kwami ​​kokuzithoba,” kusho uPfeuffer. "Ukushintshana okushisayo, okukuvumela ukuthi ubone umlingani wakho" ngenkathi bephansi lapho. Uma uthanda ukudlala okuqine kakhulu okufana nobuso f*cking, umphimbo ojulile, njll., le ndawo ingasiza ukunikeza ukusethwa okuphelele kwalezo zigcawu. Kepha ungakutholi ukusonteka, lokhu futhi kungaba ukushintshana ngamandla nangothando, uma lokho kungujamu wakho. (Okuhlobene: Umhlahlandlela Wabaqalayo ku-BDSM)

Indlela yokuyilungisa: Umlingani omile angahlala etafuleni lasekhishini noma kwenye indawo, uma ethanda ukungami. Lesi sikhundla sinakho konke ukukhanga kokuma ocansini, ngaphandle kokuthi empeleni sime. Kungaba yinto ekhohlisayo kancane emthanjeni womsila (indawo eqinile, ouch), ngakho-ke zama ukubeka umcamelo noma ithawula eligoqiwe ngaphansi kwesidumbu somamukeli ukuze uthole induduzo eyengeziwe.

Umshwibi

Ungakwenza kanjani: KULUNGILE. Ngakho-ke, lesi sikhundla sokugcina esabantu abathanda ucansi abaseqophelweni eliphezulu phakathi kwethu - hhayi ngendlela ye-acrobatic, kodwa ngendlela yezezimali. Kungani? Ngoba udinga i-swing sex. Uma lokhu kuzwakala kukukhulu kakhulu kuwe, ungakhathazeki ngakho.

"Ukushwiba ngocansi kungasetshenziswa ezindaweni ezahlukahlukene, kodwa nikeza ithuba elihle lokukhomba umlingani wakho ngendlela ongathanda ngayo ngenkathi ungena noma wenza ucansi lomlomo umile," kusho u-Chiaramonte. Ngokuyisisekelo, owemukelayo uhlala ekujuleni (noma alale phezu kwaso) bese onikelayo engena kuzona noma abanikeze ucansi lomlomo.

Izinzuzo: Isizathu esingcono kakhulu sokuba ngumnikazi we-swing yocansi kungenxa yokuguquguquka kwawo. Okunye ukuthi bangama-erla erotic. Njengo, ongafuni ukuba nguSamantha Jones kuleso siqephu esisodwa se Ucansi kanye The City lapho ethola khona ngemuva kokushintsha kocansi kwesithandwa sakhe? Vele uqiniseke ukuthi uthenga izinto ezifanele. "Nakuba ezinye izinguquko zocansi zingaba nzima, ngikhetha ezilula ezilungele ukuhamba futhi ezingaboshelwa emnyango ofana ne-Peepshow Toys Shots Door Swing (Buy It, $35, peepshowtoys.com)," kusho u-Chiaramonte. (Nakhu okuningi ngokushintshashintsha kocansi, ukuthi usetshenziswa kanjani, nokuthi ungakukhetha kanjani.)

Indlela yokuyilungisa: "Ukusetshenziswa kokushintshashintsha kwezocansi okuyikhwalithi kungenza umehluko kubantu abaphezulu, nobudala obuhlukile," kusho uTiana GlittersaurusRex, ofundisa futhi asebenzisane ne-The Sex Work Survival Guide, inhlangano engenzi nzuzo ekhuthaza amalungelo nokuphepha kwabathengisa ngomzimba. Okucacisiwe kukuwe. Zithokozise ngayo, yiba nelukuluku lokwazi, futhi uthole ukuthi yini esebenza kangcono kakhulu emzimbeni wakho.

UGigi Engle ungudokotela wezocansi oqinisekisiwe, uthisha, futhi umbhali wamaphutha we-All The F * cking: Umhlahlandlela Wezocansi, Uthando, Nempilo. Mlandele ku-Instagram naku-Twitter ku- @GigiEngle.

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