Ukwakhiwa kabusha kwesifuba noma i-'Go Flat '? Yini 8 Abesifazane Abakhethile

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• ‘Lokhu kwaba ukuphela kwento ebengilawula kuyo’
• ‘Impela ngangifuna okuthile kubuyiselwe lapho’
• ‘Umphumela wawungeke ubukeke umkhulu kangako’
• ‘Angikaze nginikezwe ithuba lokukhetha’
• ‘Angikaze nginamathele emabeleni ami’
• ‘Ngihlolwe nginegciwane le-BRCA2’
• ‘Umehluko phakathi kwangempela nokufakelwa usobala uma umuntu ehamba ze’
• ‘Bengigxile ekugcineni kwegoli’

Kwabanye, ukukhetha bekuqhutshwa ukufuna okujwayelekile. Kwabanye, bekuyindlela yokuphinda bathole ukulawula. Futhi kwabanye namanje, ukukhetha kwakungukuthi "bahambe kancane." Abesifazane abayisishiyagalombili abanesibindi babelana ngohambo lwabo oluyinkimbinkimbi nolomuntu siqu.

Le Nyanga Yokuqwashisa Ngomdlavuza Webele, sibheka abesifazane abangemuva kweribhoni. Joyina ingxoxo ku-Breast Cancer Healthline - uhlelo lokusebenza lwamahhala kubantu abaphila nomdlavuza webele.

Landa uhlelo lokusebenza lapha

Isinqumo sokwenza inqubo yokwakha kabusha ngemuva kokuxilongwa komdlavuza webele - noma cha - singesomuntu uqobo. Kuningi okufanele ucabange ngakho, futhi ukukhetha kungaletha imizwa eminingi.

Ukuvimbela izizathu zezokwelapha, abesifazane abathatha isinqumo sokuhlinzwa nabo kudingeka bacabange ngesikhathi sabo maqondana nama-mastectomies abo. Ingabe kufanele bakwenze ngokushesha ngemuva, noma bathathe isikhathi esithile ukunquma?

U-Healthline ukhulume nabesifazane abayisishiyagalombili ngalokho abagcine bakukhetha maqondana nezinketho zabo zokwakha kabusha.

‘Lokhu kwaba ukuphela kwento ebengilawula kuyo’

UKatie Sitton

Njengamanje silinde ukuhlinzwa ukuze kwakhiwe kabusha

UKatie Sitton uthole ukuxilongwa kwakhe ngomdlavuza webele ngoMashi 2018 eneminyaka engama-28. Ulindele ukuhlinzwa njengoba eqeda ukwelashwa ngamakhemikhali.

“Ekuqaleni bengingafuni ukwakhiwa kabusha. Ngangicabanga ukuthi kungcono ukuthi ngibe nomdlavuza ukususa [amabele ami], ”kuchaza uKatie. “Kodwa lapho ngenza ucwaningo oluningi, ngafunda ukuthi lokho kwakungelona iqiniso. Umdlavuza usususe kimi kakhulu, kodwa lokhu bekuyinto ebengingasho kuyo. ”

‘Impela ngangifuna okuthile kubuyiselwe lapho’

UKelly Iverson

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabili + ukwakhiwa kabusha ngokushesha

Ku-25 futhi azi ukuthi unoshintsho lwe-BRCA1, uKelly Iverson, umphathi wezokumaketha neMad Monkey Hostels, wanikezwa izinketho ezimbili: ukufakelwa ngokushesha okulandela imastectomy yakhe, noma izikhulisi ezifakwa ngaphansi kwesifuba sesifuba nokunye ukuhlinzwa okukhulu emasontweni ayisithupha kamuva .

"Ngicabanga ukuthi kwakungakaze kube nombuzo wokuthi ngingaphinde ngithole ukwakhiwa kabusha," esho. "Ngobuhle, nakanjani bengifuna ukuthi okuthile kubuyiselwe lapho."

UKelly uzwe ukuthi ngabe akajabule yini kamuva ngendlela okufakelwe ngayo, angahle abuye ayohlinzwa ngokuxhunyelelwa okunamafutha - inqubo lapho kufakwa khona amafutha esifubeni sakhe esifubeni. Kungena kancane uma kuqhathaniswa nokuhlinzwa okwesibili okwandisiwe, futhi kumbozwe ngaphansi komshwalense wakhe.

‘Umphumela wawungeke ubukeke umkhulu kangako’

UTamara Iverson Pryor

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabili + akukho ukwakhiwa kabusha

UTamara Iverson Pryor uthole ukuxilongwa nokwelashwa komdlavuza amahlandla amathathu kusukela eneminyaka engama-30 ubudala. Isinqumo sakhe sokungaphinde akhe kabusha kulandela ukuhlukunyezwa ngesisu sithinta izinto eziningi.

"Ukuthola imiphumela emihle kungadinga ukususwa kwayo yomibili imisipha yami ye-latissimus dorsi," uyachaza."Umcabango wokunye ukuhlinzwa obekungaba nomthelela omubi emandleni nasekwenzeni kwami ​​umzimba akubukanga njengokushintshana okulungile ngalokho ebengicabanga ukuthi ngeke kube umphumela omuhle."

‘Angikaze nginikezwe ithuba lokukhetha’

UTiffany Dyba

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabili nge-expanders + izimila ezizayo

UTiffany Dyba, umbhali webhulogi iCREREAM, unikezwe ithuba lokuthi enze i-mastectomy eyodwa noma ephindwe kabili yokwakhiwa kabusha ngokushesha eneminyaka engama-35 ubudala, kodwa uyakhumbula ukuthi akekho noyedwa owamtshela ukuthi angakhetha futhi "ukuhamba phansi."

Unezicubu ezinwebisa izicubu futhi uzothola okufakelwa lapho eseqedile ngokwelashwa kwakhe.

“Mayelana nokwakhiwa kabusha, empeleni angikaze nginikezwe ithuba lokuba nalo noma cha. Kwakungekho mibuzo ebuziwe. Ngangicindezeleke kakhulu angizange ngicabange kabili ngakho, ”kuchaza yena.

“Kimina, ngenkathi ngingenamathele emabeleni ami, ukujwayela kwakuyinto engangiyilangazelela kuyo yonke le nqubo. Ngangazi ukuthi impilo yami izoshintsha unomphela, ngakho-ke okungenani ngangibukeka njengomuntu wami wakudala, yilokho engangikulwela. ”

‘Angikaze nginamathele emabeleni ami’

USarah DiMuro

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabili nge-expanders + izimila zakamuva

Eminyakeni engama-41 futhi esanda kutholakala, uSarah DiMuro, umbhali, usomahlaya nomlingisi manje ovotela iRethink Breast Cancer, wabala izinsuku zaba yi-mastectomy yakhe ephindwe kabili.

"Angikaze nginamathele impela emabeleni ami, futhi lapho ngizwa ukuthi bazama ukungibulala, ngangikulungele ukubonana noDkt YouTube futhi ngizisuse nami uqobo," esho.

Akakaze acabange hhayi ukuhlinzwa. "Bengifuna ukuba nokuthile okuzongena esikhundleni sezindunduma zami ezibulalayo, futhi yize ngingeyona impintshi ngezindebe zami ezigcwele ze-B, ngiyaziqhenya ngokuthi nginazo."

‘Ngihlolwe nginegciwane le-BRCA2’

USabrina Scown

Buka + linda i-prophylactic mastectomy

USabrina Scown wadlula kumdlavuza wesibeletho esemncane ngo-2004. Ngesikhathi umama wakhe ethola ukuthi unomdlavuza webele eminyakeni emibili eyedlule, bobabili bahlolwa bathola ukuthi banegciwane lohlobo lwe-BRCA2.

Ngalesi sikhathi, iScown ibiqala nokwelashwa kokuzala, ngakho-ke wakhetha ukuzihlola nokuhlola udokotela ngenkathi egxile ekubeni nomndeni - into umeluleki wakhe wezofuzo amkhuthaza ukuba ayiqede, ngoba ingozi yokuba nomdlavuza webele izokwandisa ukukhula kwakhe ithole.

Umama womunye manje uthi, "Ngisathatha isinqumo sokuthola ingane yesibili, ngakho-ke kuze kube yileso sikhathi, ngizokwenza indlela 'yokubuka nokulinda'."

‘Umehluko phakathi kwangempela nokufakelwa usobala uma umuntu ehamba ze’

UKaren Kohnke

I-mastectomy ephindwe kabili + ukwakhiwa kabusha ekugcineni

Ngo-2001 eneminyaka engama-36 ubudala, uKaren Kohnke wathola ukuxilongwa komdlavuza webele futhi waba ne-mastectomy. Eminyakeni engaphezu kwengu-15 kamuva, manje uhlala nokufakelwa.

Ngaleso sikhathi, nokho, wakhetha ukuyeka ukwakha kabusha. Isizathu sakhe esikhulu bekungudadewabo, obesebulewe ngumdlavuza. Uyacacisa: "Ngangicabanga ukuthi uma ngigcina ngokufa, ngangingafuni ukwenza ukuhlinzwa okwakhiwa kabusha okukhulu."

Wayefisa ukwazi ukubona ukuthi umuntu ubukeka kanjani ngaphandle kwamabele, kodwa uthole ukuthi akusona isicelo esivamile. “Iningi alizange libuze imibuzo ngalo. Ngingumuntu obuza kakhulu imibuzo. Ngithanda ukucwaninga yonke into futhi ngibheke zonke izindlela, ”usho kanje.

Ingxenye yesinqumo sakhe sokuthi ekugcineni akhe kabusha ibisuselwa esimweni sakhe esisha. Uthi: "Okungenani ekuqaleni, bengingeke ngichaze umlando wami womdlavuza webele ezinsukwini zami," "Kodwa umehluko phakathi kwangempela nokwenziwe ubonakala uma umuntu ehamba ze."

Uyanezela: “Ngelinye ilanga ngingakhetha ukungazifaki izinto ezifakiwe. “Abangakutsheli khona ukuthi izimila azakhelwanga ukuhlala unomphela. Uma umuntu ethola izinto zokufakelwa esemncane kangaka, maningi amathuba okuthi azodinga ukwenziwa kabusha. ”

‘Bengigxile ekugcineni kwegoli’

U-Anna Crollman

Ama-mastectomies angashadile + ukufakelwa kamuva

Etholwe eneminyaka engama-27, u-Anna Crollman, umbhali webhulogi ethi My Cancer Chic, wabona ukwakhiwa kabusha njengomugqa wokugcina ohambweni lwakhe lomdlavuza webele.

"Bengigxile enjongweni yokugcina yokubukeka njengami futhi ngaze ngakunaka ukuhlukumezeka okungokomzwelo okuhambisana nokushintsha komzimba wami," esho.

“Iqiniso ukuthi ukwakhiwa kabusha kwamabele akusoze kwafana namabele emvelo. Sekuhlinzwe iminyaka emibili nangaphezulu kwemihlanu, futhi ngenkathi umzimba wami ungeke ubukeke njengangaphambili, ngiyaziqhenya ngawo. Zonke izibazi, isigaxa nokungapheleli kubonisa ukuthi sengide kangakanani. ”

URisa Kerslake, BSN, ungumhlengikazi obhalisiwe nombhali ozimele ohlala eMidwest nomyeni wakhe nendodakazi yakhe encane. Ubhala kakhulu ngezinkinga zokuzala, ezempilo nezobuzali. Ungaxhumana naye ngewebhusayithi yakhe iRisa Kerslake Writes, noma ekhasini lakhe le-Facebook nakuTwitter.