Ucwaningo Luthola Umshado Nesehlukaniso Kungabangela Ukukhuluphala

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Mhlawumbe kungenxa yakho konke ukucindezela nengcindezi eholela emshadweni ukuze ubukeke umuhle, kepha ucwaningo olusha luthole ukuthi uma kukhulunywa ngothando nomshado, hhayi nje isimo sakho sokufaka intela esishintshiwe - injalo nenombolo isikali. Ngokwesifundo sobudlelwano esethulwe emhlanganweni waminyaka yonke we-American Sociological Association eLas Vegas, abesifazane banamathuba amaningi okupakisha opondo lapho beshada, kanti nabesilisa basethubeni lokukhuluphala uma behlukanisa.

Ithuba lokuzuza isisindo ngemuva kokushintshwa kobuhlobo kungenzeka kakhulu ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30, abacwaningi bathola. Umshado wangaphambilini wawuthinta ukuzuza kwesisindo, futhi, njengoba abacwaningi bathola ukuthi kokubili amadoda nabesifazane ababevele beshadile noma behlukanisile kwakunamathuba amaningi okuthi abantu abangakaze bashade babe nesisindo esincane eminyakeni emibili elandela uguquko lwabo lomshado.

Ngenkathi ezinye izifundo zikhombisile eziningi zithola isisindo ngemuva komshado, lesi yisifundo sokuqala ukukhombisa ukuthi isehlukaniso futhi singadala ukuzuza kwesisindo. Ucwaningo lwangaphambilini luthole ukuthi isehlukaniso imvamisa siholela ekunciphiseni isisindo, kepha-ke lesi bekuyisifundo sokuqala sobudlelwano esibheke ukuzuza kwesisindo kwabesilisa nabesifazane ngokwehlukana. Ngenkathi abacwaningi bengaqiniseki ukuthi kungani abesilisa nabesifazane beba nesisindo ngokuhlukile ngalezi zikhathi, bacabanga ukuthi kungenxa yokuthi abesifazane abashadile bangaba nendima enkulu endlini futhi babe nesikhathi esinzima sokuzivocavoca. Baphakamisa nokuthi abesilisa bathole inzuzo yezempilo emshadweni, futhi balahlekelwe yilokho uma sebehlukanisile.

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