Lokhu kuguqulwa kweminyaka engu-12 kufakazela ukuthi awukho umnqamulajuqu wokufeza izinhloso zakho

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Kungokwemvelo ukufuna imiphumela esheshayo ohambweni lokwehlisa isisindo. Kepha njengoba uguquko lweminyaka eyi-12 lukaTara Jayd, uthisha womdanso wase-Australia, lukhombisa, ukuchoboza izinhloso zakho kudinga ukubekezela.

U-Jayd usanda kwabelana ngesithombe sakhe ngaku-Instagram eceleni kwakhe eneminyaka engama-21 futhi engama-33. Umehluko uyazikhulumela. Kodwa ukuguqulwa kukaJayd kwakungaphezu komzimba. (Okuhlobene: Izinto Ezi-10 Engizifundile Ngesikhathi Sokuguqulwa Komzimba Wami)

"Ngize kude kangaka kule minyaka edlule hhayi ngokomzimba kuphela, kodwa nangokwengqondo," ubhale kanjalo emazwibela eposi. "Kube wubumnandi bokuphakama nokushibilika ekuguquleni ukusuka entombazaneni kwesobunxele kuya entombini kwesokudla!"

U-Jayd wakhuthazelela iminyaka yezinkinga zamadolo, ukuhlinzwa, ngisho nokuxilongwa kwe-PCOS. Kepha lezo zingqinamba azikaze zikudambise ukuzinikela kwakhe. "Bangakhe kulo muntu engiyikho namuhla," ehlanganyela.

"Ukugqugquzela kuza futhi kuhamba ngamazinga ahlukene," ubhale kanje. "Ngibheka emuva ezithombeni ezindala njengalesi esingakwesokunxele futhi angilutho ngaphandle kokuziqhenya ngalokho engikuzuzile."

Uthisha womdanso wafeza okungaphezulu kokuncipha kwesisindo. Uqede i-11k, waba ngukaputeni weqembu ejimini yangakini, futhi manje uyinxusa leLeah Itsines 'BARE Guide. (Kuhlobene: Udadewabo kaKayla Isines uLeah Uvule Ngabantu Abaqhathanisa Imizimba Yabo)

Kuthathe uJayd ngaphezu kweminyaka eyishumi ukufika kuleli qophelo. Kepha "akunandaba ukuthi kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani," ubhale ku-Instagram. "Kungakuthatha iminyaka eyishumi noma izinyanga eziyishumi ... ubani onendaba ...? Akuwona umjaho, akukaze kube umjaho. Futhi akuwona umncintiswano! Uhambo lwami nezinhloso zami kuhlukile, njengoba nohambo lwakho kanye nolwakho imigomo ihlukile kuwe. "

UJayd ukhuthaza abalandeli bakhe ukuthi bangalokothi baziqhathanise nabanye. "Yenza okulungele wena, thola okukusebenzelayo," ubhale kanje.

Lapho inkuthazo izwa ukuthi ayifinyeleleki, zikhumbuze ukuthi usukhule kangakanani, kusho yena. "Sengiyazi ukuthi ngingumqemane, nginamandla futhi ngijabule ukwedlula lokho engangiyikho ngaleso sikhathi. Lokhu kungikhuthaza ukuthi ngiqhubeke nokuphusha, ngiqhubeke nokusebenza futhi ngiqhubeke nokushaya lawo magoli. Kuqhubeke kuya phezulu." (Okuhlobene: Izinguquko eziyi-15 Ezizokugqugquzela ukuthi Uqale Ukuphakamisa Izisindo)

Memeza u-Tara ngokuchoboza igoli ngemva kwegoli, futhi ubonise umhlaba wonke ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani.

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