U-Taylor Swift Ukhathele Ukubona Izindinganiso Ezikabili Zobulili Zibuyisela Abesifazane

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I-ICYMI, enye yezingoma ezintsha zikaTaylor Swift, "The Man", ihlola izindinganiso zobulili eziphindiwe embonini yezokungcebeleka. Ezingomeni, uSwift ubheka ukuthi ngabe uzoba "ngumholi ongesabi" noma "uhlobo lwe-alpha" ukube ubengumuntu wesilisa esikhundleni sowesifazane. Manje, engxoxweni entsha noZane Lowe ohlelweni lomsakazo i-Apple Music iBeats 1, uSwift uvule isifuba ngobulili abukhuthazelela ekuqaleni komsebenzi wakhe okhuthaze lawo maculo: "Ngesikhathi ngineminyaka engama-23, abantu babenza ama-slideshows ngempilo yami yokuphola futhi ukubeka abantu engangihlala eduze nabo ephathini kanye futhi nganquma ukuthi ukubhala kwami ​​izingoma kuyiqhinga kunokuba kuyikhono nomsebenzi wezandla," etshela uLowe.

Ngesikhathi abantu bethatha uSwift "njengomuntu othanda izinto ezithize," uthe uzizwe ethandakonke kokufezile kwakhe kwehliselwe kwelebula. Khonamanjalo, amadoda abethandana nawo (ngisho adumile) abalekela ukwahlulelwa okunjalo — okukhombisa indinganiso ephindwe kabili abesifazane abaningi abangaphandle komkhakha womculo abangayiqonda nabo. (Kuhlobene: U-Taylor Swift Ufunga Ngalesi Sithasiselo Sokukhulula Ingcindezi Nokukhathazeka)

Thatha isibonelo somqeqeshi wokuzivocavoca wama-Olympic u-Gabby Douglas: Ngemva kokuwina izindondo ezimbili zegolide kuma-Olympics ka-2012, abantu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana bagxeka izinwele zikaDouglas ngokubukeka "zimbi" uma kuqhathaniswa nabanye abavocavoca. Eminyakeni emine kamuva ngesikhathi sama-Olimpiki ka-2016 eRio, abantu babekhona namanje Ukuthumela i-tweeting ngezinwele zikaDouglas, kunokuba athole indondo yakhe yesithathu yegolide, ngenkathi ukusakazwa kwabezindaba ngabadlali bomzimba weThimba USA ngokuqinisekile akubanga nemininingwane ngokubukeka kobuhle babasubathi.

Bese kuba nodaba lweholo elilinganayo iqembu lebhola lezinyawo labesifazane laseMelika (USWNT) ebelilwela kakhulu iminyaka. Yize beletha cishe imali engamaRandi ayizigidi ezingama-20 ngaphezulu kweqembu lamadoda ase-US ngo-2015, amalungu e-USWNT akhokhelwa cishe ikota kuphela yemiholo yabalingani babo besilisa ngalowo nyaka, ngokusho kwesikhalazo esifakwe ngaleso sikhathi yiqembu labesifazane e-Equal I-Employment Opportunity Commission, inhlangano kahulumeni ephoqelela imithetho elwa nokucwaswa emsebenzini, ngayinyeI-ESPN. I-USWNT selokhu yafaka icala lokucwaswa ngokobulili i-US Soccer Federation (USSF), isigungu esilawula ezemidlalo, kanye necala lisaqhubeka.

Yiqiniso, leli gebe lamaholo ligcwele kuzo zonke izimboni ezingenakubalwa. Ngokwesilinganiso, abesifazane abasebenzayo e-US bahola imali engaphansi kuka-$10,500 ngonyaka kunabesilisa, okusho ukuthi abesifazane benza cishe amaphesenti angama-80 kuphela omholo wabesilisa, ngokombiko wakamuva weCongressional ngegebe lamaholo obulili.

Futhi njengoba u-Swift abonisa engxoxweni yakhe ye-Beats 1, lapho abesifazane yenza balwele okubafanele noma babize okungasho lutho, ukuphawula okululazayo ngokubukeka kwabo (ukuphawula obekungasoze kwenziwa ngomuntu wesilisa), abantu bavame ukubahlulela ngokukhuluma nhlobo. “Angicabangi ukuthi abantu bayakuqonda ukuthi kulula kanjani ukuphetha ngokuthi umuntu wesifazane oyiciko noma owesifazane embonini yethu ngandlela thize wenza okungalungile ngokufuna uthando, imali, impumelelo,” etshela uLowe. "Abesifazane abavunyelwe ukufuna lezo zinto ngendlela efanayo nabesilisa abavunyelwe ukuba bazifune ngayo." (Okuhlobene: Lapho Ucansi Lufihliwe Ngokuncoma)

Izinkinga ezihleliwe zobulili embonini yezokuzijabulisa, ezemidlalo, amagumbi ebhodi, nangaphezulu ngeke zixazululwe ngokushesha. Kepha njengoba uSwift etshele uLowe, lapho kukhona abantu abasebenza ukuqeda inzondo yangaphakathi nsuku zonke-njengoJameela Jamil, isibonelo. "Sibheke indlela esihlaziya ngayo izidumbu zabesifazane," kusho uSwift etshela uLowe. "Sinabesifazane abamangalisayo laphaya njengoJameela Jamil bethi, 'Angizami ukusabalalisa ithemba lomzimba. Ngizama ukusabalalisa ukungathathi hlangothi komzimba lapho ngingahlala khona lapha ngingacabangi ukuthi umzimba wami ubukeka kanjani.'" ( Related: Lo wesifazane Wawuchaza Ngokuphelele Umehluko Phakathi Kokuzithanda Nokuqina Komzimba)

Ngokuphathelene nobulili embonini yezomculo, uSwift wabeka izeluleko zakhe kubaculi besifazane abasafufusa — iseluleko leso wonke umuntu bangafunda kulokhu: Ungayeki ukudala, ngisho nalapho ubhekene nenkohlakalo. “Ungavumeli noma yini ikuvimbe ekwenzeni ubuciko,” etshela uLowe. "Ungazibandakanyi nalokhu kuze kukuvimbe ekwenzeni ubuciko, [noma] uma udinga ukwenza ubuciko ngalokhu. Kodwa ungalokothi uyeke ukwenza izinto."

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