UTiffany Haddish Ukhulume Ngokusobala Mayelana Nokwesaba Kwakhe Kokuba Ngumama Njengowesifazane Omnyama

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Uma noma ngubani esebenzisa isikhathi sakhe ngokuvalelwa yedwa ngokukhokha, nguTiffany Haddish. Engxoxweni yakamuva ye-YouTube ebukhoma nesihlabani se-NBA uCarmelo Anthony, uHaddish uveze ukuthi ubesebenza ezinhlelweni ezintsha ze-TV, ezivocavoca umzimba (ngokusobala angakwazi “ukuhlukanisa manje”), asebenze engadini, apheke, futhi abuye ahlanganyele nomqondo wokuthi umuntu abe ngumphakathi Iketanga lesitolo somphakathi weBIPOC.

U-Haddish uphinde wasebenzisa isikhathi sakhe sokuphumula ukuze abambe iqhaza emibhikishweni yeBlack Lives Matter, okuhlanganisa nomcimbi wakamuva osekela amalungelo abantu abamnyama eHollywood. Ekhumbula okuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe kulo mbhikisho ku-Anthony, uHaddish uthe wakhuluma nesixuku ngalolo suku ngokuthi kusho ukuthini ukuba Mnyama eMelika, ukuthi yena nomndeni wakhe bathinteke kanjani uqobo ngodlame olwalunobandlululo, nokukhathazeka anakho ngokuba ngumama njengowesifazane oMnyama. (Okuhlobene: Ukuthi Ubandlululo Lungayithinta Kanjani Impilo Yakho Yengqondo)

"Angiyena umuntu onovalo, kodwa ngike ngabuka abangani bekhula bebulawa amaphoyisa," etshela u-Anthony. “Njengomuntu omnyama, siyazingelwa, futhi bengihlale ngizizwa kanjalo. Siyazingelwa futhi siyahlatshwa, futhi bathola le layisensi yokusibulala, futhi lokho akulungile.”

Lapho abantu bebuza uHaddish mayelana nokuthi uzoba nezingane yini, wavuma ku-Anthony ukuthi uvame “ukuzakhela izaba” ukuze agweme ukukhuluma iqiniso elinzima mayelana nokwesaba kwakhe. “Ngiyakuzonda ukuzala umuntu ofana nami bese ngazi ukuthi uzozingelwa noma abulawe,” kusho yena. “Kungani ngingafaka umuntu kulokho? Abantu abamhlophe akudingeki bacabange ngalokho. ” (Okuhlobene: Izindlela eziyi-11 Abesifazane Abamnyama Abangavikela Ngazo Impilo Yabo Yengqondo Ngesikhathi Sokukhulelwa Nangemva Kokubeletha)

Akunandaba ukuthi ngabe uHaddish ngelinye ilanga unquma ukuba nezingane, akungabazeki ukuthi wenza ingxenye yakhe ukuxhasa izingane emiphakathini engakhonzwa kahle. Lo mlingisi ungumsunguli we-She Ready Foundation, inhlangano esiza izingane ezikhuliswa yizingane okungebona kuzo ukuthi zithole izinsiza nokusekelwa ezikudingayo ngoxhaso, amapotimende, ukululekwa, nokwelulekwa.

U-Haddish utshele u-Anthony ukuthi ubuntwana bakhe ekunakekelweni okungebona abazali bakhe bamgqugquzele ukuthi akhe isisekelo. “Lapho ngineminyaka engu-13, nganginyakaziswa kakhulu, futhi njalo lapho bengithutha, babengifaka zonke izingubo zami ezikhwameni zikadoti. Futhi lokho kungenze ngazizwa ngiwudoti,” kusho yena. “Ekugcineni, othile wanginikeza ipotimende, futhi langenza ngazizwa ngihlukile. Futhi ngacabanga kimi lapho ngineminyaka engu-13, 'Uma ngike ngithole noma yiluphi uhlobo lwamandla, ngizozama ukuqinisekisa ukuthi azikho izingane ezizizwa zifana nodoti.' Ngakho-ke, ngathola amandla amancane, futhi ngaqala isisekelo sami. ” (Okuhlobene: Izinsizakusebenza Zempilo Yengqondo Ezitholakalayo Nezesekayo zeBlack Womxn)

Ephetha ingxoxo yakhe no-Anthony, u-Haddish wabelane ngomlayezo onika amandla kwabesifazane abasebasha abaNsundu: “Thola ulwazi [futhi] ungesabi ukuzibandakanya nomphakathi wakho,” esho. “Phila impilo yakho yonke, yiba ngumuntu ongcono kakhulu, yiba wena.”

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