Yini Ebangela Ukuvuka Okungapheli Futhi Uma Udinga Ukwenza Noma Yini Ngayo

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• Izimbangela ezijwayelekile
• AmaHormone
• Ukudla kwe-Aphrodisiac
• Utshwala nezidakamizwa
• Ubungqingili
• Izimbangela ezithinta uhlelo lokuzala lwabesifazane
• Umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini
• Isinye esigcwele
• Ukukhulelwa
• Izimbangela ezithinta uhlelo lokuzala lwabesilisa
• Ukuxhumana njalo
• Ukushaya indlwabu njalo
• Ukuvuka okungakanani kukhulu kakhulu?
• Okufanele ukwenze ukwehlisa i-libido yakho
• Yenza ucansi njalo
• Zivocavoce
• Ukushaya indlwabu
• Thola izindawo zokudala
• Ukudla okudlela endlini

Iphunga le-cologne yomlingani wakho; ukuthintwa kwezinwele zabo esikhunjeni sakho. Uzakwethu opheka ukudla; umlingani oholayo esimweni esinenxushunxushu.

Izintshisekelo zocansi nezinguquko ziyahlukahluka kuye ngomuntu. Okukwenza uqhubeke kungenzeka kungafani nomngani wakho omkhulu, noma kwesinye isikhathi ngisho nomlingani wakho. Wonke umuntu unezifiso zocansi - ezinye ngaphezu kwezinye.

Ngoba i-libido nokuvuswa kocansi kuyizidambisi, kunzima ukwazi ukuthi yini okubhekwa njengokuningi noma okuqhubekayo.

Kepha uma ukholwa ukuthi unezinkanuko zocansi ngaphezu kokukhululeka noma ukuhlala usesimweni sokugqugquzela, kungahle kube khona izinto ezimbalwa ukukuchaza lokho. Qhubeka ufunde ukuze uthole okuningi.

Izimbangela ezijwayelekile

Ezinye izimbangela zokuvuswa njalo zabiwa kubantu bobabili abanepipi nabantu abanesitho sangasese. Ukuhlanganiswa kwezinto kungaholela ekuvukeni kaningi.

AmaHormone

AmaHormone adlala indima ebalulekile kwi-libido. Ama-spikes we-testosterone angakhuphula ukuvusa. Ngokufanayo, abantu abahlanganyela ekuziphatheni ngokocansi bane-testosterone ephakeme. Lokho kudala isimo sokujikeleza, okungadala ukuqhutshwa kocansi okuthuthukile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ukudla kwe-Aphrodisiac

Ukudla okuthile kungakhuphula ukuvusa futhi kukwenze ufune isikhathi esincane phakathi kwamashidi. Uma ugcwalisa ipuleti lakho ngalokhu kudla (ngenhloso noma cha), ungahle unikeze uphethiloli othe xaxa kunjini yakho.

Utshwala nezidakamizwa

Ngabe ingilazi yewayini elibomvu ikwenza uthinte ngaphansi kwebhande? Awuwedwa. Yize utshwala nezinye izinto kungaphazamisa ukusebenza kocansi, empeleni kungenza ukuthi uvuswe kakhulu ukuqala. Lokho kungenxa yokuthi zikhulula izithiyo zakho futhi zikushiye uzizwa uthambeke kakhulu kunalokho obungaba yikho uma ungasangulukile.

Ubungqingili

Ubungqingili yisihloko esiphikiswa kakhulu phakathi kwabahlinzeki bezokunakekelwa kwempilo. Ukushayela ucansi kwawo wonke umuntu kuhlukile.

Kepha uma uzizwa ungakhululekile ngezifiso zakho zocansi futhi uthola ukuthi ziphazamisa impilo yakho yansuku zonke, njengekhono lokukhiqiza noma lokwakha ubudlelwano, ngakho-ke kufanele ukuhlole.

Izimbangela ezithinta uhlelo lokuzala lwabesifazane

Abesifazane beCisgender nabantu ababelwe abesifazane ngesikhathi sokuzalwa (i-AFAB) bangazizwa bevuswa kakhulu ngenxa yalezi zizathu:

Umjikelezo wokuya esikhathini

Izinsuku zomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini zigcwele ukushintsha kwamahomoni kanye nemicimbi eyenzelwe ukwenza kusebenze ukushayela kwakho kobulili.

Isibonelo, abanye abantu babika ukuthi bazizwa bevuleke kalula phakathi nesikhathi somjikelezo wabo, noma cishe izinsuku eziyi-14 ngaphambi kokuqala kwesikhathi sabo.

Lokho kumayelana nesikhathi se-ovulation. Ngokuya kwemvelo, lokho kunengqondo. I-ovulation yilapho uzokhula kakhulu futhi ukwazi ukukhulelwa kakhulu. Umzimba wakho uphendulela ukushayela kwakho kobulili ukukhulisa amathuba okuzala.

Abanye babika ukuthi bazizwa bavuleke ngaphambi nje kwesikhathi sabo. Uma unesikhathi sakho, i-pelvis yakho igcwele kakhulu uketshezi, okungaqala ukuvusa ucansi.

Ngokufanayo, abanye abantu bathanda ukuya ocansini esikhathini sabo. Igazi linikeza izinto zokuthambisa zemvelo. Ingozi yokukhulelwa nayo iphansi, noma kungenjalo zero.

Isinye esigcwele

I-clitoris, isitho sowesifazane sangasese, kanye ne-urethra kuhlanganiswe ngokuqinile okhalweni lwakho. Lapho isinye sigcwele, kungabeka ingcindezi kulezo zindawo ezibucayi, ezingavusa.

Ukukhulelwa

Ukukhulelwa kungenza izinto ezihlekisayo kudrayivu yakho yocansi. Ezinsukwini zokuqala nasemavikini, ushintsho kuma-hormone kungenzeka ukuthi ubone okubomvu - kumlingani wakho, okungukuthi.

Izimbangela ezithinta uhlelo lokuzala lwabesilisa

Uma abesilisa be-cisgender nabantu ababelwe owesilisa ngesikhathi sokuzalwa (AMAB) bezithola bevuswa njalo, lezi zimbangela zingaba yingxenye yesizathu:

Ukuxhumana njalo

Nge-genitalia engaphandle komzimba, ukuxubha njalo, ukudonsa, nokuthinta kungaba yisikhumbuzo esicashile ngemisebenzi yezocansi. Lokho kungaholela ekuvukeni njalo.

Ukushaya indlwabu njalo

Kukholakala ukuthi amadoda acabanga ngokuya ocansini kakhulu kunabesifazane. Impela, ucwaningo luthi abesilisa bacabanga ngakho kancane, kepha kancane.

Kodwa-ke, kunenye into abayenza kakhulu engaba nomthelela ekuvukeni: Amadoda ashaya indlwabu kaningi, ngokusho kocwaningo oluthile. Lokhu kungaholela ekuvukeni kaningi.

Ukuvuka okungakanani kukhulu kakhulu?

Akuyona neze into embi ukuba ne-horny njalo. Ukushayela ngocansi kuyinto enempilo, njengoba kunjalo nangocansi.

Kepha uma ucabanga ukuthi ukuvuka kwakho njalo kungena kwezinye izici zempilo yakho, ungahle uthande ukucabanga ukukhuluma nodokotela noma owelapha ngokocansi. Bangakusiza ukuthi uhlole ukusebenza kokuziphatha kwakho ngokocansi.

Uma ukuvusa inkanuko kanye nesidingo sokuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni kwezocansi kuzwakala kuphoqelekile, noma unesifiso esiphoqayo sokuzisebenzisa, kungadingeka ukuthi ukhulume ngalezi zikhalazo ezingaphansi. Lokhu kungaba yizimpawu zokuphazamiseka kwe-hypersexual.

Vele, ukuvula "njalo" komuntu othile kungahluka kakhulu kunomunye. Kuyasiza ukukhuluma nodokotela mayelana nale micabango nezifiso. Ngaleyo ndlela, ungathola isibambo ukuthi ngabe ajwayelekile yini, noma uma udinga ukufuna ukwelashwa.

Okufanele ukwenze ukwehlisa i-libido yakho

Uma ufuna ukunciphisa i-sex drive yakho, izindlela ezimbalwa zokwelashwa zingasiza. Ekugcineni, kungadingeka ukuthi ukhulume nodokotela ukuze uthole ukuqonda okungcono kwezinkinga ezingaba khona ezidlala ekuvukeni kwakho njalo.

Yenza ucansi njalo

Ubulili bungaba nempilo engaphezu kobudlelwano bakho. Kungasiza ekunciphiseni ukucindezeleka futhi kulawule ama-hormone akho, futhi. Uma uya ocansini njalo, ungazizwa wenelisekile futhi ungabi nesifiso esingacimeki.

Zivocavoce

Luhlobo oluhlukile lokuzibandakanya ngokomzimba, kepha ngokuqinisekile yilolo olungakusiza ekunciphiseni okunye kwalolo qhekeko lwezocansi. Ukuzivocavoca kukhipha amanye amakhemikhali namahomoni afanayo njengokuya ocansini. Kungasiza ukuguqula amandla akho abe yimiphetho enempilo, nokukhiqiza.

Ukushaya indlwabu

Uma nje ukushaya indlwabu kungaphazamisi umsebenzi wakho, ubudlelwano bomuntu siqu, noma okunye ukuzibophezela, kuyindlela emnandi yokwazi umzimba wakho, okuthandayo, kanye nezifiso zakho.

Thola izindawo zokudala

Uma ufuna ukusebenzisa lawo mandla entweni engahlangene nezocansi, cabanga ukuthola izinto zokuzilibazisa noma amathuba wokuzithandela angakusiza ukuthi usebenzise lolo thando kwenye indawo.

Ukudla okudlela endlini

I-libido yakho ingashintsha usuku nosuku. Impela iyashintsha kuyo yonke impilo yakho.

Uma uzizwa sengathi uvuswa njalo, lokho kungenzeka kungabi yinto embi. Ukushayela ucansi okunempilo kungaba yimfanelo enhle.

Kepha uma ucabanga ukuthi isifiso sakho sokuzibandakanya ocansini siphazamisa izibopho zakho zosuku nosuku, cabanga ukubona udokotela noma owelapha ngokocansi.

Bangakusiza ukuthi ubheke izingqinamba zezempilo ezingase zibe nomthelela ekufisweni kwakho okungafakwanga. Bangakusiza nokuthi uthole izindlela zokuyisebenzisa.