Kungani Sishintshe Indlela Esikhuluma Ngayo Ngemizimba Yabesifazane

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Mhlawumbe uzwile ukuthi ukuvuma lapho wenze iphutha kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokukulungisa. Hhayi-ke, kuphephile ukusho ukuthi iningi le-intanethi-Shape.com elifakiwe lifaka okungahambi kahle ngezindaba eziqhathanisa, eziklelayo, noma ezifaka kuhlu iqembu labesifazane ngemizimba yazo noma ngezitho ezithile zomzimba. Ngokuqonde ngqo, sikhuluma ngohlu "oluhamba phambili", olufana nolwethu I-The Best Bodies of 2012's Dancing with the Stars kanye ne-Top 10 Best-Dressed Fit Females kuma-Grammys ka-2012, womabili lawo, ngaphandle kwezinhloso ezimbi ezivela ku ozakwabo ababashicilela ngaleso sikhathi futhi ngaphandle kokuthi bathole ukuchofozwa okuningi, yizindaba ebesingasoze senza ngendlela efanayo namuhla ngo-2017.

Asigcini nje ngokwenza kabusha lezi zinhlobo zezindaba ukuze sinikeze ukuphakama okuqinile (ngazo zonke izindlela zegama), abesifazane be-badass esibathandayo nabazizwa bephefumulelwe, kepha sikwenza umsebenzi wansuku zonke ukugubha konke abesifazane ngamandla abo, ukuqina, ukuzibophezela kwabo, kanye nesibindi-akukho nokukodwa okuhlobene nokubukeka kwabo. Sesikushilo lokho, lapho sibona ukuhlehla odabeni lwakamuva olushicilelwe yiVogue.com, enesihloko esithi "Izidumbu Ezingcono Kakhulu ZaseVictoria Zaso Sonke Isikhathi, Kusukela ku-Gisele Bündchen kuya kuBella Hadid," sasazi ukuthi ngeke sivele sibike ngokusabela njenge indaba evamile yezindaba. Ngoba ingxenye yesibopho sethu ekuqhubekiseni ingxoxo phambili ukuhambisana nalezo zindaba ezindala esingaziqhenyi ngazo-futhi siphinda kabili isithembiso sethu sokuba yizwi (elinomsindo) ekunyakazeni okulungile komzimba.

Uma uphuthelwe yi-buzz, I-Vogue Ingaphansi komlilo (aka isiphepho sokuphawula kuTwitter) ngendaba abayishicilele ngaphambi kweVictoria's Secret Fashion Show ngoLwesibili ebusuku, equkethe izithombe zamamodeli kusukela kuhlelo lombukiso olwaqala ngo-1995 kuze kube namuhla. Ngokuhambisana nokudingida indlela ababukeka ngayo nangezimpahla zabo, le ndaba iphinde yaphawula ukuthi iVictoria's Secret, ebingene emanzini ashisayo ngenxa yokuntula ukwehlukahlukana, ikhethe imizimba eminingi enemisipha nemidlalo muva nje. Noma kunjalo, uhlobo lwezingubo zangaphansi akumele lufake amamodeli anosayizi ongeziwe embukisweni-into ebibonakala ivusa umthunzi ocashile ku-Ashley Graham, nento ebesiyibiza ngo-2015. I-Vogue bathuthukisa le ndaba ku-Twitter, abasebenzisi bayashesha ukuphendula, bethi ukumane bakhethe ukufaka kuphela lezi zinhlobo ezikhethiwe njengezihamba phambili "ezihlukaniswa njengokuhlazisa umzimba." (Funda isayensi ye-fat-shaming, futhi uzobona ukuthi ingaba yingozi kangakanani ngempela.)

"Kwenzeka kanjani lokhu futhi kube yinto?" umsebenzisi oyedwa wabhala. "Yonke imizimba yabo iyamangalisa yingakho behla ngomgwaqo ocwebezelayo begqoke izingubo zabo zangaphansi!" Omunye uvele wabuza, "Kodwa, futhi, kungani siqhathanisa imizimba yabesifazane?" Abanye bacele ukuthi abakwa-mag basebenzise ukufinyelela kwabo "ukukhulisa ukuzethemba, hhayi ukukucekela phansi." Ekugcineni, imizwa evela kwabaphawulayo yayingekona nje kuphela ukuthi ukwahlulela abantu besifazane ngokubukeka kwabo (ngisho nama-supermodels ku-lingerie) kwakuwumkhuba wokubonisa ubulili sonke esingathanda ukuwubona uphela, kodwa futhi ukukhathazeka ngokuthi umkhuba usiza ukukhuthaza ubuhle obungenangqondo noma ukufaneleka komzimba.

Nansi into: I-Vogue akayedwa. Kodwa ngenkathi kuyiqiniso lokho Umumofuthi eminye imikhiqizo engenakubalwa iye yathumela imijikelezo efanayo esikhathini esedlule, empeleni sikhuthazwa yilolu hlobo lwamazwana asisizile ukuba siziqhelelanise nalezi zindaba "zemizimba emihle" eseziphelelwe yisikhathi. Sithanda ukuthi izingxoxo zethu ezihlangene zithuthukile. Kuyingxenye yokuthi kungani saqala ukunyakaza kwe-Love My Shape cishe eminyakeni emibili eyedlule, nokuthi kungani ukubandakanywa nokuqina komzimba kuyindlela yethu yokwenza izinto lapha. #LoveMyShape akuyona indaba (yize sinenqwaba yazo). I-#LoveMyShape akuwona umkhankaso wenkundla yezokuxhumana (yebo, yiba nalokho, futhi). I- # LoveMyShape iyindlela nje yokucabanga, yokuzibonisa okuthile ozithandayo-into esethemba ukuthi iba yimvelo yesibili kwabesifazane abaningi. Ngoba ukuzizwa uphilile futhi ujabulile kungenxa konke umzimba.

Ingabe sisazokunikeza imininingwane yangaphakathi yokuthi osaziwayo abafana no-Khloé Kardashian no-Julianne Hough bathola kanjani imizimba yabo emangalisayo? Yebo, ngoba ubani othi izinkanyezi kuphela okufanele zithole ukufinyelela kubaqeqeshi abahamba phambili? Ngabe sisazokusiza ukufeza izinhloso zakho zokuphila kahle, noma ngabe ziyini? Yebo, ngoba ukuphila impilo enempilo kusho ukuphila impilo ende nejabulisayo. Ngabe sisazokusiza ukunciphisa umzimba noma ukuqina uma ngabe yilokho okufunayo? Isihogo yebo, ngoba imizimba yizinto ezinamandla amakhulu, futhi ukuchoboza izinhloso zakho kuzwakala kumangalisa. Kepha futhi sizolokhu sikukhumbuza ukuthi uzithande ngqo ukuthi unjani, ukuthi i-Personal Best yomuntu wonke ibukeka yehlukile, nokuthi ukuthatha usuku lokuphumula (noma ezintathu) akudingi ukuthi uzitholele - uyakweleta.

Ekupheleni kosuku, impendulo enamandla evela kule ndaba yakamuva ingenye futhi isikhumbuzi kithi sonke sokuthi kufanele sinake kakhulu indlela esikhuluma ngayo ngemizimba yabesifazane.

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