Ukujula okulibazisekile

Ukujula okubambezelekile yisimo sezokwelapha lapho owesilisa engakwazi ukukhipha khona. Kungenzeka ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini noma ngokuvuselelwa mathupha nomlingani noma ngaphandle kwakhe. Ukujula kulapho isidoda sikhishwa khona ethangeni.

Iningi labesilisa likhipha umuthi ngaphakathi kwemizuzu embalwa liqale ukugxila ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini. Amadoda ane-ejaculation ebambezelekile angakwazi ukukhipha i-ejaculate noma angakwazi kuphela ukukhipha ngomzamo omkhulu ngemuva kokuya ocansini isikhathi eside (ngokwesibonelo, imizuzu engama-30 kuye kwengama-45).

Ukujula okulibazisekile kungaba nezimbangela ezingokwengqondo noma zomzimba.

Izimbangela ezivamile zengqondo zifaka:

• Isizinda senkolo esenza umuntu abuke ucansi njengesono
• Ukungabi nokuheha kozakwethu
• Isimo esidalwa umkhuba wokushaya indlwabu ngokweqile
• Izehlakalo ezihlukumezayo (njengokutholwa ukushaya indlwabu noma ukuya ocansini ngokungemthetho, noma ukufunda umlingani womuntu kunenkinga)

Ezinye izinto, njengokuthukuthelela umlingani, zingabandakanyeka.

Izimbangela zomzimba zingabandakanya:

• Ukuvinjelwa kwamapayipi isidoda esidlula kuwo
• Ukusetshenziswa kwemithi ethile
• Izifo zesistimu yezinzwa, njengokushaywa unhlangothi noma ukulimala kwezinzwa emgogodleni noma emuva
• Ukulimala kwemithambo ngesikhathi sokuhlinzwa ethangeni

Ukushukumisa ipipi ngesidlidlizi noma enye idivayisi kunganquma ukuthi unenkinga yomzimba yini. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuyinkinga yesistimu yezinzwa. Ukuhlolwa kwesistimu yezinzwa (i-neurological) kungaveza ezinye izinkinga zemizwa ezixhunywe ne-ejaculation ebambezelekile.

I-ultrasound ingakhombisa ukuvinjelwa kwamapayipi we-ejaculatory.

Uma ungakaze ukhishwe nganoma yiluphi uhlobo lokukhuthaza, bheka udokotela we-urologist ukuthola ukuthi ngabe inkinga inesizathu somzimba yini. (Izibonelo zokukhuthaza zingabandakanya amaphupho amanzi, ukushaya indlwabu, noma ukuya ocansini.)

Bona i-Therapist egxile ezinkingeni ze-ejaculation uma ungakwazi ukukhipha i-ejaculate ngesikhathi esamukelekayo. Ukwelashwa ngokocansi kuvame ukubandakanya bobabili abalingani. Ezimweni eziningi, umelaphi uzokufundisa ngempendulo yezocansi. Uzofunda nokuthi ungaxhumana kanjani futhi uqondise umlingani wakho ukuthi anikeze ukukhuthazwa okulungile.

Ukwelashwa kuvame ukufaka uchungechunge lwezabelo "zomsebenzi wesikole". Esikhathini sobumfihlo sekhaya lakho, wena nomlingani wakho nihlanganyela ezenzweni zocansi ezinciphisa ukusebenza kwengcindezi futhi zigxile enjabulweni.

Imvamisa, ngeke uhlanganyele ucansi isikhathi esithile. Ngalesi sikhathi, uzofunda kancane kancane ukujabulela ukuphuma kwe-ejaculation ngezinye izinhlobo zokukhuthaza.

Ezimweni lapho kunenkinga khona ngobudlelwano noma ukuntuleka kwesifiso sobulili, ungadinga ukwelashwa ukuze uthuthukise ubudlelwano bakho nokusondelana okungokomzwelo.

Kwesinye isikhathi, i-hypnosis ingaba ukwengeza okuwusizo ekwelashweni. Lokhu kungaba wusizo uma umlingani oyedwa engazimisele ukubamba iqhaza ekwelashweni. Ukuzama ukuzelapha le nkinga kaningi akuphumeleli.

Uma umuthi kungaba imbangela yenkinga, xoxa nezinye izinketho zezidakamizwa nomhlinzeki wakho wezokunakekelwa kwempilo. Ungalokothi uyeke ukuthatha noma imuphi umuthi ngaphandle kokuqala ukhulume nomhlinzeki wakho.

Ukwelashwa kuvame ukudinga izikhathi eziyi-12 kuye kwezingu-18. Izinga lokuphumelela eliphakathi nendawo liyi-70% kuya ku-80%.

Uzoba nomphumela ongcono uma:

• Unomlando owedlule wokwaneliseka kwezocansi.
• Inkinga ibilokhu ingekho isikhathi eside.
• Unemizwa yesifiso sobulili.
• Uzwa uthando noma ukukhanga kumlingani wakho wezocansi.
• Ushukumiseleka ukuba welashwe.
• Awunazo izinkinga ezinkulu ezingokwengqondo.

Uma imithi idala inkinga, umhlinzeki wakho angancoma ukuthi ushintshe noma umise umuthi, uma kungenzeka. Ungalulama ngokugcwele uma lokhu kungenziwa.

Uma inkinga ingelashwa, okulandelayo kungenzeka:

• Ukugwema ukuxhumana ngokocansi
• Isifiso sobulili esivinjelwe
• Ukucindezeleka ebuhlotsheni
• Ukunganeliseki ngokocansi
• Kunzima ngokukhulelwa nokukhulelwa

Uma wena nomlingani wakho nizama ukukhulelwa, isidoda singaqoqwa kusetshenziswa ezinye izindlela.

Ukuba nesimo sengqondo esikahle mayelana nobulili bakho nezitho zobulili kusiza ekuvimbeleni ukubambezeleka kokubambezeleka Qaphela ukuthi awukwazi ukuziphoqa ukuba uphendule ngokocansi, njengoba nje ungeke uziphoqe ukuba ulale noma ujuluke. Uma uzama ukuthola impendulo ethile yezocansi, kuba nzima ukuyiphendula.

Ukwehlisa ingcindezi, gxila enjabulweni yesikhashana. Ungakhathazeki ngokuthi uzowukhipha umuthi noma nini. Umlingani wakho kufanele adale umoya okhululekile, futhi akumele akufake ingcindezi yokuthi ngabe usudlalile yini noma cha. Xoxa ngokukhululekile nganoma yikuphi ukwesaba noma ukukhathazeka, njengokwesaba ukukhulelwa noma izifo, nomlingani wakho.

Ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-ejaculatory; Ubulili - ukubambezeleka kokubambezeleka; Ukujula okulindile; Ukweqa; Ukungabi nenzalo - ukubambezeleka kokubambezeleka

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