Amathiphu ayi-7 we-Orgasm Engcono

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• Amathuluzi namathoyizi
• Pump it Up
• Kwenze Kushise
• Ukuxhumana Kwengqondo Yomzimba
• Spice Up Lezo Zinzwa
• Fake kuze Ulenze
• Ukhohlwe Erogenous Zones
• Buyekeza kwe-

Kungabonakala njengokusobala-ukuya ocansini, bese uzizwa umuhle, akunjalo? Kepha akuhlali kunjalo. “Hhayi ukuthi lesi yisambulo esikhulu noma yini kodwa, ngokungafani nabafana, sidinga ukuba njalo esimweni sengqondo ukuya ocansini!" kusho uDkt. Alyssa Dweck, umbhali ohlanganyele I-V ingeyesitho sangasese sowesifazane. “Uma sicindezelekile, sikhungathekile, sizizwa singathandeki, sicabanga ngelondolo, izingane, umsebenzi, izinkinga zemali, nanoma yini enye impilo esiletha ngayo, maningi amathuba okuthi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umlingani wethu uzama kangakanani, sizophumelela. kungenzeka ube ne-orgasm njengoba u-lady Gaga ukujoyina indlu yezindela. "

Njengoba kunezithiyo eziningi endleleni yethu, singakwazi ukufeza lokho 'ukumemeza O' okuhlanganisa konke esikubona kumabhayisikobho? Ongoti bathi kuyinto kungenzeka. Kunezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene ze-orgasms (ezinye ziyajula kunezinye) futhi noma ngabe uhlala une-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi, ungahle ube engcono. Nakhu ukuthi:

Amathuluzi namathoyizi

Akudingeki ube usosayensi we-rocket ukuze wazi ukuthi i-foreplay ilingana nama-orgasms. Kepha ukunweba nokuqinisa lokho kudlala ngaphambili kungenza lawo ma-orgasm ashube kakhulu. “Linda kuze kufike umvuthwandaba kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina lapho ungakwazi khona ukuzibamba,” kweluleka uDkt. Dweck.

Ukwakha ukulindela nakho kuyisihluthulelo. "Uma ingqondo yakho ivuswa, kuvame ukuba lula ukuthi umzimba wakho ulandele," kusho uPatty Brisben, umsunguli wenkampani yemikhiqizo evusa inkanuko iPure Romance. Uphakamisa ukuthi uzame 'inhlamvu' elawulwa kude, njenge-Hanky ​​Panky. "Namathisela inhlamvu engutsheni yakho yangaphansi bese unikeza umlingani wakho irimothi; isidlo sakusihlwa asikaze sibe mnandi kangaka!"

Ngaphandle 'kwamathoyizi' azoqinisa ubumnandi, amathuluzi afana nokuthambisa angasiza nawo. “Ngesizathu esithile, abesifazane bavame ukwesaba ukusebenzisa ilube,” kusho isazi sezocansi esigunyazwe yibhodi uShanna Katz. "Ukuthanjiswa kwemvelo akuyona inkomba yokuthi uvuke kanjani, futhi izinto eziningi zinganciphisa ukuthambisa, njengokulawula ukubeletha kwamahomoni, ama-antihistamine, kanye nengcindezi."

Esikhundleni sokumamatheka nje ubekezele, bamba ibhodlela le-glycerin-free, i-lube esekwe emanzini noma i-super-slick silicone lube lube luhlaza bese izinto zivuma futhi zibe zasendle! "Kuvame ukuba nombono oyiphutha phakathi kwabantu abaseminyakeni yama-20 nengama-30 ukuthi igrisi iyadingeka kuphela uma kunenkinga edinga ukulungiswa, njengokuma kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane okuvame ukuza nokuguga," kusho uBrisben. "Kodwa-ke lokho akulona iqiniso-igrisi ingeyabo bonke abantu, noma ngabe isiphi ubudala! Empeleni, amaphesenti angama-65 abesifazane akhombisile ukuthi ukusebenzisa izinto zokugcoba kuthatha ucansi kusuka nje engqondweni kuya ekushayeni."

Pump it Up

Ngaphambi kokuvumela umqondo wakho uhambe Lapho (cha, asikhulumi ngokwandisa usayizi wakhe, um, iyunithi), le thiphu imayelana nokukhulisa iqembu lemisipha ongalisebenzisi ejimini. Impela uzwile ngamaKegels, inqubo yokuqinisa imisipha esinqeni se-pelvic.

"Ukwenza izivivinyo zeKegel njalo kuzoholela ekunciphiseni okuqinile ngesikhathi se-orgasm," kuchaza uLynn Wolfbrandt, uchwepheshe wemikhiqizo kuVibrators.com. Ukwenza i-Kegel, yenza inkontileka yemisipha elawula ukugeleza komchamo, ikhiphe umoya njengoba ungena, bese uhogela njengoba ukhulula. Yenza lokhu ngokuphindaphinda kuka-10, kathathu ngosuku.

"Ungenza lezi zivivinyo noma nini, noma kuphi, futhi akekho ozokwazi," kusho uWolfbrandt. Ukwenza uKegels abe yinselelo enkulu, uphakamisa ukuthi kuzanywe uLelo Luna Balls, owenziwe waduma ngale ncwadi Ama-50 Shades eGrey. Noma zama ukuzijwayeza ngethuluzi elifana neMagic Banana.

Kwenze Kushise

Izinga lokushisa livame ukunganakwa njengokuhlukahluka okubalulekile ekufezeni ama-orgasms anamandla kakhulu, futhi asikhulumi nje ngokushisa phakathi kwamashidi!

"Ucwaningo lwaseDashi luye lwabonisa ukuthi abesifazane banamathuba acishe abe ngamaphesenti angama-30 okuthola i-orgasm uma izinyawo zabo zifudumele kunezibandayo," kusho uDylan Thrasher, umqeqeshi wezobudlelwano nombhali we Indlela Yokuthola Nokudala Uthando Oluhlala Njalo. "Yize kungejwayelekile okwemvelo, ukufaka amasokisi ngesikhathi socansi kuzokusiza ukuthi ufeze i-orgasm enamandla amakhulu, noma okungcono, zama ukusikhipha unyawo usebenzisa amafutha abilayo ashubile ukuze uvuselele izinto."

Ukuxhumana Kwengqondo Yomzimba

Uma kuziwa ekujabuleleni ucansi, kwabesifazane, 'kungokwengqondo' kakhulu kunakwabesilisa. "Abantu bathi ubuchopho yisitho socansi esibaluleke kakhulu futhi ngesizathu esizwakalayo," kusho uTrasasher. "Kubalulekile ukuthulisa leyo micabango ecasulayo ephazamisa izikhathi ezisondelene."

Ukuxhumeka okungokomzwelo kuyasiza futhi. "Ukuba nokuxhumana okuqinile nomlingani wakho kuqinisa ikhwalithi yokwenza uthando futhi ikakhulukazi, ama-orgasms," kusho u-Thrasher. "Owesifazane kufanele azizwe ethandwa, eziswa, eqondwa, emukelwa futhi efunwa [ngumlingani wakhe.]"

Ungakhohlwa lawo maphupho. Ukucabanga ngomlingani wakho noma ngisho nokufunda inoveli evusa inkanuko efana Ama-50 Shades eGrey lungenza ucansi lushise kakhulu.

Spice Up Lezo Zinzwa

Ngaphambi kokungena ebhizinisini, cabanga ngokudlala 'okulula' ukuze uthole izinzwa zakho zokucela okwengeziwe, uKatz weluleka. "Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukubhucungwa okuthambile okunamafutha okubhucunga anephunga elimnandi noma ukushaya ngesinqe, ukudlala ngezinzwa zakho kungavula abanye abantu isikhathi esingaphezu kwehora socansi lomlomo. Cabangela ukungeza ukuvala amehlo, izimpaphe, i-satin, uboya, amakhandlela, kanye nokunye ekhabetheni lakho elihehayo ukuze uthole izindlela ezehlukene ezithokozisayo zokuthi udlale ngendlela evusa amadlingozi ngaphambi kokuthi ugibele umjaho wekamelo lokulala,” uyanezela.

Fake kuze Ulenze

Cha, asisho amanga lawo ma-orgasms! Kunalokho, yenza sengathi uyazi ukuthi wenzani ekamelweni, ngisho noma ungazi, uKatz weluleka.

“Uma uzethemba ngokwengeziwe, kuba ngocansi, futhi kuba ngocansi, kulapho wena nophathina wakho nizijabulela kakhulu, futhi nizoba nokuzethemba okwengeziwe,” kuchaza yena. "Ngakho-ke noma ungenaso isiqiniseko sokuzama ukunyakaza okusha noma isikhundla, noma ukuzama isenzo okokuqala ngqa, khumbula nje ukuphefumula, bese ukwenze sengathi unesikhathi esihle kakhulu sempilo yakho!"

Ukhohlwe Erogenous Zones

Akukhona konke mayelana ne-G-spot. Ngokusho komsunguli weLoveology University uDkt Ava Cadell, abantu baphuthelwa ama-orgasms amakhulu aqhamuka kwezinye izindawo ezivame ukukhohlwa.

"Ukuvuselelwa kwezingono kukodwa kungaveza i-orgasm. Kwabesifazane, ukuphucwa amabele kanye nezingono kuncela ukukhipha i-oxytocin, ikhemikhali elibenza bazizwe sengathi bayathandana. Le yindawo amadoda amaningi athokozela ukuyikhuthaza ngesikhathi sokudlala kodwa angavamile ukuyicabanga njenge ukuba namandla we-orgasmic. "

Buqamama kancane, kunendawo yobumnandi eyaziwa nge-A-spot. "Lokho kumele i-Anterior Fornix, eyaziwa nangokuthi i-Epicenter noma i-Female Prostate," kuchaza uCadell. "Itholakala ngaphakathi esithweni sangasese odongeni olungaphezulu ngisho nangaphezulu kune-G-spot. Ingavuselelwa ngomunwe, umthondo, noma ithoyizi locansi."

Futhi uma ufuna leyo ndawo ye-G engaqondakali ngezinye izikhathi, uDkt. Cadell uyachaza ukuthi ngokuvamile itholakala "ngaphakathi kwesitho sangasese sowesifazane phakathi kuka-11 no-1 ezimpondweni, kanti u-12:00 ewashini elicatshangelwayo elibheke enkabeni."

Ukuzijabulisa okuhle, hlanganisa wonke ama-primal zone. "Bafo, mthumeleni komunye umhlaba ngokuhlanganisa ukuqabulana, ukudlala izingono, kanye nokuthintana," kusho uCadell.

Buyekeza kwe-